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@Truth projection my dear friend. you do this a lot.

@phoenix666 Jesus christ thanks for this. You recommended this to me earlier but I am now half way through this and it describes me SO. WELL. Thanks. Much love

complaining isnt healthy. youre wrong about that one haha

As per Leo's words, if you're not crying, you're simply not visioning enough

Follow your intuition. If it feels fishy, don't do it.

How I would do it is to see which one is THE most important thing to implement and implement that habit. It's hard to implement too many things at once so pick the most important thing(s). If you have serious pending issues, perhaps focus on the topic that is giving you the most trouble. Or, pick meditation as your first habit, as it gives you the greatest long-term benefit. Most of all enjoy the process

one thing I realized is girls really love good emotions and non-neediness. Both of which a high-consciousness man provides unintentionally

nope we know as much as you

Im in a dilemma, if I give away person A's secret to person B, Person A will get mad at me and possibly cut me off. If I dont tell person A,s secret, and person B finds out somehow later that I knew and didnt tell him, he will get mad at me! Theres no winning. Sorry I just dont know what to do. I want to know NO MORE secrets It's like they expect me to keep their secrets but at the same time to not keep other peoples secrets. its a double standard

Hi, I desire the most mature way to go about this. I have a best friend that I share everything with. He recently got a boyfriend and I got close to both people. I find out that my best friend has been having sex with other guys and I find out that the other guy has been on a date with a guy (this one is a minor date but still). I'm scared to say anything because I don't want to lose their trust. In a sense I am hiding this from both people. I am trying to have a healthy relationship with both people by keeping secrets, but by keeping secrets, I am essentially hiding things from both people. I am 99% sure that they will not break up because they are very attached to each other so I am scared to say anything because both people will get angry with me and I will lose their trust and ability to tell me things. What do I do?

Thanks for the response. the problem is that my best friend and his boyfriend both trust me and tell me their secrets. Problem is I feel obligated to tell the other person what is going on because they both my good friends! And they both get angry at me for not telling me whats going on with the other person! "you knew and didnt tell me?? Thought we were friends!" but im just trying to keep secrets and if I dont keep the secrets, then nobody will trust me with the secrets... it seems lose-lose from every angle

Hey, don't worry, you are bothering nobody, thanks for posting. I would focus on yourself and start the process of letting go of that family. It truly isn't your fault, you did what was right and you didn't intentionally cause any of the aftermath. That's completely asshole of your ex to call your out for that, as it wasn't your fault. But he's still learning and growing, and is on his own path. I like Nahm's advice of starting to take your own life back into control. It won't do you any good to dwell on the past. But if there is some trauma associated with that, it would be helpful to release that

Probably stressed

this is intruiging

I agree wholeheartedly. For me, I found trouble with perseverance because whenever I failed, I get extremely hopeless and depressed. I can't do it.. I'm not worthy... However, I'm becoming more and more aware of my reaction to when I fail and that's definitely been of help. Keep going!

Great thread, I've wanted one like this for a while but just never made it. I see people asking questions of problems that they have and it overwhelms me because I feel, "wow everyone has so many problems... is there really a much better life than the one I'm living now?" But I realize that people don't make threads about their successes. There are much fewer reasons why they would make a thread to talk about their successes and there much more incentives for people to talk about their problems. So a thread talking about successes would be helpful because it shows people taking action (which will rub onto you) and gives you hope because others are doing it. Here are some gains from personal development: -Used to be suicidal 5x a week, now suicidal 1x a month - I have heightened awareness on my problems, and the solutions are more clear than they were before - 1-5% increase in feeling self-love for myself (I just started this practice) - Anxiety and negative thoughts decreased by at least 50% - I have the ability to use resistance as a compass and sit through resistance much more than before. Though not perfect! - My self-awareness went up. I realized my love for understanding and knowledge, my love for authenticity, my love for growth, my desire for self-love, my desire to help those in need. I also am more aware of my negative habits

Hi everyone. I've found a lot of my life I've always try to morph myself to try and get the other person/groups approval. Sometimes try not to disagree to not step on their toes and it drives me insane. I cant communicate. I cant be vulnerable and it severely prevents me from living a happy and fulfilled life. I have no idea what to do or where to start. Someone please help me. What do I read? What do I practice... Thanks.

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Beautiful, thank you. this is one of my favorite concepts

Thanks for the answer. In leo's high vs low consciousness vid he talks about to solve any problem in life, you have to raise your consciousness. So if I have a problem in my relationships, does getting a better understanding of the mechanisms of what's occurring such as: "There's lots of arguments happening between two people" You now realize "This person is hurt, and I'm hurt and that's why we are lashing out at each other" Does this mean consciousness has raised?

is it in english?

@Nahm Can you read my aura pretty please?

perhaps then do like a $100 deposit that will be refunded if you show up

@Truth

@Truth You're messing with me lol