Shroomdoctor

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  1. @aurum That made my day. Scrab that. That made my month. Thank you so much for sharing. @cetus56 @Nahm I get that. Thanks for your input. And Nahm I will SOOOOO read your book.
  2. @zoey101 Hey zoey, I had a quite depressed and somewhat suicidal girlfriend once. What I tried with her and really helper her was 1. DAILY meditation, and secondly, the moment you feel overwhelmed you sit down, close your eyes and "feel the shit out of that pain." With that I mean focusing just on the feeling of pain inside your body. Where is it? Is it moving? Is it more an ache or what kind of sensation is it? The more you do the meditation the more you will be able to focus on that. With her, after a few months of that practice it got SIGNIFICANTLY better. So if at the moment you feel hopeless, maybe that ca give you a bit of hope. Good luck.
  3. https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/
  4. @Igor82 O uhad the same shit on day 100+. Go back on track. I am and it is getting better than ever. The urges can come anyyy time
  5. @eskwire I am very interested in your findings too Please mention me when you post some conclusion
  6. Thank you for keeping my common sense in place by showing me what I should not do.
  7. thanks for the laugh
  8. @aurum don't forget James Marshall! The Meditation Sex Monk
  9. @HotSauce123 The app looks lovely. How long did it take you to build it? Will there be an android version?
  10. @Psyche_92 I am sorry to hear the extent of your family problems. But I have to agree that staying away might be the only real viable option. Just because you are blood related doesnt mean that they have some special privilege for your time and distress. You wouldn't keep "friends" like that around would you?
  11. @Key Elements Yeah. thats true.
  12. @Key Elements I think the biggest problem is people being in a relationship to fix their broken lifes. This creates broken relationships. I cant speak for the girls side of things, but as a guy we are not at all taught how to attract girls in an honest manner. Most guys fall into category "nice guy" or "player". Very few get the middle ground of confidence, honesty and inner work that are needed to attract girls and form healthy relationships with them. I myself fell into the nice guy category for a long time because that is what I was taught. Respect women, treat them nice and they will like you. That mindset actually creates bitterness and loneliness. The other side of the spectrum are the guys that get all the girls but are not able to form a healthy relationship with them. Both sides are equally dysfunctional. The work to get into the "golden middle" (at least for me) is really really tough. You have to relearn everything that you thought about girls and relationships and then you have to work immensely on yourself to be ready to implement that. Its one of the toughest things on my self actualization journey until now. Hell, I was immensely proud of myself when I was able to stutter out a "hey" in front of a cute girl I had never met before. But slowly I can see real progress. I know I can figure out how stuff works. But still, its tough. I could understand why most other guys would stay in their dysfunktional mindset. Sometimes I fall back into old patterns. But I will figure this out. Maybe I kind of fell off track on the initial theme, but this is what came to my mind watching that video. Bottom Line: Healthy Relationships are tough. People don't like tough things.
  13. @Spiral I dont agree with this video ad I think everyone can get western girls. Just out of interest: 1. Why do you think asian girls are easier? 2. Do you suggest actually flying to the east just to meet girls?
  14. +1 Also...I can hardly do it for 5 minutes, then this kind of breathing just becomes...really hard to do? Is this normal?
  15. Whaaat is happening in this thread
  16. @Hardkill I saw the title and without looking immediately knew it was you who had posted it. What might that tell you?