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I guess it's not really a big deal but I can see that he has been talking to other friends on a much more frequent basis now. Before, I was always the first person he'd call in a crisis or tell me news or talk to me about a topic etc. but now it's different people. he also doesn't go into much detail about what's going on in his life, short sentences, as before we'd have very lengthy conversations. it doesn't seem like he doesn't care, because he contacts me everyday. very true. it just feels difficult to find other friends because I've never had a friend with such deep "intimacy", connection and shared values before. it sucks

ya thx nigga

@TruthSeeker47 Do nothing is a specific meditation technique, check out leos vid that goes into detail, its a bit nuanced

My vision is that im goku and ill achieve ultra instinct and defeat the nasty jiren

good stuff. also, dont get annoyed when you lose focus, its about regaining your focus as fast as possible

success is the difference between the action taker and the non action taker and the amount of people who take action is so little its crazy.

embody a theory

@Timotheus "Im tempted to commit suicide. Been struggling for like 15 years on that one." much love my friend. it gets better, keep fighting but most importantly keep applying! Many times when I get suicidal, I recognize that its "a thought"

Give up guys. "Wisdom looks foolish to the fool" and "Aruging with a foolish person proves there are 2"

@Barbarian Number 8 +1 Oh god. This is LITERALLY a repeat of my first relationship. Bro she made me wait so long to fuck. And once we did, we stopped fucking after 6 months because she just got tired and shit. Man FUCK that The man is supposed to have the control. And she is supposed to be horny and YOU deny her for sex not the other way around Idk. If I was in your shoes and my girl made me sleep on the floor... Wtf? Hell no man. 3rd edit: Lol this is bringing back bad memories, I'm getting triggered. Literally fuck your girlfriend. As you can see I am still a bit angry lol

@aurum wow ok

There's this friend I have had since childhood. We aren't THAT close. He's my neighbor. I have nobody else. He has friends that he's closer with. We have some good laughs, some fun. Here's the dilemma: We constantly argue about self-improvement. He is not into self-improvement so a lot of the ideas I bring up are extremely opposite to his socially conditioned belief system (I am partly to blame here because I trigger a lot of arguments) Top things that bother me (in order): He thinks he's better than me He thinks I am a bad/terrible person (I had to drop out of school to pursue my bliss) He makes fun of me with other people and he talks shit about me He doesn't respect me & has a low opinion of me He thinks I'm a cuckoo head Thinks I'm dumb & stupid Problem is, I helped him so much to start up his business. Gave him techniques and tactics and life philosophies that will help him for the rest of his life... And this is how he treats me... Though his opinion is so shit of me, I shouldn't care right?... Like it shouldn't matter if he thinks I'm lower than him? KEY: He doesn't directly communicate this stuff, it's mostly sub-communication. I've seen it all indirectly. Sometimes in arguments it's pretty apparent what he thinks of me and my ideas though.

ok ill do it. why though yeah you're right. I feel pretty fucking dumb for talking about personal development to him for an entire year even though he doesn't resonate with it. im so unaware

@Leo Gura I am forever grateful for your insights. You are very bold for talking about these topics. Thanks

I tried to talk about enlightenment, problems with science and a lot of unconventional topics. Unfortunately, everyone thinks that I am extremely gullible and believe stupid shit. Now, I can't express anything I am passionate about without being shut down or judged (many times I'm indirectly judged). This hurts a lot for people not to trust me or at least be open-minded to what I am saying. I am telling people about some *revolutionary* shit!! My lifestyle is not understood, my beliefs are shut down, I am unable to express myself... It just doesn't feel good. I am not good yet at making friends. But I guess I have no choice but to find new friends?

Sure those are ideal values, but are your strengths?

I've heard that EQ out predicts IQ by a factor of 2 (As repeatedly said by Brian Johnson) Where is your source for that

Do a donation thing. For ex I would chip in $100 for you to fly to NYC. and the places which have enough donation + people for you, you fly there. the ones that dont, you dont take those donations

btw i would fly to LA for your event (from tx)

scott young's rapid learner course was a game changer for me. sign up for his newsletter, he only opens the course for 2 weeks in the year i do have all his vids downloaded though

How does the life I want manifest? What is the nature of thought? How do I know who to believe? Do peoples opinions of me matter? Why is the truth important? (both truths) Why would I want a life purpose? Why do I care about being my best version? These are questions ive been chewing on recently. after making the insight that beliefs mean nothing without insight

I'm doing this for my own practice, I've not been aware or contemplated my true strengths before: I am: Compassionate Open-minded High empathy Good friend Resilient (well at least, now I am. but is there an option but to be resilient?) Can be good at explaining things Passionate about some topics Kind um, I like math

new low... feeling lost and hopeless losing my friend that i love so dearly no money, broke as fuck intense anxiety cant work due to extreme stress and fatigue negativity 24/7 parents unsupportive of my journey no friends confused & lost failing again and again intense bodily pains backsliding constantly need to make $ soon or forced to go back to college for years :,( i will never kill myself because i am a role model to my sister. im here to help be her north star many of you tried to help me b4 but maybe just 1 more time? heh... thanks

I know the feel bro. What if done for the next 30 days would make you feel just a bit better? This question helps me a lot Have you heard of neuroplasticity? Your life is the sum of your habits. So I think if you stick to something and had like 12 positive high leverage habits by the end of next year (1 habit per month) youll be on another dimension I also believe that game might not be the right thing right now. Picking up girls is a skillset which can be useful but right now your focus should be on inner healing and growth.

can you make it about how i can lose weight fast on a bacon and ice cream diet