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Vomit words, don't think, don't judge. Accept that you are going to say some stupid shit but you are also going to say some genius shit. I assure you that girls will forget the stupid shit you say and remember the fun witty things because of how it made them feel. Especially with girls, they pay attention to your general vibe, not your words. You can speak non-sense but in a fun and charismatic way, people will love you. You can also speak anything with a sexual vibe. Women are masters of this. Flirting is mostly implicit, you can talk about doing groceries but if you put out a sexual vibe, women will get it and play along.

It is possible? When we "direct" our focus to our breathing (or anything else), we are using the "mind", aren't we? I am talking in a dual sense here, because i know someone will talk about how the "mind" is only a concept that in a non-dual perspective doesn't exist. I get this, but it doesn't help me to understand my question. There is anything outside the "mind"?

No, nothing like that stage blue crap. I just know certain behaviors bring inner peace and others bring inner conflict. Nothing to do with good, bad, or morals, just karma (Action and consequences). If i indulge in animalistic behavior, i can eat junkie food all day, the body feels good for a second and shitty for a long time. If i apply self-control and develop a habit of meditation, the body feels uncomfortable for a second and then feel good for a long time. Yeah, everyone does. No one would pursue enlightenment if it felt painful in the end. Well, there is also direct experience... I don't know what you mean by that. Thought creates meaning out of things, meaning calls for feelings. Feelings are always present, but thoughts aren't, necessarily.

Because, as an animal, i naturally act in a toxic/unconscious manner and this brings suffering. Suffering. Bliss, yes, i want it. A chance to feel blissful.

Without self-control we would act like animals (more so). If i am able to sit and watch my breath for 1h despite all contrary thoughts and urges, is because i had to exercise some self-control.

How this relates to the mind and controlling the mind? That makes sense but i don't get it what is your point? Dumb it down a little lol

I have another question? What is concentration, focus, attention? Who controls where attention goes? Based on the answers above, the attention controls itself and so it is all a movie which has been decided all it's moments since forever? These questions about attention are like an existential itch to me... Who decides to sit, meditate and focus on one point for 1h?

Exactly lol Oh God! This is some serious mindfuck! That image is so profound when you put it like that So, is the mind trying to stop/transcend the mind not realizing it is itself?

The thing with sexting is to create a detailed narrative, full of description and emotions, guiding the woman through it. So, i visualize what i would do in a perfect situation and describe that to her via text. I am the rollercoaster, the woman is there for the ride and i show her what is like to ride with me. First i begin with some question or statement that determine if the girl is open to that kind of interaction, a good one is: "hey, i dreamed with you last night". She will be curious and ask about the dream. Now i have full permission to unload the tantric dream. It is important to enter in a kind of flow, typing non-stop, using feelings and intuition above logic, she will get it. When i do it, i enter in flow states similar to the ones i enter when i am gaming in-field, this opens up some higher-creativity and god-like calibration/confidence. Start slow, use a LOT of teasing and hard language like cock, fuck and pussy (not penis, sex or vagina), then when she is "warmed-up" i begin with the tantric shit, basically describing mystical states, cosmic orgasm, non-duality, deep love and stuff like that. The secret is the poetry side of it, she may not fully get it but the whole experience will make her FEEL it. You are wrong. There is a right way to do it, but most guys would fail miserably trying to do this. The girls have to be fully in your frame and you have to be "in-state".

No, we don't, but it is nice.

This isn't some new discovery, you guys just had a wrong perception of game. You can actually game people using spirituality. At any Tantra retreat you find exercises like the one he is using like really long eye contact. Yeah, they work and you can do them with strangers in bars. I have tested this kind of approach in field with much success. I also have done my fair share of sexting using tantric language like "orgasmic oneness", "infinite love", "divine ecstasy" etc, and it works great even with girls that aren't into any of this. This is called strong frame, aka leadership skills.

There is a secret technique called "approach a lot of women" but it requires balls. You said you approached but i doubt it. Cold approaching cures all, unless you are dumb. I have met some PUA's that had YEARS of experience doing cold approach and still SUCK because they were dumb and kept doing the same thing over and over again. If you have half a brain, you can figure out what works and what doesn't by putting yourself in front of lots of girls. But do study anyway, i bet your theory sucks. Search for RSD programs and old youtube material, specially RSD Tyler, Julien and Todd.

If you think you can't and don't want to, there is nothing we can say to change that. Take responsibility for your feelings.

@Karmadhi I don't do online game. The best i do is to do some passive attraction through social media. I show a nice lifestyle, practicing yoga, teach self-development content etc. The fact that i can shamelessly record myself teaching something and put on Instagram for anyone to see is, by itself, a display of great qualities. Once in a while, women show up and the ones i hooked up some time, follow me and keep getting attracted over and over again.

Who cares? Go learn some cold-approach, put yourself in front of women and let your vibe blow her mind.

Clarity on intent: 100% aligned with your goal, man to woman approach, not that indirect shit like "what time is it?. From moment zero, the girl has to know you are there as a MAN and SHE is being filtered for a possible sexual relationship. Bring your sexual vibe, don't try to be TOO friendly and "harmless". She has to be 100% sure what's up. If you guys suddenly appeared in a bedroom, sex is the next natural step or it is weird? If is weird, you are trying to be her friend, not her lover. This also means 100% commitment to the interaction, put yourself in front of her, talk directly to her, look her dead in the eyes, be present. Freedom from the outcome: Nothing is personal, everything is fun, see whats is funny about it. "Who the hell would have the balls to do that sober?". "How can i make this more epic?". Self-amusement. Focus on vibing, not your creepy agenda, just be with the girl, see her as a human being and create an epic and fun moment together.

1. Write on paper exactly what you want for your life. Be clear, specific and bold. Write exactly WHO you want to be. 2. Create your perfect woman, write all the details. 3. Review your vision DAILY, feeling it like it is DONE and you are in ecstasy about it. 4. Work on your vision, one step at a time. 5. Go learn game, develop god-like social skills, and master cold-approaches. This will make sure you will find the woman you wrote about in step 2. 6. Be on your purpose, never stop, high ambition, always improving. 7. DO NOT COMPROMISE YOUR VISION, not even for your perfect woman (there isn't just one and she won't respect you). 8. Visualize all of that daily. 9. Repeat, adapt, overcome and thrive.

I suggest having also a routine of a more physical school of yoga like Hatha, Vinyasa. Our body is also made of spirit, work with the body and you will be developing spiritually.

Sure. Yeah, there is a whole spectrum you can choose from. There is ways of filtering that are better than others, but i am willing to bet your way sucks as much as the way of 99% guys but instead of dealing with it and improving it, just hide your head in the sand with delusions behind delusions. And even if you do filter as good as you can, it is never 100%, Reality is just ever-changing, you can never account for everything and you are dealing with free human beings, a dynamic variable. The Red Pill Theory is not ALL wrong, i am bound to agree with a lot of their points. By the way, i am NOT a redpiller, as i have my own unique model of reality, the same way i am not a PUA but i learn a lot from pickup. Although i love to play the Devil's advocate and test the arguments that i see here and i have to say: mostly, i am not impressed. I see a lot of rationalizations and "hiding my head in the sand hoping for the best" behavior here. Also, RP guys tend to be stage-blue/orange right-wingers, traditionalists, calling women sluts, pointing out promiscuity as "the end of civilization" etc. I am the opposite of that. If you meet me in person, you will think i am the most happy, chill, "good vibes", open-minded, authentic guy you ever met. The problem is you guys read a post of mine and try to make me fit in a box that fits in your world-virew. I am a living paradox, deal with it. Not true. See? That's what i am talking about. You are just doing wishful thinking here. Head buried deep into the sand. You can be authentic all you want, this won't make anything a "sure thing". Stopp trying to control what you can't, specially if you aren't willing to do the real work. You clearly didn't test any of that. In a way, you are. Never said that. See? Your thinking is too black and white. Is this or that! You are distorting all i said, taking it to a dumb extreme in an attempt to disqualify it. I never said any of that. Again, lots of flaws in that argument. I can just as much affirm that "i have seen too many guys get cheated on for nothing". And that is field-tested by me and anyone who actually have a large dating experience.

Of course.

I am single, travel a lot. ONS doesn't interest me, meaningless, superficial sex is not worth the energy investiment, in my opinion, i prefer to just jerk off. But when i do get involved, i usually date one girl at a time. Of course.

Your projections, bro.

Would you bet half your shit on that belief? Actually, i am more of a "one girl" deep connection, tantric guy, but good try.

I never said to be afraid of any of that.