Tyler Robinson

Important insights from the dating section. Shes either liking what your doing and wanna see if you are congruent or just tricking her,want to see what she can get away with or just blanty disrespecting you....if she continues to do you either not passing her tests or shes just poking more to dig something to see how would you react not to her but with people in general etc... Either way everyone will be tested but if she sees you as "the man" she will be scared to test you because she dont wanna lose you... With family etc. When they see weakness they will go on attack to provoke you with tests its a way to get you out of that weakness but it mostly never works.. This was a great insight. A cognitive trap This is a very important point. I've always observed this with myself that it I find a man as "the man," I am kinda nervous to test him. I feel I might lose him as you say. Maybe one of the reasons why women fall in this trap and end up suffering, they never tested him because they thought he was the top G, classic trap for manipulative relationships. I'll note down your valuable insight because it's a trap/mistake I don't want to make again. Self awareness of one's own mental traps. This is a very important point. I've always observed this with myself that it I find a man as "the man," I am kinda nervous to test him. I feel I might lose him as you say. Maybe one of the reasons why women fall in this trap and end up suffering, they never tested him because they thought he was the top G, classic trap for manipulative relationships. I'll note down your valuable insight because it's a trap/mistake I don't want to make again. Self awareness of one's own mental traps.

I'm talking about guys who don't perceive a woman as high value and is still dating them. He(not Tate, Tate is just given as a random example) even says that these girls aren't high value to him. But he still sleeps with them? I find the behavior a bit strange and it seems insecurity could be at the root of it.

I just don't want to be anywhere except with the one that I love.

If I like a man, I'll always be loyal to him and he will mean the world to me.

Things never went downhill. He wasn't fully ready for a relationship, he wanted to pursue spirituality so he abruptly broke off.

This is how I used to feel with my ex. He used to call me an innocent child.

If a guy used cheesy lines on me, I would feel like he is being tacky or almost trolling me. Obviously I don't want him to be ultra serious because that would appear a little intimidating and controlling or more like why is getting serious so quickly. The pickup line thing might make me feel mocked at or like he is going to take me for granted or that he practices his pickup lines on every girl. The whole thing would look like a cheap stunt. I don't appreciate that kind of stuff.

I was just going to write this. The guy should be her home. Those are such pleasant words.

@Something Funny I'm not like that. If I commit to a man as his wife, I'll be his forever. I'll worship him. He will be everything to me. I will love him with all my heart. I will never be part from him. He will have my heart forever and I will be his joy.

I never had a guy say that. So if a guy says that I'll let him marry me and be his wife. I'd be very pleased that he wants a committed relationship and desires me that much. It would be like sweeping me off my feet.

This seems like a cognitive bias. You're automatically assuming stuff.

Guys who directly say - will you please be my girlfriend? These guys are generally controlling. There's a reason why I call such men controlling. Because they don't allow any time to the girl to get to know them. They bypass the screening process which is essential to women to understand and screen compatibility. This is a potent control tactic. At least 90% men who say "will you please be my girlfriend?" right away without establishing a connection prior are super controlling men who are extremely Impatient and just want to pressure the woman into commitment. What's the disadvantage? They're more likely to dump the woman when they lose interest. They are typical users. They will dump the woman when they're bored. They're easy come easy go..

3 reasons why - 1. Insecurity. Being with a low value person automatically gives you more power in the relationship and makes you look better. You get to boast. You feel superior and you get to dominate the other. You are the commander. You gain more respect and there's less competition. You don't have to prove much. 2. Cognitive dissonance. You might be holding a long standing prejudice and now the guilt is consuming you. You want to overcompensate this by acting like a white knight and date a person who you wouldn't have dated before. 3. You might have low value desires/toxic patterns you don't wish to be judged for. You can't be your wild dirty self with someone high value. Maybe you want a relationship with a low value person to fulfill your desires that might not resonate with high value people.

Even someone who I trust can disagree with me. It's just that the trust factor means I feel more comfortable with the disagreement.

You're not objectifying women. You're objectifying sex.

Since I don't get enough emotional support from my family and real life, and I can't join any community I'll create my own system of emotional support. This will be comprised of imaginary characters like Manny, Mr Ether, Mr JR and a community of content creators that focus on feminine emotions. Like Stephanie Lyn Coaching, Matthew Hussey and other similar ones. Others include - Michele Lee Nieves Coaching Narcissists Schmarcissists Mindful living Psych2go BRAINY DOSE Valentina love Tarot Melanie Tonia Evans Riana Anais The enlightened target Carlos Cavallo Love strategies Matthew Hussey Stephanie Lyn Coaching Manny Mr JR Mr Ether

Self reference thoughts help with therapy especially for autistic patients since they rarely self reflect and seem to have a deficiency when it comes to self reference, self awareness and self reflection. The more they're encouraged to interact in a me me me manner, the better and I know this, by interacting with other autism patients since I suffer autism as well. So that's not encouraging to say that self referential thinking is not functional since it's very helpful for mentally ill people. Rumination is different from this. It means being obsessed with the same thought or event and never getting out of it, it's very repetitive and causes obsession and fatigue and definitely affects functionality. Ruminating is a prominent feature of bipolar disorder and its very debilitating. Both are different things. One is useful the other is not. I'll end it here

Spirituality is nothing but Kundalini. 3 energies are involved in Kundalini Spiritual energy Maat energy in the middle Psychic energy

I'm developing a crush on Matthew Hussey. And I'm admiring Stephanie Lynn

I'm not talking about that discomfort. I'm talking about the discomfort when you simply want to do grocery shopping and someone comes along begging for your number. You're not going to those places for that to happen. You want a free pleasant shopping experience, not someone pestering you for your number. Common sense. It happened to me in a park. The guy followed me in the park. When I ignored his conversations and I walked in to the next park, he followed me there as well. That's when I felt harassed. People go to places to enjoy fresh air and not to be pestered by pick up artists. Learn social calibration

If you want someone's number, first develop rapport. Nobody is just going to give their number to you. Nobody owes you shit. You aren't entitled to someone's personal information just because you asked.