Tyler Robinson

You're right. I used to be idealistic which I still am. I had an extremely high score on an empathy test. Most people who have interacted with me in the past have labeled me an extreme empath. I had to do a lot of work to shed away some of that empathy because it attracted a lot of vultures to me. Yes I have big ideas about the world and I used to constantly think about how the world should be. If you had read all of my journals you would have had a glimpse of that behavior in me. But you weren't following me closely from day one so you still don't know much about me. You saw me in my finishing stages. I was very obsessed about the world before joining the forum. I was a part of different groups that were about changing the world. The I realized that it was causing me a lot of mental stress and my ex boyfriend J told me to stop idealizing about the world and focus more on myself. So you're right about my INFJ behavior but I had to drop those behaviors because they were very toxic. I was much more intense like Hitler before. Over the last 2 years I mellowed down a bit. I'm still very much like Hitler in real life. On the forum I can't show that because I will get banned if I said everything like Hitler here. I've entertained thoughts like genocide like Hitler. Just because I don't write those thoughts here doesn't mean I don't have those thoughts. They are in my private diary though. It won't be a stretch at all to compare me with Hitler. I also know that Hitler was a good guy. In fact when I told this to my ENFP boyfriend, he was a bit nervous. Hitler was simply very empathetic and passionate like me. Like many INFJs he was very much misunderstood. He didn't want to kill people. You haven't scrolled through my previous history. You haven't seen all my posts. I had a journal where I was going to share how I similar I was to Hitler and his thoughts. That time I didn't know that Hitler was INFJ.. But I didn't continue the journal out of fear that I'll be banned for Nazi writing. The problem with your typing is that you don't have an accurate knowledge about a person's history and character. You type people on the basis of the little information that you get from their public persona. Yet you don't know much about their private life. You don't know much of my private life and history. I have been compared to Hitler many times by my family members. So I wasn't really shocked when you compared me to Hitler. That Hitler part of my personality is not visible on this forum because I need to be politically correct here on purpose.. If you heard the political opinions I share with my family at dinner table, then you will say I'm worse than Hitler ..lol. I'm nowhere INFP. I have very extreme opinions and thoughts and like Hitler I'm a bit negative, depressive, passionate and neurotic. But I'm just trying to tone it down a bit because being that passionate about the world impacted my health so I broke that neurotic habit. Some guy on the forum said that I was an empath but a foolish empath. He told me to wisen up and become a wise empath. So I decided to cut down on my empathy a bit.. All these changes are making me a better less unhealthy version of INFJ. I was much more neurotic, nervous, aggressive and unhealthy type of INFJ before.

So tldr version: make yourself healthy first and your intuition will lead you to a person who you're supposed to be with. Focus on intensity of emotions in deciding who you're attracted to. Then, put yourself in close proximity to him while not letting on that you like him too much... even if your feelings are intense. Basically, don't mess up the mating dance.

Lmfao. I'm more Hitler than you give me credit for. INFPs are sweet. I'm like salt+sugar.

INFJs are also compatible with ENFPs Most of my friends are/were INFPs. Most of my ex boyfriends(almost all) were ENFPs. I don't get along with TJs and TPs.

@thisintegrated

You know an awful lot about MBTI. And you don't know MBTI soulmate chart? Both Ben and Mar were ENFPs. They were my exes. Don't quote their names. Keep privacy

Plus, a man will value more what he's spent more time and effort getting, and this will help him invest more in you emotionally to move the attraction past the point of mere sexual attraction. This may sound backward and objectifying, but male sexual impulse tends to be objectifying by design. But it's a reptilian brain thing, so it doesn't adhere to the higher nature of humanity that takes stock in egalitarian values. It's a lower nature thing, and the inner beast wants what it wants. But this is only something to worry about in the first months of a relationship. After that, the higher nature is far more important that the lower nature as the first few months are just a flash in the pan. But the lower nature, is necessary for a strong initial bond. But the deepening of the relationship comes with creating an equal and complementary partnership. So, in the beginning, think polarization, but afterward think deepening and friendship.

@thisintegrated fine then. Instead of arguing you should petition Leo to remove Tier 1 people from this forum.

And you don't like me? You want me banned?

You just said all schizos banned. And you said Leo did the right thing. That means you wanted them banned? Expected it from a False Flag Pseudo Tier 2 guy to immediately flip flop on his words and back pedal lol. Further confirmation of False Flag Pseudo Tier 2. You're no Tier 2. You only mimick them for the sake of an ego boost. Tier 2 will be spending time on a forum? For what? They will actually invest their time much more wisely than spend it on an internet forum. Leo is here because he is the founder of the forum. Further confirmation that you're not Tier 2 but just a pseudo Tier 2.

And nobody who is Tier 2 is asking others to be banned either Mr False Flag Pseudo Tier 2.

So, put yourself in close proximity to him and be inviting, but be elusive too. Move away from him but subtly invite him toward you. Scarcity makes the heart grown fonder. Let him chase you a bit, and never chase him. Let your sexuality glint through in your words actions but don't lay it on too thick. Save all the really sexy stuff until the moment that the chase is over (usually when you allow him to kiss you for the first time). Then, do whatever feels right after that point. But a longer chase, often makes for more intensity and heat for both partners. It's more conducive to fusion.

He also loves to put down INFPs and INFJs. Everyone has a unique personality. Nobody is superior to another At this point he is a pseudo Tier 2 lol. How can he be Tier 2 and not be empathetic?

We need to petition Leo to remove all Tier 2 people from this forum. They are the real culprit that belong to Aob.

Oh I see. But that's just his overly passionate emotional, he was known for emotional speeches and rantings like me. Gotcha. No problem. That doesn't mean every INFJ is violent. You can't stereotype INFJs as a violent group. Tier 2 don't belong here. You're too advanced for actualization. All INFJs and INFPs rightfully belong here. We need a place like this. You need to create your own place since you don't need growth right? This is called a self development forum. It's not called Advanced forum.

I'm INFJ. INFPs are wiser and careful. I'm sneaky, childish and reckless as INFJs are supposed to be. Also INFJs are known to be good liars Look on the internet and type INFJs and liars. I'm good with lying.

INFJs are Hitler? How and why? Substantiate. Also this is playground for Tier 1 people so that they can be tier 2 Maybe Tier 2 people can go create their own forum lol.

But your intuition should lead you to a man who mirrors you, if you're open and receptive to your feelings. You will know it is who you're supposed to be with when you feel intensely positive emotions toward that person that radiate through the entire body from the chest. The more intense the emotions are, the better. There doesn't need to be any conscious decision making in this attraction process. You will feel it before you think it. But don't get trigger happy and mess up the mating dance. You should make him feel like he made the first move and that the whole thing was his idea. It's like dancing. The woman takes the first step (backward) but the man leads. If the woman doesn't take the first step backward first, the man will step on her feet.

Dreamers like INFJs and sages like INFPs are the mothers of this forum even if not mothers in real world. What is this forum? Only a virtual place. Virtual place for dreamers and sages. What's a logical bear doing in a virtual place like this?

men tend to become attracted at the sacral level first and usually only move that energy to the heart center after spending intimate (sexual and otherwise) time with a woman. Women tend to become attracted to a man at the heart center first, and then the energy moves downward after spending intimate (sexual or otherwise) time with a man. Of course, there are many exceptions to this... but this is a general rule of thumb that I've observed.

Another thing to keep in mind is that, at first, you will likely be a lot more emotionally interested in him than he is in you. He will more likely be most interested in sex, at first. And beware that some men have mental blocks and can NEVER get past this point from where they are psychologically. But you don't want a relationship with that type of guy anyway. He has more work to do on himself before he can have a healthy loving relationship.

I'll never be attracted to INTJ or INTP or ENTP. They're logical as shit and I can't manage with overly logical people. They literally butcher my emotions and mock me

I usually attract ENFP men. All of my ex boyfriends are ENFPs.

Also, limiting beliefs and mental baggage will distort and obscure your emotional lens and make you think you want things that you actually don't. This will blunt your intuition and awareness of your emotions. And these two factors are the most important thing in determining how deep your level of attraction is to a man. You won't be getting clear signals as to who will really light your fire... and high heat is necessary in the first months of a relationship because it is a bonding force. WIthout heat and passion, there is no initial fusion which is also called "falling in love." If you never "fall in love" with your partner, due to lack of fusion, then it will be a chore to maintain your relationship and it will be more like a friendship where bland sex and cohabitation is involved. It's similar to chemistry where some chemicals react with one another to form a new chemical and others do not. You want to have the kind of chemistry that reacts, transforms, and bonds. But there is no way to force this. It will only happen with who it happens with. So, it is a passive process. You just have to let the Cupid's Arrow strike you wherever it strikes, and this may happen counterintuitively and unexpectedly.

My advice on finding a long-term parter is to first do a lot of introspection and let go of as much baggage as possible. You want to do this first, because you'll always attract and be attracted to a person that mirrors and/or complements you psychologically... even if this isn't super obvious at first. Healthy people are attracted to healthy people, and unhealthy people are attracted to unhealthy people. So, get as healthy as you can first by doing integrative practices and inner work. Be whole first; then seek a relationship. Also, be sure to let go of any resistance to men as a group. Misandrists and misogynists are desperately attracted to one another, and will unconsciously use each other to prop up their negative views on the opposite gender and to meet their needs to connect with what they've repressed as well. People who tend to talk about "real men" and "real women" stuff, tend to fall into these reductive mindsets about gender. So, take these as red flags. It's a really negative dynamic that you may have noticed between people, and no love or partnership can grown there.