Tyler Robinson

Now we're arguing like husband and wife. Can a wife ever tell you that there's something wrong with your perspective? Or are you always the right one? Your conversation with me reads like this - Wife says - Mr Husband should slightly change the way he says and I make a suggestion that he includes my request and understands that what he says appears a bit invalidating of my feelings. Like he is trying to say that maybe I'm wrong when I know I felt what I felt Husband says - Miss Wife, If you think I'm wrong, we should take this to divorce court and let them decide if I was wrong. Only then I'll hear your suggestion. Wife says - Do you ever listen? ................................................. Impossible! It's impossible to tell you something because you always want a third party to decide things. And what if the third party wasn't able to judge it right. Why be so sure? If I genuinely felt your comments were harmful I would have reported them. I was telling you that telling others that they can feel a different way can sometimes come across as a manipulative tactic. You could have easily replied - "yes I understand what you mean and I'll take care of it and not suggest him anything opposite of what he feels and make sure that he doesn't feel like his feelings aren't valid meanwhile also explaining him my perspective." Try taking my comments non judgementally next time. You have your own trauma to work on.

Ripe for abuse. Cult mechanics

Just suggesting you something is so bad? You mean to say that you cannot even accept a simple suggestion. I only requested you to not tell him to not feel the way he feels. That was just a simple request. I'll leave it here. I'm not interested in targeting you or making you feel inappropriate. No I never said that. I was just cautioning you. Maybe take a chill pill. I'm all for harmony always. Please take my suggestion instead of ignoring me. I meant everything for good reasons. Don't assume that I'm blaming you, just pointing out something that you did that you could slightly change a bit. I hope you can be criticized and you don't make big out of little corrections people make of you. If you feel so bad about my comment, I'll leave it here and won't reply anymore. Go ahead.

I asked him. He told me that he wanted to verify if I was being loyal to him. Some dude friend of his gave him this idea/technique to try on me and see if the experiment worked. He felt guilty because (maybe he was looking to find something to blame me for but realized that he simply suspected me for nothing) I mean when he posed as another guy, I told this guy that I already have a boyfriend that I wish to remain loyal to. I guess when he read what I said - that specific moment must have been embarrassing for him emotionally. I mean here he was suspecting that I will easily give into another dude and cheat on him and get flirty/dirty with another dude behind his back. But the plan misfired and kinda backfired in his face. It didn't happen the way he imagined. Maybe he was looking for some dirt on me and catch me raw. I'm a flirty person, I get it and sometimes I do tend to talk to men in flirty ways. It's my disposition. Doesn't mean that I'm actually going to cheat. I tend to act overtly sexual but that's just my nature and I'm like that. I don't flirt with guys with a specific intent in mind. It's very much on the spot. My intentions are generally always clear when I make specific statements. Like if I want a relationship I will ask for it. I'm a straight shooter. If I want to break up I'll break up. I won't do sneaky games behind someone's back and then wait for things to unfold. I am just not that type. I understand his insecurity because of my flirty nature with men. I tend to talk to any man however I please. Free flow. This might be bugging him secretly. He might have thought that I am the cheater type because of my proclivous nature toward flirting. I get it. I can be hard to deal with in that department of things. Any guy can easily feel jealous around me. In fact most of my exes have felt jealous in my relationships, assuming I will go with another dude who is trying to please me. So I'm used to being told that they are jealous.. Now I'll always try my best to ensure my partner of my loyalty. I can't do much if somebody doesn't trust me. I have never cheated on my exes and I consider cheating on a partner as a horrible thing to do. That shit is not okay and there's no justification for cheating.. But it's hard to convince someone of your loyalty if they easily get suspicious.. Although my own lax behavior around men could be contributing to this suspicion. It's easy to think- "oh she is openly flirting with this guy. I think she will cheat on me. She is not reliable." At the same time I can't change who I am. I can't change how I talk. This is just my nature and not reflective of any kind of intent. I made it totally clear to him that I don't intend to cheat on him. Now if he doesn't trust me despite my frankness on the issue then it's his own mind playing games with him.

That's okay. But don't try to change how he feels or tell him to feel a certain way. Not a right thing to do. He is entitled to how he feels. Just offer him a perspective but also sympathize with how he feels. Is that okay?

No.. Yelling at someone in public and shouting women power especially to a man is condescending and humiliating. What if a man said "man power" to a woman loudly out of his car in public. We would instantly be defending the woman by calling him a sexist misogynist asshole. That woman wasn't showing concern. If she was so concerned then she would actually shown her concern by getting out of the car and rescuing the woman herself. That would have actually looked like true woman power - a woman actually helping another woman instead of preaching a man on what woman power is. That she wouldn't do because such women are fake. They like to shout girl power but when it actually comes to supporting a woman in her need, they back off like cowards. Such women also attack any woman who doesn't agree with them and still talk about girl power. Lmfao. I have been familiar with such women. They are the female version of the white knights. They love to preach people in condescending ways but don't do the required action themselves. She was playing an ego game by acting like she cares to another person who actually cares. If she really cared she would have given the drunk woman a ride home. But that's exactly she won't do because her shit is to create unnecessary public drama and use a situation to her advantage and try to look like a concerned individual by shouting but not actually doing anything. She must be a pro at this

Classic gaslighting technique looks like this - you're wrong. Your feelings are wrong. Maybe you took it the wrong way. Maybe you shouldn't feel like this. They didn't mean anything bad. It's you who took it bad. You felt bad because you were wrong. Otherwise you wouldn't feel bad. If you took it another way you would not feel bad. You don't see it the right way. You are misinterpreting it because you are deluded. Your feelings aren't valid. You could have interpreted this in another way. You don't know the truth. I could go on and on. You get the idea.

LOL don't gaslight him. I know you're good at psychology But this dude Tron felt what he felt very instinctively. You can see he is a bit instinctive from all of his responses. He had a on the spot natural reaction to the situation. When we feel what we truly feel, our intuition is telling us the right thing - it's called gut feeling He felt dehumanized and there's no need to judge him for that. He is simply being frank. There's no need to change how he felt. Or make him feel something he didn't feel in the situation. He is right in being reactive. Any person who genuinely feels humiliated should have the right to vent and telling them otherwise is to manipulate their emotions. I'm warning the OP @Tron to stay away from such manipulative tactics. Be genuine and stick to your feelings and don't let people tell you otherwise.

I was a bit gender fluid for some time of my life at least this year. I wanted to feel what it meant to be a non binary. It was a temporary state of mind where I ran into some gender conflict and felt confused. It felt like it wasn't bad for me to be both men and women at the same time Later my frustration began to grow, I felt like I simply wanted to feel like a man but wasn't really sensing it inside. I was still attached to being a woman. But this short thought experiment like liberated me and made me understand LGBT struggles better. If you wanna understand the struggles of the LGBT community especially that of gender non binary or gender fluid and of trans communities, I Recommend only safe person to you who does it in a clear cut non confusing way and his name is - Jeffrey Marsh Watch Jeffrey Marsh videos on YouTube. They are precious and priceless and they encapsulate non binary gender fluid struggles in the most elegant and excellent way..

I'm sorry you went through this experience and how white knights on this forum constantly shaming you on this thread so that they can use you to look better Classic ego games these people are playing by shaming you. Some of the men who act like they understand women are the most vulture types (personal experience, learned to stay away from white knight hypocrites) Coming to your situation - You didn't deserve it. That woman in the car was a total nut job. She didn't need to make it about gender. She was trying to be condescending and shaming you. That wasn't fair and it was unnecessary for her to act like she knows the situation better. She didn't have to add - woman power. It was menacing of her to do that just like a casual insult or put down. These are the kind of feminists we must avoid because they are about female dominance over men rather than true equality Regarding your obligation - You already did a good job trying to keep her safe. It wasn't your responsibility though when someone chooses to deliberately put themselves in danger. You could have ended up risking your own life by running after her. And equality in this specific situation means you should treat her just the way you would treat a male friend who is drunk. She is not a child. She should not get a pass for her behavior if she is drunk. She is a responsible person like all responsible persons, the gender is irrelevant. You tried to help her but she wouldn't take it. So it wasn't your duty to protect her anymore. It's time we hold women accountable for their wrong behavior just like we do to men. Otherwise it's not fair to always let women off the hook. You did the right thing in the situation and you had no further obligation because gender is irrelevant when someone is being or going wrong or being reckless and belligerent like your friend. And the woman yelling out of the car was shaming you because she got her own issues. She must be that dominating feminist who likes telling men what to do meanwhile she never looks in the mirror herself and blames men for all her stupid issues. I'm sorry you went through this experience, it must have been humiliating to be publicly embarrassed by the woman in the car yelling at you. So don't take that woman seriously and there are women who aren't like that. That's all.

Can you elaborate on this

I want to be his cuddlebug

I have been moaning all day and night. Thinking about him. Imagining his penetrations Sweet moaning. Sometimes painful.

that's not the real problem. I don't like relying on objects for orgasms. It's like every time I want an orgasm I will need to carry an object around. I don't want to feel that way. It makes me not feel the joy of pleasure. Even if I do it with my partner, I actually feel upset because it means they don't have ability to give me an orgasm. I have had guys give me an orgasm on the phone (when my boyfriend is in another city on work he would call to pleasure me), that kind of orgasm is an art, it's a skill, it needs proper escalation, emotional stimulation, buildup of sexual tension, foreplay, romance, sexual energy, development of deep intimacy, trust, knowing each other's sexual fantasies, knowing how to turn the other person on, sexual, emotional and psychological logic, connection, sexual fire and sexual chemistry, sexual compatibility in terms of arousal and climax. There's a whole gamut of factors and skills that need to be learned in order to give a proper arousal and orgasm. I don't want sex to be reduced to something as mere stimulation of organs. I miss out on the emotional and brain stimulation part of it if I took the support of porn and sex toys and technological objects. It's like taking diet pills and not exercising instead. Quick solution but exercise is much more wholesome. I want sex to be wholesome. Last time I had sex with my bf, we lasted for 3 hours in bed before we both orgasmed. The whole three hours were full pleasure and intense bonding and intimacy. The climax and orgasm were very wholesome and organic and extremely romantic and rewarding.. It was pure bliss not just stimulation. I could have achieved orgasm with clitoral stimulator or a vibrator within seconds and I could have jerked him off right away. But we didn't do that. Instead we took time to gradually seduce each other and bond in the process and finally reached orgasm that were long lasting and intense. My body was pulsating the whole time because he gave me multiple arousals. Such intense chemistry, intimacy, wholesome pleasurable orgasms with euphoria are not possible with such objects. In fact these toys ruin the fun by not allowing space for slow romantic escalation. They are meant for instant gratification and I don't want that. A real man gives me delayed gratification and that's much more natural, organic, wholesome, romantic, filled with his masculine seduction and very intense and powerful. Sometimes my boyfriend is out of town(for work) and those days can be difficult if I'm horny for him.

@KH2 that's not the real problem. I don't like relying on objects for orgasms. It's like every time I want an orgasm I will need to carry an object around. I don't want to feel that way. It makes me not feel the joy of pleasure. Even if I do it with my partner, I actually feel upset because it means they don't have ability to give me an orgasm. I have had guys give me an orgasm on the phone (when my boyfriend is in another city on work he would call to pleasure me), that kind of orgasm is an art, it's a skill, it needs proper escalation, emotional stimulation, buildup of sexual tension, foreplay, romance, sexual energy, development of deep intimacy, trust, knowing each other's sexual fantasies, knowing how to turn the other person on, sexual, emotional and psychological logic, connection, sexual fire and sexual chemistry, sexual compatibility in terms of arousal and climax. There's a whole gamut of factors and skills that need to be learned in order to give a proper arousal and orgasm. I don't want sex to be reduced to something as mere stimulation of organs. I miss out on the emotional and brain stimulation part of it if I took the support of porn and sex toys and technological objects. It's like taking diet pills and not exercising instead. Quick solution but exercise is much more wholesome. I want sex to be wholesome. Last time I had sex with my bf, we lasted for 3 hours in bed before we both orgasmed. The whole three hours were full pleasure and intense bonding and intimacy. The climax and orgasm were very wholesome and organic and extremely romantic and rewarding.. It was pure bliss not just stimulation. I could have achieved orgasm with clitoral stimulator or a vibrator within seconds and I could have jerked him off right away. But we didn't do that. Instead we took time to gradually seduce each other and bond in the process and finally reached orgasm that were long lasting and intense. My body was pulsating the whole time because he gave me multiple arousals. Such intense chemistry, intimacy, wholesome pleasurable orgasms with euphoria are not possible with such objects. In fact these toys ruin the fun by not allowing space for slow romantic escalation. They are meant for instant gratification and I don't want that. A real man gives me delayed gratification and that's much more natural, organic, wholesome, romantic, filled with his masculine seduction and very intense and powerful. Sometimes my boyfriend is out of town(for work) and those days can be difficult if I'm horny for him.

@KH2 I've tried those. I don't like the feel.. Also mechanical stuff doesn't really get me hot.

@StarStruck if they are Leo gifs send me in pm. Can watch Leo all day.

My sexual intensity has calmed down a bit. It took almost a day for my heat to calm down

I want you inside me I want to be seduced, raped, tied down and then fucked really hard. I want to see your balls drained. I wanna feel your cum inside me. It's pure pleasure and fun.

I'm cold. Just hold me tight and don't let go. Then turn me around and fuck the shit out of me. Take everything from me in return for your affection Do me (as dirty as you can). Make me your sex slave I want your masculine sexual energy I want your cum really badly All over me. I want to be your princess. Your little good girl.

This is pure torture now hun. Whatever you do to me. I feeling it in my skin.. The way you squeeze my breasts. You really want this so bad. Just fuck me then. Your desire is so strong, it's making me crazy. I can feel your penetrations deep and intense. I love your penis. It's making me horny. I'm losing control and I will let you do anything you want. Push it inside. I'm feeling it. You are sexing me up so much. I just can't do anything except surrender to your dick torture. And you are kissing me, biting my lips so bad. I just can't. You are making me crazy. I love what your penis is doing to me I'm your submissive slave now I'm getting this tender feeling in my breasts. They feel more beautiful when you touch and play with them. They are yours Grab my Tits by your teeth. Do what you want and I won't complain This is yours.

This is making me so horny and I got girl problems now.

Maybe he wanted to satisfy his curiosity.

It's my Vulnerability ultimately that attracts predators.

There's simply no solution for whatever I'm going through.