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Bro, you won't have any self-esteem using society standards. What you need is a intense and abnormal amount of self-love and self-belief even if you seem delusional at first, fuck other people's opinion, nobody knows what you really have been through and nobody ever will. That's the beauty of spiritual practies in my opinion: they transcend any "normal" objections like the need to have good motives to feel good and confident. Realize you can literally feel like you wish, even if the whole world says otherwise. Stand ALONE in your own power. Unshakable. One way of doing it is to meditate deeply on success, and love, and hapiness, and God. One-pointed concentratation for long stretches of time on the above objects until you feel those all the time. Start to feel delusionally good without any apparent reason.

Well, we do do that with other substances (give out freely). People can and do fuck up their lives with porn, food or videogames. I can't see how doctors or psychologists can judge who would be able to handle smoking weed or not.

Dumb/messed-up people will fuck up their life with anything they can. Psychedelics are not for those people.

This is very common and reported in sexual traumas books. Frequently the kid feels shame and guilt for a feeling that they in fact kind of wanted to be involved in that relationship because they felt "good" sometimes during the abuse. Even women who are raped commonly reported to have felt arousal and even had orgasms during the rape, so they feel conflicted, guilty and ashamed, but the general feeling of the experience is a negative one. Kids don't know what they are really doing and adults do often know, so the relationship isn't equal. Kids can think "it might feel good" in the moment but they are usually oblivious of the consequences of that action. Adults are usually much more aware, so the relationship isn't equal. Adults are way more savy, so they can manipulate kids to do what they want and even make the kid feel like they wanted that. That's abusive/manipulative relationship 101. Pedophiles do prey on children because they are a easy target. Imagine a relationship between a 40 old men with a 16 yo girl (even a 18yo girl or more). Is the power balance equal or even close enough? No way.

Well, kids are considered vulnerable because they can't give (valid) consent to sex according to the law (might vary by country), men can give consent. Technically, all sexual interaction between kids and adults is considered rape.

maybe a kick in the mouth, but with love and light

Sorry, i am lazy, maybe someone can explain this for you.

Yes, those are idiotic ideas.

Particularly, i am way more "left" then Lula and part of the PT, he is, at best, center-left and this is clear for a very long time now for the left. BUT, it is what it is. Today i can see that this is the only way possible (until now) of having a semi-leftist government in Brazil. Even with this centrist left, with timid reforms and earned rights for the poor and labor class, we had a VIOLENT reactionary from the rest of the country, we had Dilma's coup, we had Temer which used his brief power to erase decades of progressive advancements, we had Lula's prision, we had the rise of the alt-right etc. Brazil isn't ready for true leftist ideas and Lula is the best we had and have. Lula has his succesful government to back him up. Ciro's plan will NEVER be work if he isn't capable of working with other people and make alliances (proven by his failed campain). Lula all the way right now.

like what?

Ciro would be a great Minister for Lula but Ciro is a awful leader, specially to lead the country. His resentment, his lack of wisdom, inflexibility, arrogance, excessive pride, disonest discourse etc makes him a bad choice even if there was no Bolsonaro, today, i would vote for Lula if the choice was between him and Ciro.

I understand him. Here in Brazil we have Bolsonaro and his followers, much like the MAGA movemente. It has been one of the few things that get deep on my nerves, i feel so much anger, frustration almost daily because the situation seem hopeless, people are irreversebly brainwashed and they will bring the entire country to a deeper hole that it is right now and it is impossible to envision how bad it can get. It feels like living in an insane mental hospital and being rules by an insane majority.

Why do you think this is the case for you and not necessarely for most people?

GOD DAMN it is hard to find ONE successful entrepreneur or business people that aren't right-wing or have moronic politic stances. Here in Brazil we are dealing with Bolsonaro (extreme right-wing moron) and he still has a large number of followers despite a desastrous (what a surprise) 4 year mandate (running for re-election right now). Like TRUMP and his voters in USA. I read everywhere to find a good mastermind group with successful people to hang out and learn from them but god damn it, almost all of them are right-wing and vote for Bolsonaro. I am openly against him and left-wing, i can't stand talk with those people for long because they usually have the usual right-wing talking point (against the "woke", mildly homophobic, anti-feminism, mildly racist, toxic masculinity, christian, pro-guns etc). Every business/entrepreneur group i find is full of those people, rarely i find someone who is AT LEAST a healthy orange/green (most are red/blue/orange). Apart from them, almost all people i can surround myself with is mediocre AT BEST, most are losers, to be honest. Should i shut the hell up and endure their moronic political views? Should i take a stand/debate them? Should i go SOLO on life and be my own influence and pray to GOD this works? I always had awful influences, almost zero healthy successful references in my life. This is so frustrating!

@Leo Palhano

Exactly $223.004,00 in patrimony and $24.777 in income

I guess my best choice is to shut the fuck up and pretend i don't strongly disagree with them.

He just uses complicated words, this does not mean he deeply understand anything. He deliberately LIES as he compares Lula with Bolsonaro which only helps Bolsonaro. This is a LACK of integrity in my book. He absolutely LACKS open-mindedness, in fact, he is very close-minded which is the reason he couldn't form any alliances, constantly fights with everyone and can't TALK or find comon-ground with anyone. If this was the case, he would be helping Lula beat Bolsonaro to become his Minister, but Ciro loves to be the center of attention, this is hunger for power and recognition. First of all, you CAN'T know Dilma was controlled by Lula. This is a LIE. Are you talking about Bolsa Família? The program that helped MILLIONS get out of extreme poverty and NOT DIE OF HUNGER? You call this propaganda? Where the fuck do you live? The social programs the PT implemented was and ARE abstolutely necessary, MILLIONS of people would die of hunger without it. Except he was inoccented, his process was NULED due to the extremely partial judge. Moro (the judge) put Lula in jail in order to avoid that Lula would won the elections of 2018, allowing Bolsonaro to win the Election, then MORO (the judge that put Lula in jail) BECAME MINISTER OF BOLSONARO. This is absolutely scandalous. Lula is, according to the Brazillian law, absolutely inocent. This means you can't call him "thief" or "ex-prisioner". Another lie, he absolutely NAILED yesterday national interviews and you know that. He speaks like a true leader, instilling hope and positivity on the people. Well, he is clearly the better option. You can't decide between Lula and Bolsonaro? Seriously? Ciro has no chance at all (6% of voters intention). Can you prove any of that?

Yes

Definetly.

Yes, he is tripping a lot and using social media BUT i think this is highlightened by his unfamiliarity with Instagram. To be fair, most people are weird on social media. I would give him some tips: 1. Avoid selfies, specially a generic one on the feed. It gives off a vibe of no-friends/creepy. Post selfies only on the Story feature, with some nice filters, maybe a boomerang with a few words of context. Context is HUGE on Instagram, if you post things randomly it might seem creepy and ungrounded. 2. Use a nice cam to record and shoot photos. 3. PLEASE USE THE STORY FEATURE. It humanizes a lot. Show some backstage, your day-to-day, your life, insights. 4. Interact with people. Like in game, it isn't enough to be self-amuzed all the time, you have to relatable. I think Leo is failing at being relatable because he is used to be a lone wolf posting on Youtube. Instagram is a different beast.

Well, once i had a mystical experience very much like a DMT trip with small dose of bad weed and a hatha yoga basic practice. I had a mild god realization in a public place, I saw oneness clearly pulling the strings and my vision got filled with mandalas and geometric patterns, just like some DMT trip I had before.

Sounds awful

Most conservatives think they are above ideology and it is a leftist thing.