Tyler Robinson

Tyler - just purely focus on the text you're writing and absolutely nothing else and then see the magic weave itself.

I have a new theory on evil.

Actually you'll go through a phase that looks like this Conservative => Liberal => Conservative => => Mix. I went through this growth curve in my political beliefs. Now I'm more of a centrist moderate.. I went from a stiff liberal to a half ass conservative. And then found my center. You'll go through the same. So your liberal phase is not permanent. Your pendulum will come back to Conservative and then turn to Centrist.

I think some part of it has to do with the infantilism that has been passed on since Biblical times. People have been indoctrinated since ancient times that the only way they could get their lives sorted out were if they believed in a higher power. Back then there was no technology remember? But the human brain tends to memorize information and create a print out of it that gets genetically passed on from one generation to the next. That's pretty much the case with all the early brain programming from Biblical times.. To some degree the human mind is also searching for something to assign blame to other than the self, so it's kinda easy to pin everything on God, an external entity. All justifications aside, I do believe in God, I've felt God's presence on multiple occasions, don't ask me why or how. People often experience God on DMT too. It takes a vital shift in consciousness to experience something beyond yourself. Don't take that for granted.

So what are they into generally? After dating a bi guy, I have been extremely curious about bi men. A lot of them are mega sexy.

My ex used to paint his nails black because he was into goth.

Thank you so much for taking your time to respond. This is very practical and helpful.

The character of Manny is somewhat based on Mark Putnam. This is the dark side of Manny or Manny in the dark context. I know Manny is great But he is a split personality Jekyll and Hyde.

Why did I think of Manny as a dark machiavellian character that I'm in love with?

Cheerio.

I don't like bothering you with lot of questions. But this one is nagging me. So my bisexual boyfriend said to me that he wanted to try with a guy. And when I displayed some discomfort at such a suggestion, he quickly replied to me - "oh I still love you." As in he wanted to say - "look I'm not having sex with another woman. You have nothing to worry. I'm having sex with a guy. I still love you for who you are. You can let this happen as this is not a big deal as long as I don't abandon you or stop having sex with you. It's a guy, not a girl. " Do you think that by saying this he was being manipulative? I was very confused at his request. Was he trying to justify cheating on me in this manner and covering it with an excuse? What should have been my response to his request since I'm not open to having my partner have sex with a third person?

@Someone here I don't like bothering you with lot of questions. But this one is nagging me. So my bisexual boyfriend said to me that he wanted to try with a guy. And when I displayed some discomfort at such a suggestion, he quickly replied to me - "oh I still love you." As in he wanted to say - "look I'm not having sex with another woman. You have nothing to worry. I'm having sex with a guy. I still love you for who you are. You can let this happen as this is not a big deal as long as I don't abandon you or stop having sex with you. It's a guy, not a girl. " Do you think that by saying this he was being manipulative? I was very confused at his request. Was he trying to justify cheating on me in this manner and covering it with an excuse? What should have been my response to his request since I'm not open to having my partner have sex with a third person?

Oh God. Thank you so much for confirming this for me. This was my biggest concern with my bisexual boyfriend. I mean if someone wants to cheat, they will cheat anyway, regardless of sexual orientation. It's just this nagging insecurity in the mind that someone who is bi has more opportunities to cheat than the average heterosexual. It seems many people tend to believe this same concern, it's almost turned into a popular myth and I just googled it and found it to be true - Like you said, being a bi does not give someone the entitlement to cheat. Cheating is wrong at the end of the day and being bi shouldn't justify that in any way. Or maybe we can flip it around and put it this way - that bi people have a greater responsibility (although not obligation), to make their partners feel sexually secured and let them know they are never going to be cheating, the onus is definitely on them since they are the ones with more options to cheat, with both men and women. This increases the risk of feeling insecure around a bisexual person and it's on them to mitigate this risk and strengthen the foundation of trust. Thanks a ton for clearing this important blockage for me. Have a great day!

This response to my question is simply perfect. Cheating means that he is having sex with someone behind your back, without your knowledge or consent, while you are in a relationship with him. If he had sex with other people before you and he became a couple, that is not cheating on you. If you know that he is going to his male friend’s house to have sex with the friend and you are OK with that, it isn’t really cheating as you’ve said, “Bye, love you, have fun.” as he left. It is when you come home early and find him and a guy in bed together and you had no idea…to me, that is cheating. So yes..being bi can increase the chances of cheating .because you can not only cheat with a woman but also with a man . But if I was a girl and my boyfriend cheated one with another man..then I will immediately dumb him out. I doesn’t matter with whom he cheated, male or female. What matters is that he respected you so little to throw commitment out the window. So he felt embarrassed about being attracted to men and felt horrible for having to see them in secret? It still doesn’t give him the excuse to disrespect your relationship, and disrespect you, the person he supposedly loves so much. You can feel sorry for his internal conflict with sexual orientation without needing to forgive his cheating. Bringing a third person into your sexual encounters won’t fix this. He has broken a trust.

I didn't know that the whole internet shared my insecurity around bi people.

Oh God. Thank you so much for confirming this for me. This was my biggest concern with my bisexual boyfriend. I mean if someone wants to cheat, they will cheat anyway, regardless of sexual orientation. It's just this nagging insecurity in the mind that someone who is bi has more opportunities to cheat than the average heterosexual. It seems many people tend to believe this same concern, it's almost turned into a popular myth and I just googled it and found it to be true - ............. Like you said, being a bi does not give someone the entitlement to cheat. Cheating is wrong at the end of the day and being bi shouldn't justify that in any way. Or maybe we can flip it around and put it this way - that bi people have a greater responsibility (although not obligation), to make their partners feel sexually secured and let them know they are never going to be cheating, the onus is definitely on them since they are the ones with more options to cheat, with both men and women. This increases the risk of feeling insecure around a bisexual person and it's on them to mitigate this risk and strengthen the foundation of trust. Thanks a ton for clearing this important blockage for me. Have a great day!

I had some judgement around bisexuality. And this thread addresses a lot of those judgements and inquisitiveness I just wanted my fears and insecurities around bisexual people addressed. So my biggest fear/concern/insecurity when it comes to dating bi was cheating. Well.... I'm offering you a scenario. Let's say you have a girlfriend or you're married to a woman. Do you think being bi increases your inclinations to cheat on your partner as opposed to being heterosexual? I'm saying this because being heterosexual and sexually satisfied with your girlfriend, you might not want to look at other women or cheat on your gf with women because she is already satisfying you and giving you something that any other woman could, so no woman would be special/different in any way. But being bi creates a unique problem. Even though you're sexually satisfied with your gf, there could be the possibility that you crave for the experience a man has to offer which something your woman can't because she can't look or act like a man during sex. So craving a different experience (with a man) can be a tempting thing. Does this imply that bi guys are inclined to cheat more frequently on their female partners with other bi guys in comparison to the cheating tendency of heterosexual men? Just curious how this part of the relationship equation works. This is one of the main reasons why I was so hesitant with my bisexual ex, I felt he would easily cheat on me and I wanted to abandon him I hope you're getting what I'm trying to imply.

Well.... I'm offering you a scenario. Let's say you have a girlfriend or you're married to a woman. Do you think being bi increases your inclinations to cheat on your partner as opposed to being heterosexual? I'm saying this because being heterosexual and sexually satisfied with your girlfriend, you might not want to look at other women or cheat on your gf with women because she is already satisfying you and giving you something that any other woman could, so no woman would be special/different in any way. But being bi creates a unique problem. Even though you're sexually satisfied with your gf, there could be the possibility that you crave for the experience a man has to offer which something your woman can't because she can't look or act like a man during sex. So craving a different experience (with a man) can be a tempting thing. Does this imply that bi guys are inclined to cheat more frequently on their female partners with other bi guys in comparison to the cheating tendency of heterosexual men? Just curious how this part of the relationship equation works. This is one of the main reasons why I was so hesitant with my bisexual ex, I felt he would easily cheat on me and I wanted to abandon him I hope you're getting what I'm trying to imply. (my biggest fear/concern/insecurity when it comes to dating bi was cheating.)

So what happens when you meet a 10 Chad kind of a guy? Would you still crave sex with him?

So I guess your gayness wasn't a natural phenomenon and was in part encouraged by porn? I think that tends to reverse over time if you quit porn. I think this would not be the case for someone who is naturally bisexual.

Yea I actually almost envy you. You had sex for the first time and it was kinky sex on top of that. Not many people get to experience that. That's an awesome Christmas gift, isn't it? It seems you have been glowing(the glowing energy is reflected in your writing) since you had such a fantastic time. I'm still way too shy for sex. So this post is quite encouraging.

Oh ok. It's awesome that you tried this because I know how much anxiety can be involved while getting ready for such an experience. I'm glad you had an amazing time. I am also glad that you didn't allow any kind of shaming around bisexuality to get to you. I remember my ex asking me to do something similar because he was bisexual as well and I found it a bit uncomfortable and didn't understand at the time, now that you said this, I understand why he felt that way. I'll keep that in mind if I'm ever dating a bisexual guy again. By the way, no offense, just for some clarification, I don't think bisexual actually means just wanting to have that in your butthole. I think it means being specifically sexually aroused by men along with having sexual attraction to women. So my question to you is (since you're bisexual only you can answer this) — if you're bisexual, do you feel fulfilled if a woman does that to you and is it enough for you or would you still be attracted to other men despite your partner offering you an anal experience? I mean would you still look at other men or want to date them or is such a sexual experience enough? Also, do you get such sexual bisexual urges for the anal experience every time you want sex(or masturbating), or is this an occasional thing? My ex did not ask for such things every time, I mean it was an occasional demand. (kudos for being so bold and please take time to answer my questions thank you)

But you said that you did it with some prostitute somewhere in South East Asia, you mean at the time, you did not have sex? Just curious.

I forgot the details of the dream but it felt like my life was in danger in some way.

I had this dream again. I was anxious There was a Keychain attached and he reflected on it.