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Women liked to be gamed and conquered. They liked to be chased down. Directly asking sex is like begging, there is simply no fun, charisma or energy to it. You made it sound like a routine and instantly made it super boring to her. She will eventually have sex if she is attracted, but did you build attraction with her ? She is looking for chemistry and stimulation and you give her none of it when you directly beg for sex. You give her no good reason why she should sleep with you. It's like you are marketing a product to a client and saying, "please buy this, please please buy this, please just buy this. " With this strategy most people would be turned off and they will be less likely to buy. There is simply no tact and it appears repulsive. They would also look at the product with suspicion and might assume that you're forcing them to buy something that people wouldn't buy unless forced to. This will backfire. This is a bad strategy. Similarly telling a woman to her face that you want only sex or you want sex explicitly brings up different contextual scenarios in her mind like - she thinks you're only interested in sex. This is a big turn off because nobody likes to be hired as a sex object. The feeling of being objectified is equivalent to that of slavery. Unless it's a bdsm situation and mutually agreed upon, nobody likes to be treated or viewed as a slave. she thinks you're a fuckboy. Pump and dump is what her mind is imagining you would do to her. This makes her feel unwanted and insecure. A girl's insecurity is her biggest and worst enemy. By giving her a pre-signal that you would be dumping her, you are aiding her insecurities instead of alleviating them. Basically you're getting her scared creepy vibes. Men who are serial killers or rapists show no emotion or care and attack women for sex. She can easily think that a man wanting sex could be a potential rapist and see you as a red flag. personal dignity is to a woman what pride and ego are to a man. Would a man like if I said to him that he is good for nothing? He would be instantly turned off. Wanting a woman for sex is synonymous with calling her a loser, disregarding her worth, putting down her dignity. It's similar to slut shaming. It's making her feel like a slut. This means she is capable of offering nothing better than sex. This makes her feel devalued. It's a shot to her personal dignity. She feels shamed. This indirectly means she is good for nothing as a woman and the only reason she is being liked is your desire for sex. The feeling that she has nothing more to offer than being a cute sex doll is an attack on her personal dignity which a woman holds very dear to her. Women are deeply impacted when they lose personal dignity, it's like emotional suicide. No woman wants to be seen as just a pair of tits. women want more from a guy than mere desire. They want emotional commitment. She is expecting you to show more reasons why you like her. This will make her mind think that you're commitment oriented guy. she thinks that you're too desperate. Desperation is a general turn off. Nobody likes someone who is too desperate because it's an indicator of selfishness. Nobody wants to be a victim of someone's selfish goals. she thinks you must be doing this to all girls. When you are too explicit about anything, let alone sex, it appears as a crude shallow gimmick that you must be playing on everyone. It's like that magician who runs a stall and everyone looks at him in wonder and then pass by. A girl might assume that you do this to all women to obtain sex. She sees you as a trickster. she thinks you're boring and nothing else to offer other than sex. Your value as a man falls in her eyes.
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Note. Skinny versus healthy buff guys. Generally women aren't too fond of the skinny type, same goes for bulky fat or extremely huge. A moderate distribution of fat/ muscle on a man is much more attractive. Men think that having huge biceps and leg muscles is attractive to women. Nope. This is a wrong idea. Too much fat/muscle is actually vulgar looking. It can even be a turn off. Lean muscle is more attractive. It's how strong your bones are. These are genetic characteristics and have little to do with how much time you spent at the gym. You might be astonished by how my brain works in the areas of attraction. It might be a popular belief that women are attracted to men who spend hours and hours at the gym. But I don't look at it that way. In fact that is a sign that he is not healthy enough and making up for it by being gym intensive. Would you like a woman who is naturally having nice boobs or would you like a woman who is working too hard to get a nice pair like using pills or surgery. I think you would like both but a woman who is naturally beautiful or gifted is obviously more desirable. Same goes for men. A woman would be happy that you worked out at the gym to be in shape. But she would be happier if you are naturally born with lean muscle and ideal girth. What I mean is that - A man who is genetically healthy looking is twice as attractive/desirable as the one who is sweating it out in the gym to achieve the same. These genetic traits(in terms of physique) include - lean muscles, moderate fat distribution, wide shoulders, wide chest, barrel chest, strong sculpted shoulders, strong and long arms, strong legs, lean stomach, tall(not too tall). On an average 5 11' to 6 is preferable height. Beyond 6 can be good for taller women. Most women aren't tall so a very tall guy (taller than 6) can be absurd looking aesthetic wise. So height preferences on average - anywhere between 5 9' to a full 6. These measures are desirable in men with respect to height. Shorter than 5 9' is not very desirable. Short men are generally rejected much more often than taller men. Height does contribute a lot to a man's desirability (in terms of physique). So being short is quite a disaster. A bulky guy is okay. I think women who are attracted to the "huge" types are generally masculine ones. A feminine woman might feel intimidated by such men. But I don't know. Maybe some women like those types. I still think that a woman prefers a man to look only slightly larger than her in comparison, if he is too big, it can look odd, as though she is walking around with some caveman. You get the idea, it can look unpleasant, beauty and the beast kind of situation instead of beauty and the prince. Personally I have never found such men attractive In the least, they look odd in my eyes. Too large. The men who are physically attractive are those that are also good evolutionary wise. What I found in my personal observation is that women are not only emotinal creatures but also evolutionary creatures. They are attracted to things from an evolutionary perspective more than anything else. For example, a woman is very attracted to a providing, protecting man. She is attracted to a taller man. She is attracted to an emotionally stimulating man. She is attracted to a physically healthy man with lean muscle. All of these factors point in only one direction -- evolution. Women's brains are hard wired for evolutionary purposes. That's how it will always be. They are attracted to what works long term to ensure their own survival and the survival of their offspring. That is secretly she is hunting for a good daddy. A patriarchal senstive guy is 10,000 times more attractive to her than a timid looking manchild who can't get anything done. At the same time she doesn't prefer someone too aggressive because that doesn't work in favor
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Women care a lot about looks although admitting it directly makes them appear superficial so they avoid saying it. At the same time, looks are not the only metric. A woman is subconsciously hunting for signs of masculinity and protective behaviour in a man. She wants to know if he is competent enough. Masculine does not mean having a great physique. Your ability to listen, your reliability, trustworthiness, your ability to resolve issues, taking the lead, your caring attitude and how well you exercise responsibility, these things count as masculinity in her brain. Four things that make a man more masculine in her eyes The litmus test for men His protective instinct, the male protective instinct found in most men (unless he is an abusive asshole, psychopath/sociopath, predatory, exploitative) protective instinct reflected in his ability to help the woman when she is asking for help. his ability to forgive or let go when she apologizes. His generosity and abundance in not taking things too seriously and ability to accommodate everything. His ability to provide and care for her needs. Both emotional and physical. So a woman (at least imo ) scans for the following A cute face(not girlish, just masculine cute, "handsome devil " type) Rugged masculinity(how you handle logistics as a man ) Romantic nature. Good character - should make a loyal partner Some bit of cockiness is attractive in a male and the reason why narcissistic traits in men are attractive. Your inner qualities matter just as much as your face and physique. A woman doesn't give a shit if you got a six pack ab but don't know how to speak. She is not robotically attracted to you. She wants substance and character. It doesn't matter if you act like an asshole. She can take some bit of it as long as you care enough to stick around with her..this is no licence for abuse but a core feminine woman loves and craves to be dominated. She doesn't want too much simping and lame-ness. She wants to be tamed. So the three core values that matter to her are-(1) looks(especially facial, more than body, note- when it comes to the body, a woman's preferences are a wider stronger chiselled chest, strong arms and sculpted shoulders, no tummy and solid legs, a skinny guy in these areas would be somewhat undesirable), (2)masculinity and (3)character. What you lack in facial looks or body, she tries to make up for it in your character and behaviour. And even if you had all these, she might be attracted to you. Yet you have to do the job.. that's what she expects. Meaning you gotta take the lead, approach her and be romantic/ flirty/negging. So apart from all the qualities mentioned above, you should cultivate abilities/skills of flirty behaviours and good communication to get her attention towards you. Simply being attractive to her is not enough. You have to put in the effort to get her to pay attention to you. Basically you got to insert yourself in her mind so that she is forced to think about you. Then you have to make her think a bit more, emotional stimulation is what it's called. She needs to be thinking/feeling, women are emotinal creatures, they want the vibe you give them. It needs to be romantic/conquering attitude. A woman rarely approaches a man no matter how attracted she is to him and his personality. She won't give a damn. She is expecting you to make the move and waiting for you to impress her, charm her. That's what gets her stimulated down there. And if you aren't doing this fundamental thing for her, how attractive you are will matter very little to her. This means that you not only have to work on your masculinity, behaviour, staying in youthful shape but also do the heavy lifting of approaching and baiting/enticing/simping/hunting/flirting/negging/romancing/conquering etc. You gotta do all that to get her to be interested in you.
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Im kinda stage green. And stage green always loves to complain. They don't want to work too hard for stuff. But there's both an evolutionary advantage and disadvantage to this entitlement. The disadvantage is that you never have to work hard, you turn into a soft lollipop who can't fight or survive through adverse situations because you never learned a damn skill. The advantage being that we create a society of fewer expectations,this means less stress, less stress means better heart health and better survival. From an evolutionary perspective better heart health is great for long term survival of the species.
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Do you know how many people die everyday due to stress on their hearts, because they have to do 3 jobs to pay bills, take on a lot of stress and work very hard. My dad was a blue collar worker who pumped his heart to death. I'm not saying that people should turn into couch potatoes. But the normal human existence involves countless hours of work and extreme levels of stress. Most people around the globe are stressed and overworked. They can't escape this rigmarole because - bills and survival and kids. My dad died prematurely because his body couldn't cope with all the hard work and stress. You say a ton of stuff. But guess what. You're healthy, young, going to gym and then sitting comfortably in your chair and typing here. Go live the strenuous life of those who have to struggle day in day out because they don't have your luxury and you'll know that what I say is not bullshit.
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@Nilsi I was talking about the whole society being green, not just a portion. If a punk gets power, he can be thrown out in jail by green people. There's something called democracy and there is no jungle law. No 18 year old ever gets to power.
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Tyler Robinson replied to Hardkill's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
The recent elections showed that Democrats are still the preferred party for the majority of the nation. There's support for the republicans but this is concentrated in rural regions. If you focus on inner cities, there is huge support for democrats. -
Tyler Robinson replied to Scholar's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Scholar I'm asking you a very cuthroat question and you're constantly trying to evade my argument. You haven't scientifically proved your point. Why should I believe you when you say it's unhealthy to want to be trans. But where is the Proof that it's unhealthy ? This is simply your opinion. You think it's unhealthy. But are there any studies to back up your claim ? Where is the valid proof that it's unhealthy to want to be another gender? Show me your claim. For example if I said that smoking is unhealthy for lungs, I'm making a legit claim. I can show you X ray scans of human lungs after years of smoking that show shriveling and degradation. Leading to death due to asphyxiation.. But where is the link between trans lifestyle and health degradation ? If a trans person committed suicide, it's generally not because they chose to be trans, but because they were frustrated that society didn't want to accept them and they felt like an outcast. and we all know that being discriminated or treated like an outcast can lead to feelings of unworthiness just like racism does.. So it's legit that a trans person would feel depressed and suicidal. These feelings have little to do with their choice of gender change and more to do with how society chooses to perceive them. Explain your argument please. -
Tyler Robinson replied to Scholar's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Why should it be valid unless you see a problem with it ? Explain me first - your problem with it. You are shooting arrows in the dark if you don't want to get down to the nitty gritty of it. -
If they're stage green,why would they enslave others? That doesn't make any sense. If anything, they would always aim for the emancipation of slaves. Slavery would be the last thing on their minds.
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Tyler Robinson replied to Scholar's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
You're twisting my argument. I didn't say it didn't matter to be trans. I said why does it matter that they aren't what the general population is. Ironically it's your argument that is undermining their experience by mildly hinting towards transphobia. Because why else would you have a problem if someone wanted to be trans.. Why are you portraying it as unhealthy and problematic ? What's your concern if I change my gender? Also are we looking for a partition of the trans community into - trans by Nature and trans by social phenomenon? How is it fair to do this ? In my eyes both are same because both are achieving the same objective. To put down someone like me by saying "hey your experience isn't rooted in your brain," not only it's deeply discriminatory but also undermining my own pain and suffering but also the hypocrisy that your inherent intentions are deeply transphobic because if they weren't, you wouldn't be concerned by it in the first place. -
Can this be a promising trick? Watch.
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Tyler Robinson replied to Scholar's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Scholar How does it matter if one is born male or female? Why is a transgender any worse than a cis-gendered ? Whether it's a social phenomenon or rooted in the brain is open for debate, but does it become problematic if it's not legitimate enough? If a person is comfortable in a chosen gender role, it is what it is, they're doing it for survival. It doesn't take away anything. I don't see the harm in choosing to be whatever suits a person's preferences. I don't see how this can be compared to cocaine. Cocaine has visible effects on the body. But does being a different gender (than the one you're born with ) have an impact on health? If so prove it. Since I have adopted myself as a male,I don't see any adverse impact on my health. I feel happier and better being a man. I never felt a problem. -
Tyler Robinson replied to Scholar's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
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Tyler Robinson replied to Scholar's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
I identify as a bi-gender. Yes a lot of it has to do with the sexual trauma I endured. And it made me feel like my fault was being a woman. Now I increasingly desire to be a man. And it automatically feels good when I'm in a man's role. You're right about certain points. But who cares at the end of the day. If something makes you feel good go ahead do it. If transitioning makes you feel better then go get gender change surgery. Nobody has the right to judge a person'lifestyle choices. We gotta do what makes us feel good not what the world assumes as right or wrong. -
Tyler Robinson replied to How to be wise's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
The fall of Peterson. He has been acting up a lot lately. -
Tyler Robinson replied to Marten98's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
First is pure focus on your self. Train your mind to do that. Then realize the limits of attaining spiritual happiness in this human form, you cannot be fully spiritually fulfilled because — survival. Regarding the perspective on illness — one word - acceptance. Embrace the nature of reality. The reality of being a biological self degrading form. Our bodies aren't made for immortality. So sickness is a part of design. Death is salvation. This is existence and you have to cope with it. But the mind is infinite because consciousness is a vital component of the mind. So you can train your mind to feel good even in the midst of suffering. -
Your worth can only be determined by you alone,not by the opposite sex. Heal your inner world. Work on yourself. Make yourself a priority. And things will automatically flow from that. What you're lacking is self love. No amount of blaming others will help. This is your life. It's all about you. When you hold yourself as the center of your life, that's when what others think of you won't matter anymore. Goodluck.
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You need to start your first dose to get a glimpse of the infinite.
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A short decent life is better.
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Did anyone try Kundalini Activation and how did it work for you? I have heard some dangerous stuff about it. I wanna take a safer approach to it and try in controlled conditions. Any tips are helpful.
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Tyler Robinson replied to thenondualtankie's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I've always known that Kundalini energy is unstable. -
Tyler Robinson replied to StarStruck's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Why do you say that? -
That sounds like bipolar.
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I appreciate your ideas. Just allowing myself to be.