Tyler Robinson

I can't thank you enough for this post. Your post is full of wisdom that will be of great help. I'm very thankful that you took the time to write such a thoughtful post. I'm going to be implementing a lot of the generous wisdom you offered in your post. I will be posting my own experience with motivation and my progress here. Thanks again. Incredibly helpful.

Do you have social anxiety? Have you been to a doctor?

I did. Garlic. And exposure to sunshine and lots of Vit D.

Nice share.

You need to push her actually.

Meh, I got ghosted after a six month relationship. Poof went my heart and burst like a balloon!

This is easier said than done, of course I'm going to be ghosting them in any case, either way if I don't intend to carry anything forward with a gentle guy, yet it leaves me with a sour feeling. I've always felt bad rejecting even if rejecting is the bad thing to do, and as you said, better than leading someone on. On the flip side, I have been dumped by text or ghosted (much worse) and it hurts like crazy. Maybe that's why I always felt bad turning people down.

@eos_nyxia and sometimes the reason why a person, generally women, ghost a guy is because the sense a lack of authenticity from the dude. A very long detailed response can sometimes come off as too much rambling and inauthentic.

Drink water before meditation. You could be pressuring yourself during the meditation. Be relaxed and let go any anxiety. Gag reflex is a general symptom of anxiety.

@eos_nyxia I would actually feel kinda bad to ghost a guy who was being very gentle and nice.. If I'm turning someone down or just generally ghosting a dude, it often has to be him acting like a total punk and testing the limits of my patience till I reach my breaking point and at that point the thought process is generally along the lines of - what's even the point of such a conversation anyway, it's best to cut it out right there. I mean I can already sense that it could be going towards a conflict. So I kinda just save myself some unnecessary trouble much ahead of that conversation. But he gotta be a real dick for me to come to that point.

@eos_nyxia I think it also comes down to social tact. Like being genuinely confused about what and how to respond and the anxiety associated with it all. Can be a bit of an emotional burden so the easier way out looks like it's best to just escape it all.

A lot of girls are flakey because they aren't sure if they would want to continue with the date. This is not such a bad thing because you wouldn't like to have a relationship who isn't that interested to begin with so it's sort of an auto eliminating process. You could wait for a girl who is more compatible and aligned to your style of communication and personal nature. Don't take their flaking too personally. It could be them rather than you. If you're good at game, then continue doing that, and wait for those who really wish to stick around. Dating can be a very tiring process and often you don't meet the one who really want to be with right away.

Women don't like conflict.

Can we brainstorm on what an ideal life should look like? An all-round productive life.

Can you mix lsd with the list of stuffs Vodka Wine Beer Yogurt Diet Coke Cold latte SSRI

@NoSelfSelf of course.

I was telling him to open up so that he can get rid of his fears. The fear comes from dependency on judgement. When he will open up he will no longer what the other person thinks. He will free himself from that fear. It doesn't matter what the other person thinks but it's important to communicate to build confidence.

@NoSelfSelf of course the problem goes deeper. But lack of sharing and communication causes people to not be confident enough to be themselves. Meanwhile they need to investigate inner reasons, they might try to communicate their feelings to their partner to let go of fears, it might need some practice.

Communication problem. You only sleep with them but you don't share with them and you're scared of being judged. Liberate yourself from the fears of judgement. Causes Social anxiety disorder Childhood trauma Lack of intimacy Fear of judgment Insecurity Overthinking Introversion Lack of exposure Lack of openness Bad relationship experiences Low self esteem Analysis paralysis You don't spend enough quality time with your partners.

They're high iQ

Free speech is a necessity in an ideal society. You don't want the voices of the weak to be muffled and never be heard. A clear demarcation is needed between free speech and offensive speech. It's offensive hate invoking speech that needs moderation and suspension. Free speech is the most important nexus of a democratic civil society. It's the foundation of human rights.

Thanks again.

@Judy2 thank you so much. Noting down all the points.

@something_else will I get very nauseous if I take lsd on an empty stomach?

Thanks, will follow as you said. @Ramu thanks a lot for that tip.