Tyler Robinson

One thing I learned from my personal experience is that a man who puts pressure is not a good man. And women should beware of such men. What happens is this — He will tell the woman - "be my girlfriend or I'm finding another woman." Or "kiss me now or I'm leaving." These are not good men. They are highly suspect. A good man will not confuse a woman or make her insecure or desperate. Such situations are tricky because the woman doesn't know whether to say yes or no. If she says yes immediately, she is risking allowing a bad guy into her life and she is allowed very little time to get to know the man and his intentions If she says no, she is left feeling guilty that she might have lost a potential good partner by rejecting. He puts her in an emotional choke hold. This is an expert manipulative technique that a lot of men use and it's Powerful because the woman has to make a split second decision on whether to let the guy into her life or let him go and often this pressure induces the woman to say yes. Such men will never stay with the woman. They're looking for masculine dominance and conquest. They are not looking for a full time relationship. A lot of men enjoy the thrill of having conquered a woman mentally and sexually and care very little about how she will feel once he pumps and dumps her or is no longer attracted to her. This is not even love or attraction. It is simply conquest. It is similar to what a lot of women do on social media and get a guy to feel interested when the real intent is to just get some attention and likes from him and sorta string him along without actually ever loving him. Women should be careful of such traps. The guys who look attractive are generally the conquest type of guys. And they know subtle techniques that make vulnerable women submit quickly. Anytime you as a woman falls in love quickly, that's a danger. I'll call it tripping. You tripped for the wrong guy. He got your leg. Attraction and love often don't mix. A guy might love you deeply and care about you but might not know how to talk sweet things. Wait for the bonding. Let the guy want to bond. Let him show some degree of commitment. Let him genuinely want to be with you and not just see you as a conquest. Often times a guy who genuinely loves will give you a lot of time to bond with you with zero pressure.

@NoSelfSelf nah. She won't pair bond with a loser. But she can pair bond with a manipulator. The vetting process is a huge difficulty for women. For example if you told me to do the vetting process, my brain is totally clueless. I don't know where to start.

I think the solution lies in just meeting a lot of men and hold off bonding just like men hold off masturbating. Realizing your feminine nature and how volatile and dangerous it is. Learning to not submit easily. But this is still tricky. A lot of men try very very hard to pull a woman. The more you move away from a guy, the more he will pull you. But there's a caveat. A guy who is ready to put a lot of effort into you won't want to lose you easily either because he invested so much into you. Also look for men who are always trying to harmonize with you. They're actually putting effort to listen to you, and build things with you. More actions, less words. And more determination. I think for women it's a lifelong struggle to find that one committed partner who is really invested in them for a lifetime and won't break up midway. It's like looking for lifetime battery when most batteries expires in a few days. At the end of the day, the only man who will last with you is the man who has always been waiting for you. Who has always made sure to stand by you in every situation without backing off ever. That's the only test — that is time.

What's the solution to this sort of suffering that many women experience?

It's not that women lack in intelligence. They do have a very high level of intuitive intelligence. They can detect small changes in a man's mood very easily. Since they bond emotionally, even slight changes in a man's emotions are detected by her. For example if her husband is acting distant, not talking to her or forgot to give her a call, she immediately knows that something is really wrong. So it's not that women aren't intelligent. They are just intelligent in a more emotional radar kind of way. It's that their emotions often cloud their judgement and that way they end up ignoring red flags.

Also a woman's sexiness is associated with her emotions. So basically when her vagina feels stimulated she feels emotions for the guy and wants him as a boyfriend. Whereas men can have a casual sexual relationship with a woman and completely forget her the next day after sex and not even bother to call her up or set a date Whereas a woman gives her body to a man, she starts developing/producing bonding hormones in her blood especially oxytocin and this makes her emotional for the guy she sleeps with and the next day her brain begins to think about the same man and she is expecting him to visit her again or start a relationship with her. So often having direct sex with a woman or even sexually stimulating her is a good way to quickly get approved by her brain and make her want the guy. She will develop attachment to him because of the sexual bonding he had with her. For men this is impossible to understand or comprehend because their brains just don't think like this at all. They are very conscious even after sex. And sex has zero impact on them. They don't take sex seriously. But women take sex very seriously and start feeling awesome feelings for the guy they are sleeping with. This doesn't happen to prostitutes because they get used to treating men like customers. But a regular ordinary woman gets bonded with the man who gives her sex. So she starts wanting and loving him. She starts... What do they call it.. "catch feelings" for that man.

@Hero in progress are men inherently loving or do they just pretend to love a woman. Do they want a woman to feel loved to stroke their own ego? Is a man really capable of lifelong love? Why do they lose interest after some months or years? Is a man's love true or is it just infatuation? Did a man ever truly deeply really loved a woman he desired? Why do men say sweet things to women if they don't want to love her long term?

No I'm super ugly. Everything about me is ugly. I'm a masculine woman lol. And I don't care about men lol. I'm such a man hater. Im a whale. I'm a cow. I'm a virgin Buffalo. Lmfao. And one more. I even have tiny tits Blaaaaah

*runs away.

Frank question — did you ever have sex?

I literally had a relationship with a man without having sex with him. He was in another place and traveling during Covid was difficult. We used to have phone sex and sexting. I didn't even freaking see his penis. I didn't even know how his penis looked. He used to arouse me, full body orgasms by simply talking to me and whispering through the phone. And I used to have multiple orgasms for a whole 5 hours, constant full orgasms, without even touching my vagina/clit. Just by his words. Because he was sexy at talking. He would make me cum several times through the night. Really powerful orgasms. And he would ejaculate several times too during this. He was just a simple blue collar worker and his height was 5 feet 9 inches. And he was an average looking bloke. You just don't know how male female attraction. It can even be mental. He was probably the most attractive guy I ever dated without even having sex. He used to tell me that sex is overrated and he was very right.. Love is a burning desire between two people and nothing stops them from enjoying each other, no physical barrier of looks or age or any other nonsense. You say all this shallow rubbish because you have never experienced true romantic love. It's like a thunder. Go experience something.

Pure love

Yea I'll enjoy his micropenis. At least he won't be shallow. You talk about long term relationship. Looks degrade with age anyway. So are you going to abandon a partner because they don't look young hot anymore? Then why will anyone be with you? Just to be abandoned? People aren't toys for your flimsy whims of sex and company. People want someone they can trust and grow together through old age and for that penis size, loose vagina, virginity, height, all of this superficial nonsense doesn't mean much.

Incredibly shallow. But do what suits you. Personally I'll never judge a man by his dick size. It's preying on male insecurity. All men deserve love.

I apologize for judging the men on this thread. At first I wrongly assumed that all the men here were trying to show their hate for women by hating masturbating. It seems holding off masturbating is slightly beneficial (not fully though) to men in terms of overall regulation of testosterone. Of course you shouldn't go overboard with either masturbation or holding off. Sorry for judging. Carry on.

When I love a man, I should see his heart not his penis size. When you love a woman, you should see her heart not how many she slept with.

Why will having different penises matter when all penises are same? Why would she smell different? That doesn't make sense. The only thing that smells differently is probably your judgment And if a loose vagina makes you feel sick, doesn't it make you really shallow, that you judge a woman by the tightness of her vagina? Isn't it similar to a woman judging a man by the size of his dick? But that's shallow and even more impure than those who you judge as impure. Lmfao the hypocrisy.

Testosterone boosting foods. Ginger. Oysters. ... Pomegranates. ... Fortified plant milks. ... Leafy green vegetables. ... Fatty fish and fish oil. ... Extra-virgin olive oil. ... Onions. Abstinence does not increase testosterone What time is testosterone peaking? What time of day is testosterone the highest? testosterone levels fluctuate, peaking around 8 a.m. and diminishing throughout the day. Levels tend to be lowest around 8 in the evening, then climb during the night. That's why men experience something called morning wood ..... Taken from the web. 8 Proven Ways to Increase Testosterone Levels Naturally Exercise. Eat well. Minimize stress. Get vitamin D. Consider supplements. Sleep. Avoid estrogen-like chemicals. Reduce alcohol.

Masturbation only slightly reduces testosterone otherwise negligible effects. It seems holding off masturbating increases testosterone on the 6th day but only slightly. This article discusses this in detail. https://www.nateliason.com/blog/testosterone-timing

Masturbation itself does not increase testosterone then why will the lack of it increase this hormone. That wouldn't make sense. You're giving misinformation.

Well i'm not a man. I assumed that testosterone levels decline. But I'm digging deeper into this It seems you're exaggerating this and there's literally no effect on testosterone as given in this article. Read it fully. https://theconversation.com/nofap-can-giving-up-masturbation-really-boost-mens-testosterone-levels-an-experts-view-157701

You guys confuse women. On one hand you complain that we ladies don't give you a chance, that we are too picky. That we should be a bit loose. On the other hand when we sleep around, you have a problem with that. Like seriously dude, make a pick. What the heck is a woman supposed to do. We get shamed either way.

@Leo Gura hello? Two users are constantly calling out this trolling. Can this user @onacloudynightbe dealt with strictly?

Stop this. You are trolling the forum.

Stop trolling. You deserve serious warning points. I don't care whatever nonsense you think. Users like you are ruining the dating section. It's getting out of hand and I'm taking screenshots of your thread.