Hardkill

You don't understand. I always complain everyday. Fuck this fucking world. I feel exactly the same as OP. I still don't get why I should continue living in this accursed world. I would kill myself if I didn't have my parents or my dog and wasn't afraid of death.

Well ok, technically that's true regarding scientific and natural laws. However, you can't deny reality (at least not for long) and every serious matter has consequences.

Are you actually a mathematician? That's dope. True, no formulas, theory, theorem, model, or what have you is an undeniable/fundamental truth for anything that explains how and why the universe works the way it works. However, they are again, extremely difficult to disprove or change just like business policies or societal laws in most countries are. On the other hand, scientific laws and what we see, hear, feel, smell, or taste are themselves undeniable truths. Also, forgoing all judgment and logic would cause anyone to be both very foolish and stupid.

What a load of crap. Anything that has been strongly proven by science is undeniable. You can't just distort your perception by denying what the medical and scientific community has absolutely agreed upon. Even when it comes to math, if you are not a mathematician then how can you legitimately argue that a certain theorem, postulate, formula, or equation is false? Look, you can create something new or original (if you have very above average intelligence or talent) and you can always disprove a theory so long as you can back it up with adequately valid logic and strong enough pieces of evidence to substantiate your claims. However, the best scientists, medical doctors, and mathematicians in the world are of the highest-esteemed professionals in their field of expertise who not only have practiced what they do for a living for several years (if not decades), but also are some of the highest intellects and some of the most relevant individuals throughout the entire world. So what they say absolutely cannot be disputed, unless of course you are a scientist, medical doctor, or mathematician, whose intellect rivals or is beyond the elite of their respective fields. Otherwise, practically everything the TOP scientists, mathematicians, and medical doctors say and have demonstrated has been agreed upon by the general census of the world to not only work for society, but also has very little to no chance of being falsified. Furthermore, you can't disregard the LAWs of science, the established LAWs of society, the official RULES of created in each particular business. The LAWs of science will NEVER change because they have always and will forever determine how everything in the universe. Regarding business policies and societal laws, those rules are very difficult if not almost impossible to change because those rules are there to establish order and fairness as much as possible. The reason societal laws are exceedingly hard to change in a highly civilized society such as the U.S. is because there is always too many differing opinions on a certain matter for the country. Sure, kings or queens in a country governed by monarchy, have the power to easily change their laws of their nation, and a president, such as Putin, in a country ruled mostly by the oligarchy can also revise the laws of its nation much more easily compared to nations with democratic institutions. However, monarchy and oligarchy are such primitive and obsolete systems of ruling that are completely inferior to democracy and create an extremely unfair environment for the vast majority of the citizens in any nation. How about considering the consequences of one's actions in any situation? You can't just ignore the consequences of committing a crime, physically harming someone, or creeping many people out and then expect to get away with it (at least not for long). Lastly, what you see, hear, feel, smell, or taste (unless ofc you're hallucinating). Reality is reality.

So, then what about the idea that "no girl is unattainable. You have to have a positive mindset"?

It just happened I believe. I really don't have time to go into depth about each and every success I had.

Read through these posts on this thread:

Man, I also feel worthless too, Faith. People in general don't understand humans like us. Sometimes, I wished I live in another galaxy that had life elsewhere. It's so painful. Everyday I try to put on my game face in front others I am acquainted with or am barely friends with, but in reality I am not handling it great.

Also, SFRL, I am afraid that I've already been trying your idea for years. It's still not enough and it's still not fun, for the most part. I am doing my very best and I am still a loser who has been very cruelly misled by most, but not all, of the PUA community. I am really not trying to argue with you guys for the sake of it. I am really not. In fact, trolling is the very last thing I want to do.

Fuck! But I can't figure out what I need to do make sure this doesn't happens again. I've tried therapists, read Dale Carnegie's "How to Win Friends and Influence People," etc. Now, I urgently need help on this.

Look, I am getting desperate and I don't know what else to do solve my approach anxiety and depression. Don't tell me to see a therapist because I've seen countless therapists all of my life to little avail. I don't know what to do.

Actually, I am afraid that that is not the worse that could happen. 1. I've gotten kicked out of a mall just for approaching random women (even when I was absolutely polite and normal), 2. I got kicked out of a bar for saying "I am incredibly hard!" to 2 women for shits and giggles when I was tipsy. 3. I got kicked out of a bar for "staring" at a bartender to the point of making her uncomfortable (I really didn't mean to), 4. I got kicked out a gym and my membership from there revoked permanently for taking a pic of a girl, making a couple of girls there uncomfortable when I approached them and/or was staring at them (I didn't mean to make those girls uncomfortable). 5. I got expelled from a University for sexual harassment. That's why I am very paranoid about the law and business policies. So, I will ask you again. Are you absolutely sure that I will not get into any legal trouble if I do this extreme direct style blowout game on girls in the future?

Right, I totally get that. That's why I became intrigued with the idea of trying something like that. So, even though u agree that it would help with approach and anxiety and outcome-dependency issues, do u think that women could press charges on me for "sexual harassment" because I said extremely crazy and creepy shit to them out of the blue?

I know, it seems very nuts, but I just wanted to desensitize myself to rejection and learn to feel like I am taking control of my own emotions and outcome. what about on the streets or bars?

I see. So, do u think that trying out this idea would get me into any trouble with women legally regardless of where I approached them?

Yes it is quite a balance to maintain. Society did not set good examples on how to properly maintain such a balance.

I believe that we must always embrace our dark side as much as our light side. You can't have one without the other to function well. Both sides are also necessary to reach your full potential. If you solely rely on your dark side then even if you succeed in acquiring what you want, you will pay the price by living a despicable life and will eventually face disastrous consequences to your life in the long-run. However, if you only depend on your light side then although you will be recognized as an honorable being with a pure-heart, you will never be able to unleash your true power from within you and you will never get as far as you desire in life in the long-run because you keep holding yourself back unnecessarily.

Yeah what do u do when you've tried everything else to no avail and u don't have a lot of options?

It doesn't matter as much as the fact that most people fail to change their habits as they grow old.

I am 29 years old and turning 30 in a few months. I am still financially dependent on my parents and my mom has always had to manage and schedule my life ever since I was born. Don't get me wrong, I have become increasingly independent from my parents as I've grown older; however, I am now at a point where I've so f***ing had it with my mom managing my g*d d**n life. Also, my mom is getting increasingly tired of supporting me and making sure that I get through school; however, she can trust that I can be completely independent because I hardly initiate any of my responsibilities including school, work, managing my time I spent throughout the week with all of my hobbies, etc. I've seen therapists and psychiatrists for all sorts of consultation on how to gain my full independence from them, but I am never able to stick with applying any of their suggestions for long because they are so mentally taxing on me that they decrease quality of my life such as having get up by myself in the morning everyday and going to sleep relatively early everyday, keeping a list and schedule of things I need to do each day, etc. Also, I don't have a job of my own other than working for my parents. It's been hard for me to get a job because of how competitive everything is today. Please help!

Well then I'll hold you to it as a promise, mister. I don't have much youth left. Also, to be honest I don't know how much longer I have left to live.

Guys, my parents and psychiatry believe that I have a slight degree of asperger's. What's my genetic potential for improving my social skills? Be brutally honest with me guys. I need to know the answer so that I can make an informed decision on whether or not I should ever DEVOTE my life to improving my social skills dramatic. Otherwise, I could end up hurting my own self-confidence and self-esteem in the long-run and constantly and frustratingly bang my head against a f*cking wall.

I want sex and I want good friends to hangout with constantly.

You have a point that I will buy for the most part. I don't ever expect to a social super star by any means, but perhaps I could become a fairly competent in it if I sacrificed my whole life for it. However, I've already failed with over a thousand women I've approached, which much more than 90% of the men in the world have ever done. Also, I've variety a of venues from clubs, meetups, school, gym, etc. to making friends with people I can connect with well. However, I failed with all of those venues.

Yeah, but what are the chances that a paralyzed dude will be able to regain full mobility of his entire body?