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Okay, those are fair points. Although, one thing that's supposed to be a key to success with women is that a man must always assume that a girl/woman is attracted to her to the point of being delusional. Of course, I get that if after you ask her out or ask for her contact she has made it very clear that her answer is no in some way or form then the guy has to respect that and then move on. The point is that I thought I was supposed to always have confidence, whereby I always believe in my mind that the girl/woman I just met or just got to know is attracted to me. Women get turned on by a guy who presents himself with an attitude like that. Furthermore, I strongly believe that I have a number of attractive qualities both physically and personality wise. Therefore, I gotta believe that I do have sex appeal or that I am sex appeal.

Well, I can get a lot numbers from girls at school in general, but even then I've been struggling to turn those numbers into dates and lays or what have you. I only got one girl from my class to go out, but she didn't seem all that into me sexually/romantically on the date. I am also still dumbfounded why many of the girls I've talked to who have given me strong indicators of interest didn't either want to give me their phone number or hangout with me.

Once again, guys like you are just making blanket statements that are very unfair. Unhealed trauma from what? Are some kind of mental health expert or psychologist? You haven't even seen what I look or what my voice sounds like. Furthermore, I've already been to therapy and been on psych meds for most of my life. I've already looked into both Owen's and Julien's vids and they still didn't cut it for me. I've also tried many different kinds of seduction techniques from many of the best dating and seduction gurus out there and already hundreds and hundreds of girls in all different kinds of places for years. Also, how do you explain how many guys in high school and college who are ugly or homely and have never been all that cool been able to easily hook up with and dating girls in school? Surely almost all of them didn't use any seduction techniques from a pickup/dating expert because the vast majority of men out there in general, don't. Why do you think I've gotten so demoralized? How would you feel about your self-esteem and hopes for success with women in general if you were me? I really don't see how fixing a couple of issues with my game is going to take my game to next level from a realistic/practical standpoint.

Dude, I think you're taking this way too seriously. You really most of the guys in high school and college who got girls knew what the hell they were doing let alone using seduction techniques from RSD, Mystery Method, Locario, ARC, etc.? Again, this isn't rocket science and not even supposed to be as hard running for some high level political office, persuading a cutthroat Shark Tank to invest in a business proposal of mine, or being a diplomat who's trying to make peace between a foreign country and his own country. Plus, every girl in high school and college ain't shit, regardless of how popular they are at school. Almost none of them are like famous celebrities or models. I am not trying to argue with you for the sake of arguing. I am just telling it like it is.

There’s been more and more and more talk about China invading Taiwan, especially ever since Russia invaded Ukraine and tensions between China and Taiwan have been constantly escalating. Considering that China has the second largest economy in the world and has become the world’s largest trade exporter, if or when China invaded Taiwan, then will the whole global economy be in a severe recession or depression? How will the global be ready to handle such a major turn in events? Furthermore, if or when China does invade Taiwan would that start World War III?

Leo has mentioned before how conservatism tends to be more of a masculine quality while liberalism tends to be more of a feminine quality. Generally, as people age, we tend to hold more conservative views. So, does that mean that the older you are, the more masculine your perspective on the world is and the more masculine your actions and decisions become?

I've also been told by other dating and seduction experts out there that RSD is full of crap. Is there something suspicious going on with Owen Cook and RSD? Or are all of these guys just doing attack ads on him and RSD to try to outcompete him?

The U.S. House Ways and Means Committee were able to release Trump's tax returns to the public! https://www.nytimes.com/2022/12/21/us/politics/trump-taxes-income.html https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2022/12/21/us/house-ways-and-means-trump-tax-report.html https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2022/12/21/us/politics/trump-tax-return-numbers.html

Yeah, I agree with what you're saying, for the most part. I also get that I still have a lot to learn about getting good with women in general. I never said or even believed that I haven't done anything wrong in terms of my game. But I just don't understand why approaching and dating girls has to be as hard trying to win a business deal with one of the cutthroat investors from Shark Tank or something like that.

I really believe that I've been coming off as a kind of guy who girls really love to talk to and I have been able to make strong connections with them. Besides, it shouldn't be this hard. This is not rocket science at all. This process of seduction is not even supposed to be as difficult as if I were to say run for governor of some big state like California or run for some office in Congress, let alone run for the office of the President of the Unites States of America. I don't ever expect to be the next Bill Clinton or Barack Obama or Ronald Reagan or Donald Trump or even be as savvy and appealing as someone like Gavin Newsom. Hell, I don't even think I'll ever be able to have the skill to relate to and connect with most people in general as well as someone like Joe Biden can. Not gonna happen.

I've already cold and warm approached hundreds of girls in real life, that I actually lost count of how many I met and even madeout with in bars, clubs, meetups, streets during the day and night time, alleys between pubs and restaurants during night. I even got my very first girlfriend ever from cold approaching an attractive woman on the sidewalk during the daytime. We were in a serious relationship together for almost 3 years. Although, I will admit that I still don't nearly the amount of experience and skill with cold approaching and dating that someone like Leo does, let alone that of an official dating coach/expert like Owen Cook or Julien Blanc or Locario or Alan Roger Currie (may he rest in peace). So, I no doubt absolutely need to to approach 5 to 25 new girls a day everyday every week. Yet, I still don't live in or near a big city that would provide me such an opportunity for that. Also, yeah online dating is mostly shitty and most girls on online social media are attention whores. However, to be fair, I still got most of my lays from online dating. In fact all of the girls I slept with from online dating were about a 6 to 8 in terms of what I found to be attractive.

What has been said by guys like NoSelfSelf was unfair and disrespectful. They don't even really have the facts about what's going on with me. They are just spouting out all kinds of blanket statements and cliches about what I am not doing right instead of giving some solid no-nonsense practical tips on why I am having a hard time seducing girls at school who are just young kids who are by no means female celebrities of any kind. Furthermore, don't tolerate that kind of toxic attitude. That's why I am standing up for myself. Not being very emotionally expressive is a form of stoicism. That's masculine, whereas being flamboyant is more feminine. Btw, almost all of the girls at the college I was at haven't accomplished anywhere near what I have throughout my whole life. These are nothing special. In any case, no one is answering why dating girls from school isn't easier than from cold approach or online dating. Most guys meet their significant other either from work or school or social circle. Therefore, it still doesn't add up to me.

Then, why does Leo vouch for RSD, especially Owen?

Today, The U.S. House Ways and Means Committee, finally released the whole rest of Trump's tax returns: https://www.nytimes.com/2022/12/30/us/politics/trump-tax-returns-takeaways.html

Yes to all of the above.

I've never been entirely sold on the idea of 'compromise is king.' I mean when you're in a serious relationship with a woman, then you are going to have to make a minor amount of compromises, but I believe that for the most part that a man should never compromise his own principles, values, desires, etc. Locario explains it well here:

How would fixing my inner-child work fix my compatability? I don't have something like PTSD or daddy or mommy issues or any kind of addiction to drugs/alcohol/tobacco. I always validate women when they deserve it.

I tried that too and only got laid twice and each time I got laid with them, they never contacted me back again.

I am working on getting ready for Doctor of Physical Therapy graduate school next summer.

I’ve tried finding women at that level but they are either taken or weren’t compatible with me.

That’s true with regard to western women. They don’t know how to become compliant like women used in the good old days. That’s more and more men are meeting women in Eastern European and other 2nd or 3rd world countries. Most women in those countries more feminine and know how to appreciate masculinity because they used to behaving in a more submissive and cooperative manner with men.

Neither of you have even seen me in person. You don’t know what I look like. You guys both are both sounding very toxic and condescending. You have no idea the kind of hell I’ve been to. Maybe if you two knew how to relate better to people like who have Asperger’s and have tried like hell to improve into being a charismatic hero then maybe you guys would succeed in convincing me that you know what you’re saying.

I don’t believe you. Why should I?

Prove to me how that was boring.

In terms of physical type I am really into fit girls who have a good amount of thickness to their legs, ass, with a small enough waist, and big tits as a bonus. In terms of personality I like girls who are smart, but also are not self-centered and are respectful and compliant. She definitely has to know how to cook and clean and must prove that she is willing work hard on supporting my goals in life.