Tyler Robinson

When you ignore someone you should try your hardest not to be tempted to take it off

Every time you feel anger or anxiety, write all the details of it (circumstances, what you feel, why you feel this negative emotion) in a journal. It will definitely help you to calm down long-term.

each person only experiences a small subset of reality we call it perspective.. so others perspective are invaluable as it broadens our own. It is impossible to experience it all on our own given the limitations of our senses and time ect.. so its really handy to have access to lots of different perspectives.. It does not complete us at all in any way, but the exchange is invaluable.. Think more along the lines of,,, we synergize our differences,,, rather than,,, compliment each other.. the very nature of our existence is that we live in a body with few senses and limited access to the whole story.. I have not been enlightened and I dont know how much extra perspective this gives you, I imagine its just a teaser for how much we are missing. I dont think we can be complete or even should be.. we are far too busy just making the best of what we have.. I think this should be good enough.. From my perspective enlightenment is not a goal. it is more like medicine.. helps you to realise that there is so much more and not get bogged down .. its always there reminding us of how much is out there.. for me it makes more sense to be the best i can be. is being enlightened the best I can be I dont know..

A soul mate is usually described as someone who compliments you perfectly. You think the same way & finish each other's sentences. You "might as well be one person". You "complete" each other. Of course, that is the most popular definition of a soul mate.

Your appearance is your entrance ticket, if we find man attractive, we'll talk with him, vice versa. And then after a talk we decide if we're going to meet him again or not. Sometimes we make compromises about looks, but about personality never. And be aware that men to get attracted for a girl need few seconds, we women need a lot of time because it is based on personality and we are sometimes unsure how to judge someone.

Generally speaking though, men are more visual, they like what they see and they will get to know you based on their visual attraction of a woman. Women have to have an attraction to a man, however if someone was say 'average looking' but they understood how this hot girl thinks and connects with her in a way that other males don't, like this person understands her, the attraction is more of a huge turn on then a hot guy just talking crap. Girl base most things on an emotional level and how well you can connect with us on an emotional level.

The more you find your equilibrium the less anxious and jealous, needy you will feel.. Because you will become aware that you really don't need anybody anymore, just learn to enjoy them in the same manner you enjoy yourself.. They may come and go, but you can't be abandoned anymore => you have yourself What is more, you can be able to accept every feeling as well, honor them and even to savor them. It may seem crazy but they all have their flavours, colors and aliveness. Take a look deep look at them instead of trying to fight them

Narcissism, Covert Narcissism, Co-Dependency. It helps you see how exactly your psyche was manipulated as a child. Putting some conscious light on that can be really helpful. Look into setting boundaries, feeling the emotional body, getting intimate with your inner child, establishing a sense of self-worth, practicing gratitude etc. Some old but good stuff on that is from Pia Mellody (YouTube). Richard Grannon, Ross Rosenberg, Teal Swan might be some people worth looking at. Besides that the whole area of self love, stuff from Matt Kahn, Bentinho Massaro and enlightenment work in general might help you. Take your time for that you brain literally needs to be programmed over time. This one is really great:

There are multiple levels to communication, body language, tone of voice, word selection (i.e. flirting), etc, all of which has an instant impact (on first and lasting impressions) of the person who is on the receiving end of that communication (even non verbal, or you haven't even spoken a word to them yet).

Stop worrying! Number 1 rule for authentically connecting with other people - say what you think and think what you say - if they don't accept you, so what? Why would you want to be friends with someone who doesnt value you for who you are!

All in all, relationships can simultaneously be our livelihood as well as merely a tool for self development. Regardless, it is what you make of it. I'd advise you to really challenge yourself and see how honest you can get with a person. Somebody on the path to enlightenment will be easily held back by relationships... but allow your love time to see you and your beautiful intentions for what they are, first and foremost. Give them the chance to show you who they can be, just as you are doing for yourself. A couple committed to enlightenment should ideally know what is best for their fate. Love at the very least is a way to experience this short life. Honor love in all forms and above all be true to yourself.

Last time I said fuck off I got warning points. Maybe that's why. *deeper meanings *to the above statement.

What value are you offering?

Egoic love is so different than Spiritual love, spiritual people have no excessive attachment to each others. there may be some strong non-conditional emotions shared between them, they are just emotions and sexual instincts, spiritual people realize that emotions and sexual instincts just comes and goes as a natural state of all human beings, and they are so honest to admit that to each others. a romantic spiritual love within my understanding (and I deem as perfect) is made of deep and honest understanding between the couple, they have no problem to joyfully accept that they don't no longer has feelings. no cheating, no lies, no sneaking around, it's up to them next if they want to continue living to together to support each others, or to break up, they will remain in a default sense of compassion, but no excessive attachment. no heart-breaking and drama.

Technically an enlightened person should see the world and their partner as an extension of themselves. So in theory, you should be more accepting and at peace with your relationship and partner regardless of whether they are on the same page as you. On the other hand, trying to reach enlightenment takes a lot of slowly shedding the illusory beliefs that we have. Which is not easy when around others who keep imposing those beliefs and lower awareness concepts on to you.

How can Hitler be sage?

Staying single grants a great amount of freedom so one can focus on the spiritual path because it reduces the chances of conflicts and obligations. If somebody was so lucky to be in a serious non-egoic love (acceptance) between both sides, where there are complete honesty and mutual interest in spirituality, that can be very beneficial for the progress of both sides. although this is so rare.

Enlightenment is not about abandoning your humanity. It's about accepting it fully ! I will use the following metaphor to try to explain what I mean. Imagine yourself as a great pianist. All your life you have played what you think were all the notes in your piano. Highs and lows. And you have learned to play amazing music. When you remember who you are (become enlightened) you become aware that your piano is much larger than you thought. You can play incredibly beautiful notes that you never even knew existed. Initially, you will want to spend as much time as possible exploring the new notes in your piano. Its normal. But don't forget the other notes. Every note is equally beautiful, not only the new ones ! Play all your notes. Fully embrace your humanity, as well as your divinity, all of who you are, and make amazing music to be enjoyed by everyone around you. Claiming we are only our spirit is as wrong as claiming we are only our body. As long as we are human we are both and both are equally important and equally beautiful. Stay close to everything that makes you human. Embrace your family and friends. Hug and kiss your loved ones, express your love and joy. This will bring you happiness and peace. Your life and everything in it, is a gift of love for you. So enjoy it !

I was trying too hard to dominate my own mind.

Sometimes you have to let things happen.

@Eyowey are you a Capricorn?

I think personality is innate and genetic.

I've a great personality thank you.

You're helping me