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So I should work on both my inner and outer weaknesses at about the same time?
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That all sounds good, but I tried that with my martial arts for over 10 years, weightlifting for over 4 years, running for several months, yoga classes, karaoke (I happen to be a decent singer), sculpture/ceramics, etc.
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I am sorry, but I don't get it. I don't understand how to find such traits in a girl and then compare them to mine. Also, I really want a girl who is hot. They matter to me a lot. I am sorry.
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Yeah, but girls usually find and keep the right awesome person for the faster than most guys who even get the chance to even get a 2nd date or more with an amazing girl for them. Women don’t nearly as much competition as men do. Hot women especially have virtually no competition for the right guy. Ive tried taking a break for months to work on my self esteem and it didn’t help me feel much better. Also, I am getting tired of people saying that “girls can sense whether a guy is desperate or not.” We are all needy to a degree. The idea of neediness being a turn off doesn’t negatively effect your chances with someone as much as most people think. I mean would you tell a person starving for food to stop being so desperate for food? No, of course not. Also, if women’s intuition is so great that they can easily detect how needy a guy is, then why can’t they easily sense whether the guy is evil or highly manipulative?
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Well, I’ve try meeting girls through building rapport many times, and each time it failed. No matter what I do, no matter what I try will always be one or more steps behind most people. I feel like a freak. Yet, I don’t deserve this. I can’t believe u have never found someone for a serious relationship ever at your age. You must have secluded yourself from the rest of the world or something.
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You don’t know for sure if you’ll ever improve. Believe me, I’ve tried practically everything there is. I am practically at the end of the line with getting any help with women. I just don’t see how or why I should feel very optimistic about my future dating, sex, romance life. I feel like I am just going through the motions and deceiving myself that it will happen. Even when I feel pumped and full of confidence I still get ultimately rejected by the ones I want. It’s impossible for me to figure out where I am going wrong. There are virtually an infinite amount of variables to factor into play. Why should I have faith in myself?
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Believe it or not, I would still care because I am very insecure. I am afraid that I will never get good with women no matter what I do because I’ve failed countless times with them. I fear that I be single or have to settle with someone mediocre for the rest of my life.
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This has been very interesting indeed. So, who has been judging you and have there been any social or familial consequences with you? I too am afraid of getting diseases and getting a girl pregnant. That was one of the reasons why I didn't lose my virginity until I was 27 and 3/4 years old and finally felt desperate for sex and love. I still am afraid of getting STDs, but my fear of them has been reduced greatly ever since I've madeout with over 20-30 girls and have gotten laid with 3 girls and almost got PIV laid with two other girls (I fondled and fingered a lot with those girls). Regarding pregnancy issues, guys these days have a lot to worry about with getting a girl pregnant because of the current laws regarding chid support. If a guy impregantes a girl or woman, then he has to pay her child support for the child. She could abort the baby, but if I am not mistaken, most women don't choose abortion. Casual sex is fun, but at the same it can depress me when the girl ditches me after a one-night stand or after a couple of dates. Interesting, I lost my virginity from a one-night stand with a girl who had a boyfriend and the first thing she did after making out and rubbing my cock in my pants was blow me and deep throat me in public. Then we went to my car and fucked in there.
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So, if there are only 2% of the guys out there in the world that would have even the slightest hint of interest in, then how does someone like you keep faith in the idea that you will find that amazing one for you? Also, are you sure that the reason for not having casual sex is not because you're afraid of being judged as a slut?
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I see. Well, that’s a fair enough answer. I guess not every girl desires to have casual sex. Now let me ask you this. Do u feel that there’s a very limited amount of guys for to choose from in this world?
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Why don’t u like it when guys approach u just for sex? Sex should be just for fun.
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Good Looks really don't mean much. I don't mean to brag, but I've always looked exceptionally good-looking and it didn't help me much with getting and keeping any of the girls I want. @BjarkeT Your answer sounds too uncertain.
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Also Leo, would you consider virgins who are in their mid twenties or older to have an exceptional talent for being celibate?
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Btw, I forgot to mention that I don’t like the fact that Corey Wayne is a Trump supporter. Trump supporters are usually not smart and believe in outdated simple- minded concepts with any thing in life.
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Corey Wayne isn’t that great. His ideas and understanding of certain ideas pertaining to relationships is mostly right. However, his methods of picking up and dating women are relatively ineffective according my experience. His advice on online dating is even worse.
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Wow! I can't believe how naive I was to think that practically all Buddhist monks are saints unlike the Catholic Priests. I don't know why I didn't realize this earlier. Also, I actually thought that Leo gave some invaluable pieces of wisdom and knowledge here on sex and meditation. This thread actually turned out to be genuinely great. OP, I feel your pain. I am not a virgin anymore and have slept with a few girls from online dating and fooled around with a couple from warm approaching. Yet, I've been rejected by about a thousand girls (even though I close to getting laid with some of them), despite my model looks over a period of about 3 years of approaching girls in all kinds of venues, having tried my best with online dating, looking up all kinds of PUA material, etc. I wonder if pickup doesn't work for everyone. Or maybe it does work for literally anyone who is mentally sane, but demands a serious amount of investment of time and commitment to make continual significant progress at it, as Leo stated. Btw, most legit PUA experts say that to truly get the most effective results with pickup that you need to approach at least 20-40 girls a week every week. Unfortunately, I haven't had the luxury to this at this point in my life now because of my financial and academic life along with my parents who I not only live with, but also don't approve of pickup that have gotten in the way of making a serious commitment to cold/warm approaching a lot. Yet maybe you don't have any of these obstacles like I do. If so then perhaps you have more of a choice then I do of approaching 20-40 girls a week every week in public venues. Now, I would advise not approaching random girls you've never met either in your class (if you go to school) or workplace or clubs or gyms you belong to or any kind of organization you belong to. Otherwise, you could jeopardize your career at your job or risk losing your membership at any other place you are a member of. Believe me, I've gotten kicked out of a gym and a mall for approaching random girls I've never met before even when I was very polite and had no intention at all of stalking or creeping any of them out. A lot of security guards and managers in virtually any store or club like "protecting" girls unnecessarily like white knight douchebags. Yet, If you can kicked out for harmlessly approaching a lot of women at a store or club, then you risk creating greater consequences to your life if you cold approach random girls who are strangers or acquaintances to you at work or in any of your classes at school. The only exception to this is actually approaching girls on a relatively big university campus or community college campus outside of a classroom or school gym as long as you don't stalk them or approach like a drunkard or crazy weirdo. Small campuses can be riskier than big ones because you're less likely to be anonymous when constantly approaching a college or grad school girl on a small campus.
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Hey guys, I recently came upon a vid on youtube from PUA coach Kezia Noble on overcoming rejection. It mainly explains about doing what's called "blowout game." Here's the link for vid that talks about it: What do you guys think about it? Could this idea be helpful for someone like me with approach anxiety and depression or would doing it be very asinine and possibly get me into some legal trouble with women?
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I've tried Tyler's way and it didn't work for me.
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You don't understand. I always complain everyday. Fuck this fucking world. I feel exactly the same as OP. I still don't get why I should continue living in this accursed world. I would kill myself if I didn't have my parents or my dog and wasn't afraid of death.
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Well ok, technically that's true regarding scientific and natural laws. However, you can't deny reality (at least not for long) and every serious matter has consequences.
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Are you actually a mathematician? That's dope. True, no formulas, theory, theorem, model, or what have you is an undeniable/fundamental truth for anything that explains how and why the universe works the way it works. However, they are again, extremely difficult to disprove or change just like business policies or societal laws in most countries are. On the other hand, scientific laws and what we see, hear, feel, smell, or taste are themselves undeniable truths. Also, forgoing all judgment and logic would cause anyone to be both very foolish and stupid.
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What a load of crap. Anything that has been strongly proven by science is undeniable. You can't just distort your perception by denying what the medical and scientific community has absolutely agreed upon. Even when it comes to math, if you are not a mathematician then how can you legitimately argue that a certain theorem, postulate, formula, or equation is false? Look, you can create something new or original (if you have very above average intelligence or talent) and you can always disprove a theory so long as you can back it up with adequately valid logic and strong enough pieces of evidence to substantiate your claims. However, the best scientists, medical doctors, and mathematicians in the world are of the highest-esteemed professionals in their field of expertise who not only have practiced what they do for a living for several years (if not decades), but also are some of the highest intellects and some of the most relevant individuals throughout the entire world. So what they say absolutely cannot be disputed, unless of course you are a scientist, medical doctor, or mathematician, whose intellect rivals or is beyond the elite of their respective fields. Otherwise, practically everything the TOP scientists, mathematicians, and medical doctors say and have demonstrated has been agreed upon by the general census of the world to not only work for society, but also has very little to no chance of being falsified. Furthermore, you can't disregard the LAWs of science, the established LAWs of society, the official RULES of created in each particular business. The LAWs of science will NEVER change because they have always and will forever determine how everything in the universe. Regarding business policies and societal laws, those rules are very difficult if not almost impossible to change because those rules are there to establish order and fairness as much as possible. The reason societal laws are exceedingly hard to change in a highly civilized society such as the U.S. is because there is always too many differing opinions on a certain matter for the country. Sure, kings or queens in a country governed by monarchy, have the power to easily change their laws of their nation, and a president, such as Putin, in a country ruled mostly by the oligarchy can also revise the laws of its nation much more easily compared to nations with democratic institutions. However, monarchy and oligarchy are such primitive and obsolete systems of ruling that are completely inferior to democracy and create an extremely unfair environment for the vast majority of the citizens in any nation. How about considering the consequences of one's actions in any situation? You can't just ignore the consequences of committing a crime, physically harming someone, or creeping many people out and then expect to get away with it (at least not for long). Lastly, what you see, hear, feel, smell, or taste (unless ofc you're hallucinating). Reality is reality.
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So, then what about the idea that "no girl is unattainable. You have to have a positive mindset"?
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It just happened I believe. I really don't have time to go into depth about each and every success I had.
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