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Hey guys and girls, What goal setting/scheduling systems do you use? Do you schedule your days? Do you set daily goals? weekly goals? monthly goals? Im trying to establish one for my own and find it quite hard to find the right balance between too much and too little "order". Greetings, Shrromy

@Psyche_92 that killed the vibe, man.

I would really consider going into the center. Not every psychological issue is easily fixed by meditation. Western psychology has its used and validity even if super spiritual people often denounce that.

@Widdle Puppy Im happy it helped you.

Console yourself in times of hardship. Tell yourself that you love yourself. Be positive and motivating in your self talk. Dont talk yourself down. Basically treat yourself like you were someone you actually cared about. - Jordan Peterson

Hey guys! Who of you guys is interested in a weekly mastermind, sharing our goals, progress and problems? I am thinking about 3-5 people, weekly group calls at around 30-60 minutes. Please only "apply" if you really think you can do this on a weekly basis without "today I don't have time for this." We can discuss details when we have a few people together. Have a great day!

Oh, I did not know about that rule. Seems that way. How sad.

@NoSelfSelf for example. there are countless free options.

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F*ck Yes

Can you elaborate on that? Isn't mindset a really big part? Yes, of course you then only learn ti implement through experience. But isn't it better to go into this with the right mindset, REALLY connection with maybe only a few girls authentically rather than fucking a hundred "nameless plates". ?

@K VIL thank you

@Viking I regressed quite a lot too. What really helped me is to step down on the "I have to". I am NOT moralizing to myself if I do something or not but I actively love myself regardless. And at the moment Im slowly picking up good things again. But Im trying to focus much more on the emotional child inside me. Watch this.

@Psyche_92 Nice. Now learn to let go of control.

@NoSelfSelf Read No More Mr. Nice Guy. A really good book.

@Dan Arnautu Just out of nowhere. You are one fucking handsome guy.

Hey guys! I feel like I really need to go deeper with my vision. What excercises, ressources and other stuff did you do or do you recommend for creating the most authentic and compelling vision possible? Have a nice day!

Werent you like "not interested in Dating beause it is so easy" ?

@Truth that meme made my day. Update on my journey: I have stopped NoFap after the second streak of 100+ days. Still not watching porn, but masturbatin when I feel like it (atm like once a week).

So after watching Matt Kahn and being really inspired by his teachings, I started giving myself the permission to feel, act, and think exactly like my "inner child" wants to and I completely stopped guilting myself about it. Im still mostly sticking to my daily meditation, because I want to, but much of my other free time is spent "non-productive". That was like...3 weeks ago. Now, the last two weeks I am feeling immense sadness, like nearly the whole day, everyday. Its maddening. I'm trying to let the sadness be there and not distracting myself too much. I also can't really get myself to do much. I constantly feel on the edge of crying, but I am never really able to actually cry. I don't know what the fuck is happening, how long this might last, what it might turn into and how to best handle it. Anyone experianced similar things? Any suggestions on how to handle it?

Okay I have the following issue: My current girlfriend is really emotionally repressed though recieving very little love in her childhood. I have always been a really loving guy in a relationship, but as we all know, loving attention from a guy seems to loosen attraction massively. I don't really know how to balance what I know about attraction (being "manly", detached, not opening up about your own feelings, push/pul etc.l), and loving kindness (attention, heartfullness, truthfullness, compassion etc.) I feeli like I want to give her all the love she never got but I fear that might have the opposite effect - her loosing interest. @aurum How do you reconcile that?

@pluto Sounds plausible. Thank you @phoenix666 Very nice. I hope I do just as well @Leo Gura I guess you are right about that. Something I should keep in mind.

@egoeimai how do you all know my shit so well. ?

@aurum good read. Thanks.

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