Tyler Robinson

Only by trusted companies that charge a heft. That's the whole point.

Toxic relationship is like junk food The relationship with an abuser, the mercy of the abuser is like junk food. It is a false sense of security, not real security. This statement ends a lot of my problems.

Things to avoid. Porn Weed Guns . Keeping python as a pet Gossip Discord cults . Junk food Unsaturated fats Chiropractor Sleeping with many people Andrew Tate TikTok

That's just a joke. Every app needs a lot of maintenance. Even simple apps. And like I said there's an ethics issue. Why and how would you trust an app developer? How do you know they won't break privacy guidelines for their own personal purposes? App developers are notoriously known for scamming people/clients.

Actually maintaining an app also needs money. No? Research on that next time. Maintaining an app is not cheap at all. Developers demand a ton of money for that. And now please don't suggest some member should do this for free. Generally freelance app work is shitty in quality. Plus this website is being maintained by Invision community that maintains ethical guidelines and standards necessary for forum that I won't talk about in much detail because it goes against confidential privacy rules. The same cannot be said of some low pay grade random app developers. Many apps have actually gone to shit due to breaking App framework guidelines. Look at the complaints Google play store receives - a million. The surest way of totally destroying this website is to make an app. You have little idea. Leo already knows about the app market - he knows its prone to unethical business, that's why he doesn't do it.

Making an Actualized.org app is like the worst idea in my opinion. It will be very buggy, slow and loaded. It will become a joke. The website itself slows down often. Making an app will totally ruin it. It's just good as it is.

On the Subject of Simping. I'm a female who is ready to connect with the divine masculine but the divine masculine is always slapping me in the face. It's sad. I want to feel heard and accepted by a man. I wish there was less simping and more understanding and caring. Men easily flirt with women and want their sexual attention. They have no problem doing that. But whenever a woman speaks, they just ignore it. When a man simps me, it doesn't make me feel special and this is what a lot of men don't understand. They automatically assume that simping should make a woman feel special. Rather it's the opposite. Simping only makes her feel more objectified as though she is some doll that you should simply look at but this doll shouldn't say anything. Can you understand how that must feel? Imagine that you are a man doll. A woman kisses you, rubs your body. But she puts a duct tape over your mouth. Now you want water and you can't ask for it because you are tied up. And the woman keeps kissing you, you might enjoy her touch for a while but after some time you'll be tired of this nonsense. You'll feel suffocated, smothered or stifled This is how women feel when they are treated like arm candy. When you simp me. When you say you like me. I just become an object for you. Sure being liked is not a bad idea at all. But it's like standing there and posing for cameras. Sure everyone praising feels like a nice boost. But what happens if I'm feeling sudden pain in my tummy, what if the camera flash is hurting my eyes and I'm feeling intense pain and suffering. And none of the photographers are listening. Nobody is helping me. Nobody is doing anything. Everyone is simply continuing to click pictures of me like nothing happened. Do you realize how a person feels in such a situation? Like nobody gives a damn if they are suffering. That's exactly how a woman feels when you simp her, unless she is basking in the attention. Some women are like that and I'm aware that some women just feel good when they get attention. But every woman is not like that. You have to be perceptive enough to know the difference between women. Every woman is not a stereotype. When you simp a woman who is not looking for your attention, she can feel objectified, she can feel angry and smothered, not happy. It will apparently have a negative impact on her. Instead of feeling good, she comes out feeling ignored or pitied, not respected. Respect comes from feeling heard, understood, addressed, feeling harmony, intimacy and the joy of friendship and connection. If you don't want to genuinely connect with a woman as her true friend, then don't even simp her. Because you aren't doing any favor to her, you are just adding to her misery, you aren't empowering her. So if she doesn't respond positively to your incessant simping, then you know why. Deep down she feels miserable that you give her nothing but vacuous shallow empty attention. It's the misogyny of the deepest form and you don't realize it because you don't feel like a woman.

It's so difficult to accept that men are men. And that men will always be men and never listen to women.. It's such an ego thing for men. They are so butthurt when it comes to listening to women. But they readily listen to other men, don't they? Fucking bro culture. I feel aggravated. I just don't know what to do. I want men to listen to women and not act so tardy and stubborn.

I wish men would hear a little more. Till then .... Sad emoji.

@Carl-Richard you can do it too and it will be taken more seriously and less personal attacks. Thanks in advance if you do it. I don't want to because you are aware what happens.

If you do it, it's much more effective. If I or any other regular member does it, then it gets swarmed by personal attacks and it becomes a shit show or it is rendered pointless. So I expect you to do it, that way it's taken more seriously and it won't devolve into some nonsense. Thanks.

Anyway I put it all out there whatever I felt. Who cares right?

I feel like when you say such things, you should also add a bit of a caveat or caution as to how addictive weed can be. Maybe you are extraordinarily tolerant to psychedelic substances and substances in general. I'm not trying to fight with you on this. But you are generally insensitive to people's bad drug experiences. You always ask or expect people to submit a trip report, it creates an illusion that all trips are good. But have you created a separate section / mega-thread that exclusively deals with only bad trips /bad trip reports. It will actually help people be more alert if you do that. Encourage people to even talk about bad experiences, not just the good ones. Often trips can fail pretty miserably. And please don't give me a gaslighting kind of response, I expect open mindedness out of you than trying to just shut me up and win an argument for argument sake. Ironically you can shut me up for good if you actually start a mega-thread on bad trip reports and I won't need to feel so agitated over the psychedelics-positive culture of this place. You gave me warning points for being insensitive. But I think I should be able to give you warning points too for being insensitive to the suffering of those who are very vulnerable to drugs and psychedelics. It's like these people simply don't exist in your mind. You rarely, rarely ever, mention the bad impact of drugs to your users and followers. I find this behavior of yours bad faith. Why don't you have a separate mega-thread on bad trip reports and bad impacts of the usage of drugs and psychedelics. Why do you only look at it solely from your perspective alone? There are thousands out there who can't do psychedelics. You mean to say that they can't be spiritual? Now I have been pushing you over and over to do something about this and start a general thread or let some mod or member do it so that we can have both sides on this platform, it's very one-sided that your platform only encourages the positive side of psychedelics and drugs but never really has a full fledged discussion on the negative sides. You think that this will lead to too much drama on the forum. Yet controversial opinions and debates are the reason why such platforms are designed. If you only want pleasant opinions and light hearted opinions floating on this platform then you're just being cookie cutter and indirectly creating an ideological bubble yourself, you're simply creating a platform for delusional ideas with no reality to back it up with, it's an escapist mentality you're creating here because truth is harder to swallow and makes you feel uncomfortable. Sorry but that's what you're doing when you say you want to avoid drama, it's just you being a total snowflake. I hope you respond to this and actually start a thread I suggested you about. Let's see your response. Don't get angry at me I'm doing this in good faith and not out of Ego. (if you are open minded enough, you'll actually do what I told instead of just arguing with me) I also want Mods opinions on this post. Please. I'm not being illegit here. This is a legit concern that is never addressed. Am I right? Additionally - I know this is a very difficult thing to do because the thread will be on fire 24/7, but just because something is a hot button topic and you guys tend to lock such threads, it makes it look like cowardice, like not having the ability to want to reflect on or confront difficult sensitive issues/aspects on this forum. I actually think that this forum needs to be extremely open minded and that means not shutting down a lot of controversial opinions otherwise this forum will become like a bureaucracy - only rules rules rules. (To Leo - I'm also aware of your habits of completely ignoring when certain posts don't align with your objectives so if you don't care at all, that's fine, I'll just accept it and move on... It's not like I have been disobedient with you, I've never been... It's just me trying to not stifle myself and finding a sense of closure on this super agitating issue that bugs me all the time and this is my last response on this subject, it really irritates me a lot because I see it as a valid wide-spread concern and so I'm being completely dead serious about it and it's annoying to see it never addressed in a conscientious rigorous way) The whole psychedelic thing I wanted to get it off my chest once and for all and this is my get it off my chest post. Thanks

I'm seen people being overly sensitive after taking weed. It does something to them. Almost bordering on paranoia. It can be dangerous even if you don't see short term effects or tend to tolerate it. I've seen people changing their personalities - from someone who was hyper chill to someone who felt fearful, sensitive, moody, depressed, paranoia or excessive happy. It has that effect on your mind and mood.

Yea but most pickup isn't like that. Some of it can be a form of sexual harassment. Imagine you're simply walking in a park or grocery shopping, you don't want someone to ask you your number or start flirting with you, you end up feeling your sense of privacy invaded as a woman, not to mention feeling objectified on top of everything else. I mean we as women are not your Guinea pigs for your social experimentation and polishing. Find better ways to be friends with women rather than harassing them on the street in the name of social skill development. Whatever I just wrote is not a valid concern at all?

I don't dislike Musk. He is good with technology and innovation. It's just that I think he has bad political takes. He focuses on political power/influence that's tailored to profit him personally and his business

Marijuana is very bad for health.

What's the ground for trusting these?

Sorry if I can't articulate this, I'm autistic. Sometimes you should not help people because they are in a position where they are broken, damaged, dysfunctional, vulnerable, confused and just down. They probably need a lot of help than what you're estimating. And if you're not fully equipped to understand how much help they really need and if you are awfully underprepared and you're still taking on the helper role, it can actually mess up a delicate situation and make it worse. Three analogies/examples to understand this - First example Imagine if you are climbing a mountain, and you are exhausted and trying to reach the top and someone offers to hold your hand and pull you to the top. You struggled to come that far up. Now you trust this person and hold their hand and they suddenly realize that they can't really get this done and just release your hand and you fall further from where you initially were and now you will have to start all over again and you're worse off than before. Second example - You're homeless and hungry and a nearby shelter is offering food only for a day. Someone comes along and says they wanna help you and they want to offer you food and tell you to not bother visiting the shelter. So when you arrive at their place, they don't want to offer you food anymore and the shelter that was actually going to help you is closed as well. So you end up hungry. If this person hadn't made false promises of helping you, you would have at least turned to the shelter for food. Third example You're helpless at an unknown place and you want directions to go visit a relative who will be helping you. This unknown place is still not a bad place, it has a store for food and water. And there's a gas station where you sleep. Now while asking for directions to your destination you meet a well intentioned stranger who tells you that they will accompany you and help you get to the new place. They offer to give you a ride. But halfway through the ride, they come to a bridge and they feel overwhelmed and they decide to just drop you off on the bridge in the middle of the night. They decide to just leave you there. You feel stranded because there's just nothing on the bridge, no store for food or water and you're too exhausted to walk. You feel like the stranger should have never bothered to help you because now you are in a much worse situation than when you were at the place of the gas station. Does this resonate? Do you relate to such experiences metaphorically where you felt like it was better for the person to have not helped you rather than being overconfident in their ability to help you and then leaving you feeling worse than before because they underestimated the demands of your situation and now you are having to pay for their mistakes.

Pickup is exploitation

What sort of abuse can happen with AI?

Self love is like a porridge.

@Aaron p that's a beautiful analogy too. My analogies are convoluted and shitty.