Tyler Robinson

Let's see how all of this evolves. Fingers crossed. Being on this forum is a struggle everyday when everyone is hell bent to troll you.

It's my mom's birthday today It sucks that even on happy days I have to deal with trolling on the forum. No respite.

Just my 2 cents from my recent observations on male sexuality. I've observed some men and come to this conclusion that — the more a man masturbates the sweeter he is towards women in general, he is also more desirable and less misogynistic. I have found that men who masturbate less or have a negative attitude to masturbating tend to be more misogynistic and bitter and aggressive in general. Such men generally perceive masturbation as being against male pride/ego kind of a thing. They also view masturbation and sex as a dirty disgusting low value thing too. Men who are kinder to women see masturbation as a good thing and don't feel ashamed of it. This is just my observation from my interactions with men.

I agree. By the way are you Russian?

@no_name are you Russian or Bulgarian, just asking out of curiosity?

Problem, at least for me, I don't know about other users, is that these reports are often just discarded because I guess nobody wants users to develop grudge etc you know what I mean social politics.

@Something Funny I guess instead of talking so much, we need to really come up with solution for the toxic male users as you said. I mean how long can this go on? Most women are getting tired of this shit. We don't need to suffer so much and we don't deserve it. Yea I get those men need improvement. I get that. But I feel like we as women are having to pay the price with our self esteem for their bad attitude. It's not healthy you know.

@Something Funny her anger is sort of valid. Everytime she comes here, her threads are locked but there are so many threads that are hurtful to women but they are not locked. I think she doesn't feel welcome here and so do a lot of women.

I'd suggest that you report such posts immediately and keep a track record of such users by collecting screenshots whenever you see those posts and save the links to the posts. Then submit all the evidence to Leo. That'd the only option which is viable.

I'm sorry you're going through this experience. I think Leo should consider this. Maybe a lot of women can petition about this situation. Last time this was LEO'S response - I want to make this forum more welcoming to women. There are two core issues here: 1) Men are simply biased by their sexual desires so they cannot think objectively about women. These biases are very deep and are not easily undone. And given the fact that something like 80% of my audience is male, it's sorta baked into the cake. As a man I also have some of these biases. 2) Redpill, Blackpill, Incel, and pickup ideologies have spread across the web like a virus and are difficult to undo. They are discussed here. Often we try to debunk them here. With that said, our Mods certainly do reign in the worst elements of this. We could do better but also these biases and ideas simply arise by having a bunch of guys talking about dating in one place. If you see clearly misogynistic posts, please report to a Mod or myself. But also remember that we cannot police all the bias out of people here. So try to distinguish between genuinely misogyny vs differences in perspective and natural bias. Part of learning to get better with women is seeing one's biases play the mselves out.

So what's cooking

@NoSelfSelf I have pmed you.

That would be very helpful thank you.

You mean comment free journals?

Yea that's a 50% probability like a coin toss.

A woman can experience multiple orgasms in a row during one sexual encounter and the sex can last longer than usual. But once she has climaxed, it's over, of course she can be aroused to climax again. But mostly after a couple of times, she is exhausted, once all juices are out and she has reached mental orgasm, then she won't be aroused again. Also depending very very much on the partner she is with, if he is masculine, strong and has big dick energy, her sexual energy will try to align to his. Of course it's not anywhere comparable to the horniness of men, but she can regularly feel horny for her man. But remember this is not dependent on her. It's very much dependent on her man. He should be able to seduce her and get her horny. I found in my personal experience that my horniness depended a lot on the guy I was with. If he was boring, my hormones went down. If he was horny and sexually attractive, my hormones went up and I felt equally horny. Men and women are pretty much same, the dynamic is not determined by gender. It's determined by the type of male and female you put together. If you put together an interesting non boring sexually intense male and pair him with a horny sexual woman, both will have a ton of sex. It doesn't depend on general factors. Some people, man or woman, are more horny than others. It's not a collective thing, rather than an individual thing.

What will a strong man say to a woman - 1. I trust you 2. I won't shame you 3. I won't judge you 4. I will forgive you and offer you my compassion. 5. I won't complain 4. I respect you 5. I love you 6. I embrace your flaws and I am ready to look past them to see your love.

To be able to love a man who wasn't perfect, I was able to be more compassionate and in some ways that only added to my femininity. It made me more loving and more feminine. That's why dark traits in the opposite sex are not always an indicator that you should just dump a person, but you can also heal them by understanding their situation and by showing them love. And that can also add to your masculinity/ femininity.

For me it was a lesson in growth as well because my capacity to non judgementally understand the other person grew exponentially, I became aware that love can heal and my heart became bigger. This is not to say that you should be in a toxic relationship, of course, if it's toxic you must leave, but I'm just saying that growth does not always happen in a comfortable environment, you have to deal with challenging situations to have that growth. In fact your most growth will come from your deepest most confusing experiences in life.

This situation already happened in my life. My ex was a brutal player violent asshole kind of a person. He used to have deep anger issues towards women because he wasn't loved as a child. But when I came into his life, instead of judging him as a violent person or an asshole, I decided to show him compassion and forgiveness and show him my love and trust, and within like a year, he was a changed man, my love had transformed him to be less hateful towards women, he became less angry, his anger was the lowest level from the time I had met him, he was not completely changed but a significant drop in his anger or violent behavior and he wanted to turn his life and work harder to make it better. I realized that he needed love. If I had judged him as an imperfect guy and left him and if all women had done the same, he would have probably hated himself all his life and never found the love to cure his anger. He would have always been bitter towards women for rejecting him. But my love helped him to cure his inner bitterness. He felt good and he thanked me for being by his side when none of his exes or family would support him.

There's a whole gamut of factors and skills that need to be learned in order to give a proper arousal and orgasm. I don't want sex to be reduced to something as mere stimulation of organs. I miss out on the emotional and brain stimulation part of it if I took the support of porn and sex toys and technological objects. It's like taking diet pills and not exercising instead. Quick solution but exercise is much more wholesome. I want sex to be wholesome.

that's not the real problem. I don't like relying on objects for orgasms. It's like every time I want an orgasm I will need to carry an object around. I don't want to feel that way. It makes me not feel the joy of pleasure. Even if I do it with my partner, I actually feel upset because it means they don't have ability to give me an orgasm. I have had guys give me an orgasm on the phone (when my boyfriend is in another city on work he would call to pleasure me), that kind of orgasm is an art, it's a skill, it needs proper escalation, emotional stimulation, buildup of sexual tension, foreplay, romance, sexual energy, development of deep intimacy, trust, knowing each other's sexual fantasies, knowing how to turn the other person on, sexual, emotional and psychological logic, connection, sexual fire and sexual chemistry, sexual

This is pure torture now hun. Whatever you do to me. I feeling it in my skin.. The way you squeeze my breasts. You really want this so bad. Just fuck me then. Your desire is so strong, it's making me crazy. I can feel your penetrations deep and intense. I love your penis. It's making me horny. I'm losing control and I will let you do anything you want. Push it inside. I'm feeling it. You are sexing me up so much. I just can't do anything except surrender to your dick torture. And you are kissing me, biting my lips so bad. I just can't. You are making me crazy. I love what your penis is doing to me I'm your submissive slave now I'm getting this tender feeling in my breasts. They feel more beautiful when you touch and play with them. They are yours Grab my Tits by your teeth. Do what you want and I won't complain This is yours.

Yea this shit feels weird. I have observed this phenomenon with men and by now I'm quite aware of this (very sure this is the case) that men always want a "taken" woman. They want a woman who is someone's girlfriend. They won't go too far if she is a wife But I guess a girlfriend is fair game since her man hasn't yet married her. Like why do this? There are so many single girls you can hit on. Why do you always want a girl who is someone's gf? Why you wanna steal her from her man? Is it because it makes you feel better inside that you had your hands on another man's woman? It's disgusting..

When you are in balance, you can play any character any role, because you have the freedom of the feminine, but you also can take control at times, which is the discerning nature of the masculine, you are able to plan, and strategize and figure out what's going on, but you also have the faith, the belief, when you are put in unknown situations and you realize the limits to what you can know. So you walk a balance of gaining some control, then relinquishing it, to grasp and release, to take and give, and this is the dance of the Masculine and the Feminine.