Tyler Robinson

I strongly disagree with Leo on this. My personal experience is completely opposite of what Leo says. Actually it depends a lot on who you are socializing with. I've discussed this on this thread. Leo is partially right but only partially.

I think you are highly intelligent and you can meet your dreams. So it doesn't matter even if it involves a lot of money as long as it's your passion. You’ll feel more fulfilled.Your job shouldn’t just be a source of income. If you don’t enjoy what you do, you’ll end up missing out on your life. As the lines between working life and personal life blur, a job is as much about personal fulfillment and growth as it is about a paycheck. People don’t want to make widgets, they want to change lives, including their own. Your career should make you feel good emotionally, both in and out of the office.A job that you love … gives you extra motivation to meet your goals, and when you do, the sense of accomplishment is outstanding. You will carry and radiate that success wherever you go, helping yourself in other aspects of your life. You’ll be more productive. It’s important to feel motivated and inspired in your career. Without the drive to excel, your performance will lack passion and, in turn, your work may suffer. Productivity allows you to become more efficient, which makes room for downtime and encourages work-life balance.If you are passionate about your job, you are likely to take an active interest in learning every aspect of the business. This not only sets you on the path toward success, it also helps you get through the daily grind.You’ll inspire others. Many people are too afraid to follow their dreams and do what they love. Think about what you would say to a friend or your loved one. Would you discourage them from doing what makes them happy simply because it’s risky? When you do take that leap yourself, you become an inspiration to others. You’ll succeed. I believe trials and tribulations are just a part and parcel of your experience. You won’t need someone to keep tabs on your work or motivate you to reach your full potential. You will do your best work because it’s natural and exciting. When you love what you do, you are compelled to push against yourself too.

Omg yea perfect. Sad that society falls for something artsy fartsy or intellectual and cannot see beyond it.

Wait...you mean you posted when you weren't?

Oh, is my grandmother going to die now?

I don't think that 10 year Olds can decide their gender. So I'm against gender change for children. It can destroy them for life. No. Abortion only upto the first few weeks, once the fetus has taken shape, then abortion is rather difficult and should be on grounds of medical emergency and not on desire to abort. Gender related mental illness is too much of a broad term. If you are referring to transgenderism and homosexuality as mental illness then they are not. These are biological. We as a society haven't accepted LGBTq. Even you thought they're mentally ill, they need acceptance and love and support rather than judgement. So you have to accept them either way regardless of their beliefs I don't think anyone should be arrested over pronouns. That would be ridiculous. However this does not mean that a trans person be harassed on the regular by constantly disrespecting their pronouns, that would be menacing. Good for you.

That's okay, but that does not equate to a relationship experience. This is like me saying that I know what ice cream tastes like when I pass by ice cream stores. Emo guys are just sensitive men. They are not necessarily feminine. But they embody aspects of the feminine that a female can relate to. Emo guys connect ten times more than overly masculine men and since women depend on emotional stimulation, this strategy works. Women feel out of place with overly Hyper masculine dudes because there's a disconnect. It's like he is talking about math meanwhile she is talking about art. It doesn't work since the relatability gap is too large. Such men fail to give women an intimate experience. You could blame this on red pill and men being out of sync on what women want. I agree with this. To a certain extent if a man put effort in at least understanding the female brain, that would be desirable. But I still see a problem. Fundamentally men and women can't see each other eye to eye. My thought is that attraction to a man is extremely biological and is very dependent on that man alone. It's particularly type of men who attract the most women. These men are born that way, they aren't made. Maybe they can do some psychological study on male brain and see what type of men attract the most women. I think it depends on his brain, specific body type, facial features, bone structure and his overall style. I've seen that when Im in an elevator with several men, im attracted to some and not attracted to others. I might look at a guy even though he is not particularly good looking. I might not look at some other good looking guy. This perplexes me. It tells me that the mechanism of attraction is very variable. It could be that the man who holds my attention is indirectly releasing pheromones that is attracting me biologically to him. Of course testosterone plays a role. But I'm sure pheromones play a role as well. Funnily enough I've observed that certain cologne scents make me want to come closer to a man or arouses me sexually than others. Why is that? They specially design cologne scents to attract women. They know which ones work.. In a nutshell the mechanism of attraction has a lot to do with many many factors than just some healthy looking buff gym body type of guy. Tbh,i am never attracted to men who are the gym type. They come across as wannabes. Some guys regularly post their half naked pictures showing off their muscles. I don't know why they think a woman would look at it and go gaga. At least I don't. I see it as male insecurity. It's like a girl jiggling her fake boobs in your face, I'm sure most guys will be put off by that. Overt displays of sexuality actually do the opposite of what they are intended for. It's subtle sexuality that works better. A cute girl for example. A guy who is simple and authentic. A guy who is not boasting about how many women he sleeps with. Such things are more attractive than gender stereotypical displays of physical attraction like big boobs or big muscles. A woman with big fake boobs could have a foul mouth and can be an instant turn off. So is a guy who looks big but acts like a disrespectful asshole. I think you got the idea..

@Aaron p how about Barack Obama? How about Sam Harris? How about Justin Trudeau?

This is an overly exaggerated myth that is the foundation of modern day stage Red Masculinity which is mostly cringe because it doesn't truly align with female fascination. Hell, females can even sleep with gay dudes if he performs right. You're wrong about female psychology which leads me to the conclusion that you must have very little to zero sexual/romantic or relationship experience. Anybody familiar with how relationship works are aware that attraction plays a major role for the most part, followed by passionate sexual chemistry, it's not so much about stamina, rather its the chemistry that keeps the spark, even the lamest guy on planet earth can get a woman if he knows how to stimulate her heart and get her wet, that's why Emo guys win meanwhile physically strong men can't get enough women.

This entire post is an extreme cherry picking of the left and overestimated Idolization of the Right. It couldn't be anymore dogmatic than this.

There's another problem besides poor signal-to-noise, the information in pop-(history, psychology, economics, etc.) books often is simply wrong or deceptive. Even scholarly books can misinform you or give you a very biased perspective; with millions (tens of millions?) of PhD's in the world, you can find a book that will say almost anything you like. Thankfully, the experts in each field effectively review the books for you. An there are more widely-respected, serious scholarly works of true genius than you can read in your lifetime. The signal-to-noise generally is very high, misinformation is low, and writing by the very best is often very engaging. In other words, if all you read is the very best humanity has to offer, you still won't live long enough to read more than a fraction of it. So why waste your time on anything else?

May I ask you where you're getting this from? Could you elaborate what you mean by that?

Views are misleading. Famous people will always a high view count. Same goes for Trump or any diot in the world who opens his mouth on every political topic and finds his way on Joe Rogan. Nothing different from Milo or Ben Shapiro or Nick Fuentes for that matter. The point to remember that meanwhile he has a large following of people, not everyone is jumping on the bandwagon. Intelligence is found in such limited amounts across the population, yet you'll see plenty of sane people in this world who forthrightly don't agree with this man, no matter how much clout chasing he does.

Lmfao. . Just call him P. Diddy. He reminds me of a New York investment banker.

He is losing brain cells at an exponential rate, something he needs to really worry about.

It destroys sex. It makes sex look bad. It's like eating junk food. Eating junk food also has lot of benefits, saves you money and also saves time. But once you do that, you'll lose interest in healthy food.

Why are you so worried about who tells you? Nilsi doesn't exist. @NoSelfSelf is equal to self. You're same as Nilsi or me. What do you care about? Let it go. You are all and all are you.

@gettoefl right back at you.

Beautiful Dreamer, wake unto me, Starlight and dewdrops are waiting for thee; Sounds of the rude world heard in the day, Lull'd by the moonlight have all passed away! Beautiful dreamer, queen of my song, List while I woo thee with soft melody; Gone are the cares of life's busy throng Beautiful dreamer, awake unto me! Beautiful dreamer, awake unto me! Beautiful dreamer, out on the sea, Mermaids are chanting the wild Lorelei; Over the stream let vapors are borne, Waiting to fade at the bright coming morn. Beautiful dreamer, beam on my heart, E'en as the morn on the stream let and sea; Then will all clouds of sorrow depart, Beautiful dreamer, awake unto me! Beautiful dreamer, awake unto me!

Pretty much. Porn has become passe and too mainstream and I guess gradually over the next few decades we will be witnessing (just my hunch), a slow decline in the admiration for porn as people begin to discover how lame it truly is, like every other phenomenon it would be outdated and future generations would look upon it with scorn, and the scourge will be gone before we know it,people will begin to admire the potential of real sex once again, something similar happened to cigarettes, they were damn popular in the 50s and 60s, not so much now. Every addiction goes through a peak trapezoid and then slacks off into flatness.

I think I can relate. I have suffered from depression and I've been through moments where I didn't want to live and that can be a horrible place.

@integral I'll explain something to you. Imagine if my Ex came back into my life and told me to have fun with him aka sex. Now him and I go to a desolate place and he begins to do all this sexual fantasy stuff with me. Now imagine that he is very angry with me for some weird reason. And he decides to choke me in the middle of our sex. Now I am completely submitted to him and his mercy. He could use this opportunity to choke me and kill me or he could simply choke me a bit but make sure I'm safe. His choice. Now I'm aware of what he can do to me. I still let him do it. Here I am showing a lot of trust by letting him take the lead. This is how the trust grows. By exhibiting it. Meanwhile he shows me trust by actually not choking or killing me when he had every opportunity to do that. This is how the intimacy and trust is built. We both created it by crossing the limits of human trust. I did it by surrendering and believing him. He did it by not destroying my faith in him, by not exploiting or taking advantage of my vulnerable state of surrender. I hope you understood. Sexual fantasies aren't child's play. You aren't laughing while it's happening because then there is no real fun, you have outed yourself already. It has to be a deep sinister role play and it should finish with deep trust. It's almost like sitting on a roller coaster when you're panicking and then laughing in the end because you tested the limits of your own fears in a careful setting. Sexual fantasies promote growth, intimacy and the ability to trust despite the fears and odds, the riskier the better.

Maybe you aren't cut out for that. For me role playing, rape fantasies, bdsm, I don't know voyager, but yea choking is my favorite, sugar mama is a no, humiliation no, sensory deprivation yes yes yes, Domination is a big yes (I'm a sub), bondage not so much, bondage is boring, but choking is cute and beautiful. I wasn't so much into these but my ex introduced me to all these things. He wanted to skin me with his nails. And I said no. There were a couple of things he wanted to do a little more I guess. But I denied I just like basic domination and choking. Sexual fantasy is no big deal. It's simply what arouses you. Nothing special.

Why aren't sexual fantasies associated with the purest form of love? Probably because deep in your mind you judge and shame those fantasies. Sanctimonious shaming. Heal that shame. Also. I found the greatest beauty, Purity and intimacy and true love in the fulfillment of my deepest fantasies. It created enormous levels of trust when I could share them with my partner.

The real fun would have been if you had deleted yourself.