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Ok so I live by myself here in Italy, I already spent 14,600 euro more or less in rent during the last 3 years, I was evaluating of buying a house which means I'll be paying for 30 years, what is your opinion based on your experience? Thank you

Does anyone of you guys do the keto diet? How's it working out for you? I think I'll start doing it for mental clarity purpose and energy purpose, mixing it up with gym.

Hey there, has anibody got kicked into homeostasis so hard that they feel they lost years of self development progress? I feel like im back in my old ways, maby just a bit better than the past. It sucks really bad to get back in the shitty state i was in.

I don't know if its the right section, if it's a question or whatever, I just feel like writing it down for somebody to see. My grandfather passed away yesterday, after 10 years of not seeing him, on almost the 10th year exactly he passed away, and it was yesterday, I left my home country with my mom, when I was 16,now I live by myself and I'm all grown up now. My grandfather was like my father, I deeply loved him and still do and can't help but guilt myself of not giving him the pleasure to see his grandson one last time, I'm not sad that he passed away, I accept it, but I don't accept that I lost him without one final goodbye. As a reminder, don't do what I did, saying that I'll go eventually to make a visit, now it's too late and the only thing I'll be able to visit will be his grave

Ok so I've been trying to get my ex back cuz I fucked up in the past, and tried to go out with her every now and then. It's been a year now that I'm trying to get back together. She said she's not seeing or hearing nobody, but today when we got out she received a phone call, she was very secretive and said she needs to get back home, and tried to negate things but it was obvious that it was another guy. That was a really fucked up feeling, I was feeling very hallow inside after that. I should obviously go on and forget my mistakes, but it's pretty hard seeing that she was my first girlfriend..

My gut still says it wants her tho, and it's basically because I fucked up in the past. Can't seem to get over her.. It's pretty fucking hard tho.. The power is completely on the other side and I feel hopeless..

Yep its pretty much like this in my case too, sucks ass..

Hello everyone, so here is a briefing of the story, my parents got attacked by their own dog, my mom had some bad injuries but she is safe and at home(by herself because I don't live with them anymore), her husband on the other hand lost an arm and is critical condition for about a month, I try helping her as best I can but it's hard for her to not fall into depression (I'm sure she was already depressed before but now obviously got worse), they gave her some medication for preventing depression, but I would use them combined with therapy, of course she doesn't make things easy for me, saying that therapy is for crazy people. We all know here that you don't need to be crazy to go to therapy don't judge her she is 50 years old and a very hard headed woman. My question is will the medication help if they are not strong? And another question is, what is the best way to approach somebody so hurt emotionally? Because I can not be blunt with her or else she will feel attacked by me, thank you everyone

Hello everybody, I'll try to keep it short, I already started topics of this, and started gaining distance from my parents but something occurred. My parents got attacked by their dog which sent them to the hoapital in bad conditions, right now my mother has her arms messed up and her husband is much worse, he is in a coma and lost one arm, I don't know if he will survive, right now Im taking care of everything because they are too messed up. The dog trainer blamed them for what happened so I'm trying to save the dog and he will start rehabilitation soon. I'm afraid if I just disappear from their life my mom will comit suicide, should I keep going through this thing or should i just dissappear because it's been years of trying without any succes?

Yes it would be very helpful thank you I'm an aquarius with ascendent in cancer, so I like and want both things

I'm an aquarius with ascendent in cancer, so I like and want both things

Well nice ideas, on one side I want the flexibility, on the other side I want the security, I am a metal meccanic (at least that's how it's called in Italy) it's a pretty well paid job and gives many possibilities, for now I want to travel the world for work, in the meanwhile pay for that one house, and in a few years open my own business which I guess it will be here in Italy. This way each way goes even I have succes or fail at it I'll still have a pretty well paid job, and in the meanwhile the house keeps getting paid

Unfortunately no, and BTW, everybody at the dog shelter were so nice to me telling me to give courses and stuff for the dog, after I said no all of them turned into assholes asking for money for the consult and that if I don't pay they will throw the dog in my yard and all kind of fucked up stuff, of course after speaking to the police they all calmed down. It just goes to show what those people were really made of

Yes infact I'm helping them, being there present for them. I just had to let my mind calm down. The positive thing I see is that it gives me positive energy to be able to pass it to them and get them out of the depression which they tend to fall, just to keep you updated nobody is risking death anymore, or so it seems, there is one arm missing but they both still have the gift of life, so I hope it will help them grow in the future

Cheaper than this would be to rent a room, but I need my privacy, I was thinking of buying, after a while I can resell and possibly make a bit of profit or be without any debt if I decide to leave the place

At the end of the day I stayed and helped, and still keep on helping

Hey guys and girls for that matter, did you ever try no fap? I heard it has a lot of beneficials. Thank you

Already done, she's safe now, her husband lost an arm, it's gonna get fucked up now with the different family members that will get in the middle of this thing

Hey there, I guess the title is pretty self explanatory but I'll go in more depth. Basically my mothers husband has alcohol problems and pot problems (he's the first aggressive person I ever saw under the effect of weed) he is a real ass kisser outside the house, and a total asshole inside, I always had fights with them when I lived with them at the point that they kicked me out the house, of course I was ready for the worst because I was actively on self help stuff. I got back in touch with them after fixing my life outside the house with a job and a house because I thought 'well its my family got to give them another chance. Now lately my mom cough him cheating and they had pretty bad fights and had constantly called me to pour their misery on me, they had fight so hard at the point that their pitbull got angry and sent them to the hospital. I got to them to take them out and I said OK you guys are over now you have to divorce. I sent her husband at my place and started living with my mom again, after a week they decided to give it another shot, of course they're back fighting and calling me and stressing me out like hell. The fact is that I said already that I don't want to know anything about their relationship anymore, her husband understood it and doesn't call me anymore, my mom still calls, the fact is that if I don't help her as her emotional tampon I feel guilty after, if I do help her it fucks up my whole life because I'm constantly thinking of the negative stuff she says. I know it's been long to read I tried to be as short as possible, thank you everybody

The question would be what's the best action I can take in a situation like this, sorry I didn't mention it ahah

Hello folks, a rather odd question for some of you, I don't know if you believe in astrology but I do so I'd like to know what zodiac sign are you I'm an Aquarius, reading about my sign and seeing my past and present I really blend good with some of the caracteristics such as being a Dreamer, creator, inventor, Philosopher, curios, social being, self actualized, enlightenment and growth orientated. Btw, Elkhart tolle is Aquarius Peeeeeace ✌

Ok, I never met anybody as mad as me or as my right now ex, we broke and got back in the last 6 years for like 8 9 times, after a while we always got back together. Right now we're broke up again. And I miss her and want her back.. I don't know if we will ever be able to make it actually work one day. I don't want anyone else except for her, I just wanted to see whats your opinion on this. Have a nice day

Wow thank you guys for the sobering words

Hey, so I'll try to keep it short, years ago I was severely depressed, shitty family, anxiety etc. Anyway after I discovered personal development and had a 360 degree shift.. Right now I feel like I'm losing it again. It's like a cycle, 'good times', 'bad times', 'good times again', how do you actually break free?

Hey there, I bet many of us come from dysfunctional backgrounds just by how society is evolving, but when you're family is messed up bad, with physical and mental abuse, cheating, alcoholism ecc it's inevitable that things are going to get even worse in time. Right now I live by myself and every time I hear from my family bad stuff always happens so I don't have support from them, I'm the one supporting them, even with cash sometimes. How do I convince them to seek professional help and counseling if they are too close minded to listen to that kind of stuff? Every help is appreciated