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Yes, way better than the general population. Both, hardcore and soft. Personally, i prefer retreats that are more on the hardcore side but most people don't. Vipassana is the most hardcore i participate in (for lack of options here in Brazil). Hard to put in numbers because i spend 1 month living in a meditation center created by Osho followers, and i worked in a 23 days festival during that time. We had hundreds of people coming and going every week, and lots of therapies to experiment with during the day plus all Osho meditations (like the dynamic and kundalini) every day. There i participate in 5~6 tantra workshops. In the end, i did a 3-day retreat on self-inquiry but this one, unfortunately, wasn't popular as the other ones who are more "complex" and full of movement, screaming, catharsis etc. As always, there is less interest in the "simple and hardcore" practices. Women especially seem to prefer the kind of retreats with lots of dance, singing, crying, and not that much of more "serious practices", i doubt most of them would be able to sit and meditate for 30 minutes straight. Recently i did a 5-day Tantra retreat, there were 30 women to 5 men. Just by being there, you prove that you are pretty open-minded but most people aren't really serious spiritual seekers. There i have met only a few women that seem to be more "conscious", beyond mere feminist book reading but actually doing some soul-searching and deconstructing reality. Only one seemed to flirt with stage yellow, most are stuck in solid green (which isn't bad at all but not enough for a true high-consciousness relationship).

Definitely not that many at all. As i said above, i am familiar with solid green places like meditation centers, tantra centers, did lots of retreats, courses, workshops with mostly stage green women and it is rare even in those environments. One thing is what they TALK and another is how they act. Most sold green girls will speak beautiful ideas about relationships and act the opposite way in practice.

By being social.

I know that, it is just really hard to find those girls. In my estimate, they account for less than 1% of girls, even in stage green circles like tantric courses and workshops (i did a few of those). Playing games to me now is just so cringe and time-wasting that i am practically going MGTOW for the lack of high-consciousness girls in my path... But i keep looking for those. I am even moving to a bigger city to have a better chance.

Yeah, i have watched and listened to all his videos + all his programs multiple times throughout the years. Nothing about him is like "all other youtube guys", if you think like this, you clearly aren't paying much attention, so nothing will help you. Also, you can find LOTS of his infield in those old youtube videos. Altough i am in favor of taking massive action and not being a theory junkie, i really doubt you are above "in air" theory. Changes are, your understanding of gaming and pick-up is shallow and just plain wrong.

I stopped playing games (mostly) with women for some time now and i am getting flaked left and right. Honestly, most women are not ready to an honest relationship. I am talking about "i like you, i make sure you know it and i treat you good", women find this kind of relationship boring.

Everything in this paragraph is wrong. Laziness + inability to recognize gold material will ruin your life.

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You just did lol Would you talk about porn with your parents or a boss? Probably not. This is not some everyday topic stop pretending it is. Also, it very much depends on a lot of factors, you can certainly talk about porn with female strangers if you have the right frame, high social calibration, confidence etc, but it is likely you don't. And if you talk about polarizing topics, don't act surprised when you polarize people. Some will like, some won't, that's life. Not that it is wrong to talk about polarizing topics but you have to be ok with people not liking it. If you want everyone to somewhat like you, just talk about vanilla topics, but don't expect anyone to love you either.

Vomit words, don't think, don't judge. Accept that you are going to say some stupid shit but you are also going to say some genius shit. I assure you that girls will forget the stupid shit you say and remember the fun witty things because of how it made them feel. Especially with girls, they pay attention to your general vibe, not your words. You can speak non-sense but in a fun and charismatic way, people will love you. You can also speak anything with a sexual vibe. Women are masters of this. Flirting is mostly implicit, you can talk about doing groceries but if you put out a sexual vibe, women will get it and play along.

It is possible? When we "direct" our focus to our breathing (or anything else), we are using the "mind", aren't we? I am talking in a dual sense here, because i know someone will talk about how the "mind" is only a concept that in a non-dual perspective doesn't exist. I get this, but it doesn't help me to understand my question. There is anything outside the "mind"?

No, nothing like that stage blue crap. I just know certain behaviors bring inner peace and others bring inner conflict. Nothing to do with good, bad, or morals, just karma (Action and consequences). If i indulge in animalistic behavior, i can eat junkie food all day, the body feels good for a second and shitty for a long time. If i apply self-control and develop a habit of meditation, the body feels uncomfortable for a second and then feel good for a long time. Yeah, everyone does. No one would pursue enlightenment if it felt painful in the end. Well, there is also direct experience... I don't know what you mean by that. Thought creates meaning out of things, meaning calls for feelings. Feelings are always present, but thoughts aren't, necessarily.

Because, as an animal, i naturally act in a toxic/unconscious manner and this brings suffering. Suffering. Bliss, yes, i want it. A chance to feel blissful.

Without self-control we would act like animals (more so). If i am able to sit and watch my breath for 1h despite all contrary thoughts and urges, is because i had to exercise some self-control.

How this relates to the mind and controlling the mind? That makes sense but i don't get it what is your point? Dumb it down a little lol

I have another question? What is concentration, focus, attention? Who controls where attention goes? Based on the answers above, the attention controls itself and so it is all a movie which has been decided all it's moments since forever? These questions about attention are like an existential itch to me... Who decides to sit, meditate and focus on one point for 1h?

Exactly lol Oh God! This is some serious mindfuck! That image is so profound when you put it like that So, is the mind trying to stop/transcend the mind not realizing it is itself?

The thing with sexting is to create a detailed narrative, full of description and emotions, guiding the woman through it. So, i visualize what i would do in a perfect situation and describe that to her via text. I am the rollercoaster, the woman is there for the ride and i show her what is like to ride with me. First i begin with some question or statement that determine if the girl is open to that kind of interaction, a good one is: "hey, i dreamed with you last night". She will be curious and ask about the dream. Now i have full permission to unload the tantric dream. It is important to enter in a kind of flow, typing non-stop, using feelings and intuition above logic, she will get it. When i do it, i enter in flow states similar to the ones i enter when i am gaming in-field, this opens up some higher-creativity and god-like calibration/confidence. Start slow, use a LOT of teasing and hard language like cock, fuck and pussy (not penis, sex or vagina), then when she is "warmed-up" i begin with the tantric shit, basically describing mystical states, cosmic orgasm, non-duality, deep love and stuff like that. The secret is the poetry side of it, she may not fully get it but the whole experience will make her FEEL it. You are wrong. There is a right way to do it, but most guys would fail miserably trying to do this. The girls have to be fully in your frame and you have to be "in-state".

No, we don't, but it is nice.

This isn't some new discovery, you guys just had a wrong perception of game. You can actually game people using spirituality. At any Tantra retreat you find exercises like the one he is using like really long eye contact. Yeah, they work and you can do them with strangers in bars. I have tested this kind of approach in field with much success. I also have done my fair share of sexting using tantric language like "orgasmic oneness", "infinite love", "divine ecstasy" etc, and it works great even with girls that aren't into any of this. This is called strong frame, aka leadership skills.

There is a secret technique called "approach a lot of women" but it requires balls. You said you approached but i doubt it. Cold approaching cures all, unless you are dumb. I have met some PUA's that had YEARS of experience doing cold approach and still SUCK because they were dumb and kept doing the same thing over and over again. If you have half a brain, you can figure out what works and what doesn't by putting yourself in front of lots of girls. But do study anyway, i bet your theory sucks. Search for RSD programs and old youtube material, specially RSD Tyler, Julien and Todd.

If you think you can't and don't want to, there is nothing we can say to change that. Take responsibility for your feelings.

@Karmadhi I don't do online game. The best i do is to do some passive attraction through social media. I show a nice lifestyle, practicing yoga, teach self-development content etc. The fact that i can shamelessly record myself teaching something and put on Instagram for anyone to see is, by itself, a display of great qualities. Once in a while, women show up and the ones i hooked up some time, follow me and keep getting attracted over and over again.