Tyler Robinson

I'm not going to talk about genotypes though.

My ex boyfriend's birthdays APRIL 11 APRIL 25 March 2 APRIL 29 AUGUST 26 LMFAO APRIL.....

I'm thinking of Tony now. Maybe he is a Taurus. And not the cheating lying, deceiving clever Taurus. Maybe a good Taurus who really cares I'm in tears right now. I was manipulated so much and I didn't deserve it. When you love someone genuinely from your heart and you realize that they don't really give a damn about you, it hurts like hell even if that person is attractive for whatever reason. Nothing hurts like betrayal

My general matches are Aries, Taurus, Virgo and Leo. I don't get along with Sagittarius

Hitler was a Taurus. And I'm hugely attracted to a Taurus. Maybe Hitler would have been a great match as a husband to me.

So I'm basically a Green Blue Hippie INFJ. And I'm either attracted to Red Blue Neurotic empath INFJ or a sophisticated Blue Green wise empath ENFP. Hmm.

I tend to develop an inferiority complex around ENFP and INFP. Because they're less neurotic than me. They are also able to understand my thunderous emotions better and tend to keep me calm with their motherly energy. I'm mostly like a neurotic fervent child.

Now Hitler is a great example of Red+BLUE. He was deeply religious, made a good leader, he was domineering yet he maintained his own code of ethics so he was very much Blue but he was also a tyrant in which he exhibited Red qualities He was also INFJ. I might be attracted to someone like Hitler in terms of SD.

I'm the only INFJ girl in this forum I don't know any INFJ guy. I haven't met any INFJ guy yet. There's only one guy who is INFJ here and he is a bit passive I would say. He is probably a healthy INFJ. Meanwhile I'm the unhealthy INFJ. I'm more neurotic than him.

I'm stage green mixed with blue And the guy needs to be stage Red mixed with Blue. Stage Red because he has to be raw caveman Disciplining type asshole. Blue because he is aware not to cross the line or make it hurtful. Blue leadership qualities. So my perfect match goes like this GREEN + BLUE MATCH RED + BLUE

It's like separating corn silk from corncob. That's a very tough thing to do. Most of the above traits belong to abusers. These are leadership traits, some of them in the dark category yet they're useful to leading and taming people. What I'm looking for is a master slave Bondage relationship yet the master has to be someone who isn't genuinely abusive, someone who knows that he is using stage Red qualities (along with some Orange), but he is masterfully using them being fully aware that none of it should hurt me in the process. This is like using a mock fight to induce hormones that's all. This pretty much mimics rape fantasy. This sort of a guy will need to be extremely kind and empathetic to the point that he is aware of using torture for bonding and not for hurting

I'll say I'm mainly attracted to — Grooming Owning Taming Disciplining I'll short form it as GOTD.

The things that my mind is attracted to — Grooming Taming Owning Disciplining Bondage Dominating Coaching Guiding Affection Negative side of it — Punishing Disciplining Bondage Raping Conquering Abusing Molesting Rough treatment Authoritarian but not totalitarian Animalistic sexual affection

You feel good when your dominator is punishing, disciplining, torturing, abusing, beating you etc etc. It makes you feel bonded and loved. Obviously it's unhealthy. It's unhealthy sexuality basically. It's like dark chocolate sexuality rather than vanilla sexuality. But it's a kink in its own right. It's like how we're addicted to junk food or liquor. It's our deepest animalistic fantasy that doesn't find acceptance because of its taboo nature. We don't like things that don't appear too innocent and we like to repress lt. This is repressed sexuality and it's best to confront it rather than hide it, suppress it or shy away from it. This is our taboo animalistic side and if we don't indulge in it freely and appropriately, it probably results in deep dissatisfaction and boredom and even detachment from living. Even aversion.

I'll call it sexual bonding preference. SBP My preference is rape fantasy, rape kink or rape fetish combined with bdsm.

many men believe that women are attracted to men in the same way that men are attracted to women. So, they try to improve themselves and put on a facade because they believe women are attracted to attractive traits and not whole entire people, because men are attracted to attractive traits as opposed to the whole person, at least initially. In the initial stages of attraction, to a woman a man is more than the sum of his parts. In the initial stages of attraction, to a man a woman is exactly the sum of her parts. So, when a woman is unattracted to them or rejects them the first thought is "What's wrong with me?" "For what REASON doesn't she like me?" "How do I make it so that she is attracted to me?" But there is no reason there because it's a completely emotionally based thing... and quite random. It like bubbles up from the subconscious mind at the onset of the attraction.

Own your sexuality. If you are horny enough to doggystyle a tree-stump 24/7, own it. It's you. It's your desires. There's nothing to be ashamed of no matter what others or society at large tells you. It's not like it'll magically morph your personality.So don't worry about it. Be very clear in your intention. Others will genuinely respect you for it and if they dislike you, then it's also genuine. But who cares? They aren't worth hanging around/befriending. Find someone else. There are literally billions to pick from. It isn't worth the hassle to make someone who doesn't even like the real you like a thin veneer of personality you establish. So if they reject you... don't worry about it. They literally did you a favor by not including themselves in your life.

In my honest opinion.... Every person is a free agent. They can come and go as they please. Focus only on your own self-development, unless invited by the other. Be ruthfully honest in all aspects. No deceptions, no emotional blackmail, no ignoring what the other is saying to you about you or the dating. Everybody is like a train going on a journey. If your date likes your journey/destination, your date will want to get on your train. If they no longer want to go where you are going, they will get off. So lets hope that your self development journey is attractive to your date. Otherwise you can still persist on your journey without your date, or you might find your date's journey even better than your own, and join on that person's journey.

Have you noticed that no matter how much you snuggle up to someone, or no matter how close and intimate you be with someone, you can never quite get to the place you want to get? You can never quite get close enough? You can never quite expose yourself enough to get all that love and affection you want? You want infinite love right? You want to be really close to your bf and family? You want to keep going until you almost be one with that person, become those people? And its so frustrating, because the physical world is stopping you! Stopping you from being close to them. You yearn to love them and be with them so much, but they are so far away. ... if you would just let go of that boundary, of all boundaries, let yourself be infinitely close with them, stop being confined to your body, and be the people you want to be close with. Then that craving will be fulfilled, with tears coming down your eyes too... you don't need to hug them physically to get all that juicy love you want, all you need to do is hug them with awareness.

I feel massive levels of discomfort saying something as harsh as "fuck off" to someone. As women we are trained (through evolution) to be docile and neat. Anything we say is usually used against to portray us negatively. If a woman doesn't act coy, she is considered unwomanly and shamed. That discomfort, shame, fear, guilt complex prevents us from being too harsh with men. And not that guys take rejection politely either. Some guys leave threats, act rude etc I remember one time on a dating site a guy was chatting with me and I was trying to avoid him and being blunt with the rejection, the next thing he did was tell everyone not to talk to me. That I was an unfriendly person. Most guys aren't open minded or pleasant with rejection. They take it to heart and the woman risks losing her reputation for being harsh.

what does being in a relationship with a cheater have to do with love. There is no connection between the two. Human identities can have relationships with just about anyone or anything, for any reason and pretend that it is love. The human identity has never experienced love, it only experiences feelings from emotional and mental state assuming that is love, but it isn't. The situation is for human identities that are functioning in an unconscious manner.

As Coach Corey Wayne puts it, there are three phases in a relationship : the attraction phase, the dating phase, and then the relationship itself. I want to develop myself to be good at all three. What I'm really looking for is a resource that will change my psychology, and help me be more attractive, romantic, loving, sexual, etc.

Whatever comes up accept it and then decide what you want to do about it.. Accept the realities of the situation.. Not outwardly , i mean inwardly.. Try to avoid thoughts like the "oh they make me angry " Think in terms of " oh I get angry when" Drill down on this emotions that come up and find out where they come from and get help from us about what you can do about them..

I'll just put the whole forum on ignore and continue with my life.

I feel massive levels of discomfort saying something as harsh as "fuck off" to someone. As women we are trained (through evolution) to be docile and neat. Anything we say is usually used against to portray us negatively. If a woman doesn't act coy, she is considered unwomanly and shamed. That discomfort, shame, fear, guilt complex prevents us from being too harsh with men. And not that guys take rejection politely either. Some guys leave threats, act rude etc I remember one time on a dating site a guy was chatting with me and I was trying to avoid him and being blunt with the rejection, the next thing he did was tell everyone not to talk to me. That I was an unfriendly person. Most guys aren't open minded or pleasant with rejection. They take it to heart and the woman risks losing her reputation for being harsh.