Hardkill

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  4. Posted

    1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

    Vegas metroplex is ~2 million. What matters is the population of the metroplex, not the city.

    But also, Vegas is very unlike other cities because of it's hardcore, 24/7 nightlife culture and 42.5 million visitors per year.

    It's not just the raw population that matters. It's the culture, the age-range, male/female ratio, etc.

    For example, Dallas-Fort Worth is a HUGE metroplex, but the nightlife is sucky. Austin has much smaller metroplex population but amazing nightlife. Don't be fooled by raw numbers.

    I don't live near any city or metroplex with huge populations and fantastic nightlife areas. However, I actually do live just one block away from UCI, which I know has a lot of young students on their campus. Could that work for me?

  5. Posted

    51 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

    Society has always controlled speech. And it always will. Because the shit you say can destroy society. Welcome to society.

    I agree with that. However, aren't a lot of Americans going to end up getting furious about this issue to the point waging some kind of violent culture war over their "civil liberties" and "freedom of speech" being taken away?

  8. Posted

    14 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

    Girls sleep with older guys all the time. If she wants it she's an adult.

    That's why a lot of girls like to say "daddy" to guys they are attracted to.

    So, why do you think that PUA experts who have achieved a lot of emotional mastery and learned how to always be super positive around others in order to get to the level they got with seducing women then why do some of them like that Tom Torero guy end up becoming so suicidal or dangerous narcissists? Pick up and dating coaches always say stuff like "if you have negative mindset about others then you will be projecting a very negative attitude towards others including women.....no woman wants to be around a guy who has a toxic vibe because it very repulsive and pathetic....women want a man who is a strong happy go luck guy that gives a lot of positive energy to others and is willing to give back to others. Women are in fact scared of men who are pathetic, weak, and keep sucking the life out of other like a leech or a vampire......”

    It kinda begs the question of whether or not you really need to be in a positive state around women in order to attract them or if you can learn to just put on a good act.

  9. Posted · Edited by Hardkill

    52 minutes ago, Roy said:

    Don't think about the literal numbers too much, those don't really matter unless you're flirting too close to the legal limits.

    The correct thing to focus on is the maturity levels and power dynamics.

    There is nothing wrong with large age gap relationships, if the relationship is more or less healthy.

    well, there’s nothing wrong with a little experimentation. Besides, there are guys like me who have been in a relationship with women much older than they are.

    So, why do think that pick up and dating coaches always say stuff like "if you have negative mindset about others then you will be projecting a very negative attitude towards others including women.....no woman wants to be around a guy who has a toxic vibe because it very repulsive and pathetic....women want a man who is a strong happy go luck guy that gives a lot of positive energy to others and is willing to give back to others. Women are in fact scared of men who are pathetic, weak, and keep sucking the life out of other like a leech or a vampire......”?

  10. Posted

    5 minutes ago, hoodrow trillson said:

    I suppose it takes a highly conscious guy to date a young woman without controlling or manipulating her.  Like if he lets her be who she is and learn herself or whatever.  

    Sometimes, I look at Leonardo DiCaprio and I wonder what's going on there.  These hot model women are saying heyyyy to him and he just obliges, dates them and then they break up.  No woman ever said Leo was a psycho, creepy, terrible, abusive person or anything.  It's so weird!

    I guess it’s because he’s a celebrity.

  11. Posted · Edited by Hardkill

    57 minutes ago, Thought Art said:

    Because they are mastering an emotional skill set in a limited domain to manipulate reality for a selfish reason. It's very thin, limited and has nothing to do with the deeper foundational emotional mastery that protects against 'suicidal or dangerous narcissism'. There are many contexts, nuances, depths, areas, etc in emotional mastery that these PUAs just aren't even aware of or remotely interested in because they are operating a low level of consciousness. 

    It's more a like a mask or a skill than real emotional mastery.

    So, why do pick up and dating coaches always say stuff like "if you have negative mindset about others then you will be projecting a very negative attitude towards others including women.....no woman wants to be around a guy who has a toxic vibe because it very repulsive and pathetic....women want a man who is a strong happy go luck guy that gives a lot of positive energy to others and is willing to give back to others. Women are in fact scared of men who are pathetic, weak, and keep sucking the life out of other like a leech or a vampire......”?

  12. Posted

    6 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

    Big con-man vibes from him. He is gaming guys more than he is gaming girls. The grift is to sell guys on the player lifestyle -- which is faked.

    Dan Bilzerian also likes and has a lot of respect for Trump, which already tells you what kind of schmuck he is.

    5 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

    Arnold did not con his way into success. The dude is a workhorse.

    I have read various bios of him.

    I have a tremendous amount of respect for his work ethic. He definitely has a strong warrior mentality and truly earned everything he achieved throughout his whole life. Plus, he does have a certain kind of charisma to him, which is another Orange trait. 

  13. Posted · Edited by Hardkill

    7 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

    Be careful, there is a dark side to pickup which is easy to get sucked into.

    You have to be very careful not to get lost in pickup and the toxicity and ego that can come with it. The more successful you become the more ego develops around it.

    What I don't get is that if PUA experts have achieved a lot of emotional mastery and learned how to always be super positive around others in order to get to the level they got with seducing women then why do some of them like that Tom Torero guy end up becoming so suicidal or dangerous narcissists?

  14. Posted

    So, none of you guys are scared about this possibility?

    Honestly, I think that everyone in America who is either a liberal or a moderate should seriously consider stocking up on all kind of equipment such as guns, knives, bulletproof vests, etc. in order to protect themselves from some kind of right wing domestic terrorist attack that probably will happen one day at a nationwide scale in the future. I am thinking about building a panic room for myself when I get the chance.

  15. Posted

    6 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

    The bottom line is, you need to gain even mastery over your emotional state such that you feel good and solid most nights out.

    Gaming from a depressed state is not really gonna work. Fix your depression. Controlling your state is like the biggest aspect of inner game. Everything else hinges on it. You need to become a generally happy, go-lucky guy who doesn't easily get ungrounded.

    Ohhhhh......that could take me years to achieve such emotional mastery. I don’t even know if I will ever be capable of doing that.

    Though aren’t most of the best pickup artists deep down unhappy and miserable guys? If so, then do they constantly use drugs and alcohol in order to force themselves to be in a good state for the moment?

  16. Posted · Edited by Hardkill

    1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

    In this case you're not really gaming, you're venting.

    I mean, go ahead and try it, but don't expect to get laid from it.

    Broken man game sorta assumes you got some baseline of game already built up that you can lean on.

    Ohh...well then how do I come off authentic and congruent, if I do get depressed often and if I don't have much game? 

    Am I actually going to have to fake it until I make it in my case by learning how to pretend to be happy in a convincing manner like a method actor would?

  19. Posted

    2 hours ago, PurpleTree said:

    i do have friends and always had

    but because of a social anxiety and sensitivity i find it often hard to keep up

    then i had friends that lived in shared apartments (not with me) where i could just go and party sometimes when i felt good and social enough or whatever

    but now with covid etc. things didn't get easier

    and now it's new years and because i didn't plan anything nobody is around and many things are closed

    it's a bit lonely

    i often like to be alone but when i get the urge to see people and nobody is around or at home then it f'n sucks

    I totally feel this way now too.

    I hope that COVID will finally be under enough control soon enough.

     

  20. Posted

    15 minutes ago, PurpleTree said:

    yea in some ways it might be congruent

    but i think in a way it would put too much pressure on the women

    like "love me now or i'm going to throw myself in front of that bus"

    also it's not playful at all

    maybe try more the route that leo explained

    I see what you’re saying.

    Though why does everything have to be playful with women? Don’t women love drama too? Women like to cry when they watch sad romance movie scenes.

  22. Posted

    4 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

    Be careful. High likelihood you will come off creepy saying that unless it's really authentic and spontaneous.

    The point is that you want to develop the ability to improvise lines like that on-the-fly. Not pre-meditated.

    The frame is this: I feel like shit, but I'm still gonna blatantly hit on you. If you do it from that frame it will be funny.

    This one is not for newbies. You still need to have a core confidence to pull that off.

    Remember, 90% of your game should be friendly-chill, not weird gamey lines.

    A lot of times when I am feeling really down in the dumps I often think about approaching a girl or group of girls and saying stuff like "you know, I feel like you don't really like me.....well, I guess that's because people really don't like me much....I am a fuck up.....I am a real loser....but it's still not fair that women like these asshole guys instead of nice guys like me.....I really want people to like me.....but I guess it's never going to happen with me....that's why on some days I just want to kill myself and end all of the suffering and misery that I am going through."