Tyler Robinson

What is not love — (and the opposite of it is love) Who has consistently treated you poorly Who has consistently treated you nicely Who has ignored your needs. Who has never ignored your needs. Who has disregarded your happiness Who has always considered your happiness Who has been lying to you. Who has been honest and vulnerable with you Who has been gaslighting you. Who listens to you Breaking promises Keeps their word Someone who consistently lets you down, disappoints you. Someone who always encourages you positively and never fails you.

Matthew Hussey great resource. What is not love — (and the opposite of it is love) Who has consistently treated you poorly Who had ignored your needs. Who has disregarded your happiness Who has been lying to you. Who has been gaslighting you. Breaking promises Someone who consistently lets you down, disappoints you.

Nice.

6 clear signs he loves you He loves poking fun at you on a regular basis He opens up about things that are hard to open up about. He pays attention to details about you. He becomes more open minded to the things you like. The last thing they will do is be dismissive or judgmental of you. He is protective of you and helps you get through your bad days. He is at ease around you and doesn't feel the pressure to change.

15 things a man will do if he truly loves a woman. 1. He will treat you with 100% respect. One of the biggest requirements of a relationship is respect. 2. He will really listen to you. It's his 3. He will actually consider your advice. 4. He will fight for you. 5. He will compromise. He wants to see you happy. Although he won't be a doormat. 6. He will get a little jealous. 7. He won't care what you do as long as you are together. 8. He will love how you look even on your bad days 9. He will be proud of you. 10. He will follow through on promises 11. He will always make you feel safe 12. He will treat your family and friends with respect. 13. He will include you in his plans for the future. 14. He will care about your needs. 15. He will take notice of little things that make you happy.

One of my favorite future ways to deal with someone who doesn’t belong in my personal space is to tell them - You simply cannot give me the love I want. Your words are your biggest weapons against toxicity

I blocked him at last. Yay. I don't think I will ever unblock him again. Victory... I let him know that he is a narcissistic abuser. Bye Mr Ex.... You're forever out of my life for good.. You just aren't what I need in my life. I'm taking charge finally. I felt lonely.

First step towards self love - I'm preparing myself mentally to block my ex. Block him. I told him. You simply cannot give me the love I want.

Seems like you put in a lot of effort.

@SourceCodo what were you trying to say?

Sexual abuse is evil. It's a poison. Just like weed.

@Consept I'm open to criticism but only if I am able to trust a person fully otherwise it feels like a lashing. Not especially if I find the person serious.

My ex telling me that I'm sexually frustrated. So. I have him the layout of exactly what was lacking in his love. Now he will shut up.

Beta males are actually insecure and low consciousness. Alpha men are abundant and more congruent with woman's needs. Alpha men understand what a woman wants. They don't neglect her. Beta men dominate women out of insecurity.

I feel a lot of fear. The guy who sexually abused me when I was a child put a lot of fear in me. An unrelenting fear. I would feel nervous around him. He grabbed me and performed oral sex. I was just a child. Then I could feel him over me. He was so heavy..

Whats your zodiac?

When parents treat children like toys.

4 characters Manny Mr Ether Mr JR Stephanie

@Carl-Richard so you don't agree with me that empathetic thinking is necessary? What are you disagreeing with me on? I'm depressed that you don't see harmony with what I'm saying.

Stephanie Coaching.

A thought is a process of growth. A rumination is decay. I didn't talk about rumination but actively cognitively paying attention to something. Being engaged in thinking versus rumination are radically different things.

I like that profile Pic of yours. It looks nice.

Be consumed by thoughts full of mercy and empathy. Bring tears to your eyes. Look at it as positive. Not negative. Mercy is the birthplace of love. Cry out as much as you can. Your heart will fill to the brim. You might even struggle walking. But in those moments love will visit your soul and you will find true beauty. True beauty lies in feeling pain, extreme unbearable pain. I felt it. It was a release.. Then you will keep crying for hours. That's your awakening. You will see only and only love. True love. Then your heart will open like an innocent child screaming and giggling. And you will walk towards infinite consciousness. Osho used to say - Be like a child.

It's something you can grow. You can grow love by growing deep deep deep empathy for every single suffering entity on planet earth. Then slowly you can extend this empathy to some criminal, hater etc. First start with mentally ill people because they are the ones who are least empathized with. Then move on to disabled people, children with defects, then to poor people, then to people who are marginalized by society, LGBT, then elderly sick and dying, then to animals in slaughter houses, then to people who are lazy, then to people who are obese, and then to women who are abused and in toxic relationships, then to people who are drug addicts, then to scammers and liars and then to those who are in jail and finally to those who never found actualized org(metaphorically those who never found help or guidance in life). That day you will see God. That day you will see Love.