Tyler Robinson

I think you should take him to a counselor as soon as possible and be by his side 24/7. Convince him that suicide is a bad thing. Also console and comfort him. Most people who are suicidal are that way only for a while, they feel depressed for some time and a feeling of helplessness causes a person to be suicidal. This usually lasts a day or two. Suicide is always a reckless impulsive instantaneous decision due to extreme frustration and helplessness. Usually these feelings disappear when the person begins to feel safer. Your job is to de-escalate and comfort the person as much as possible during this window period so their overwhelming feelings begin to diminish and they start feeling normal again. Usually a person doesn't want to kill themselves. It's a temporary feeling of desperation that shouldn't be ignored. It's a cry for help. Our survival instinct is very strong and generally overrides such feelings. A suicidal person is generally subconsciously looking for someone to listen and understand their overwhelming emotions, they are looking to be heard, to be listened and to be accepted. Talking about their problems and letting them open up while patiently listening and letting them open up is a huge key to stop a person from suicide. Be there for them at the time of need. Hope they feel better.

I agree glory.

Do you think reality is logical. I think reality is not logical at all.

@Proserpina don't worry. I won't leave journaling. Just public forum. I'll be here when you want me. Cheers.

Will say goodbye to this forum in the next 2 weeks. I'll say final goodbye to the forum on October 25, 2022. Thats the last anyone will see of me.

We have social media. We have the technology and the means to communicate and be closer to one another. This has never been possible before in human history, in the entirety of human history. People could never be this close. We have video chatting and texting and calling and basically every means to connect with one another, almost like you are existing in person around the other person. And why is it that despite all this, we still do not want a mutual understanding for each other. We don't use these technologies as much as we need to. People still choose to not communicate, do not reply to texts, ghost each other and play meaningless social games. Why are we so lost? Why can't humanity come closer when we have the means for it? In fact most people are not even interested in talking. Why are we so disconnected? Why are we so far apart from each other?

Is that a good example? Is that something that you aspire to be? No human being should be so powerful that they can do anything to anyone. Neither such human being be considered successful or an object of inspiration. No. They suck. There's not much to it.

Ok thanks.

hot, feminine, slim or curvy would be nice sensitive, gentle, tender, soft skin, thicker lips, pretty I think I tick all of these boxes. I'm sensitive, soft and feminine. I'm tender. Thick lips.... Umm. Maybe big lips. Pretty??? Maybe most men have always called me pretty. wanting to make me satisfied seeing me as authority Yess... loving my attention, Yesss appreciating it Yess being highly interested in me Yess passionate about me, desiring me Yess surrendering without resistance, Tiny amounts of resistance showing her vulnerability sexual towards me Of course intimate with me, asking me to touch her, begging me to touch her Not begging feeling joy and blessing in my presence loving everything about me emotional Emotional - yesss

You're so romantic and sweet. I just wanna sleep on your dick.. Fall asleep on it.

How fair is to slut shame women? I have sometimes observed that women slut shame other women much more than men do. Where do we draw the boundary when it comes to slut shaming? Is slut shaming a projection of male insecurity is there some truth to this moral shaming of women? To what extent should we consider slut shaming to be appropriate? When does it appear healthy and when does it enter the territory of inappropriate, or should it not exist at all? Share your thoughts and opinions on slut shaming.

You know what thing hurts me the most. Is someone who is pretending like they care about me but actually they don't. PHONY PEOPLE THEY ARE.

This was helpful.

Is offline dating better than online? What do you think of the pros and cons of each?

Will say goodbye to this forum in the next 2 weeks. I'll say final goodbye to the forum on October 25, 2022. Thats the last anyone will see of me.

If I'm correctly understanding what you mean by dreamers here, you're probably referring to people who aim high and have a vision and that vision is still a dream? I think It would be advisable to form separate categories of dreamers here. Two categories. One is the above. They tend to have a specific vision for the future. The second category of dreamers are those that are simply very detached from reality, engage in toxic maladaptive daydreaming, they try to avoid reality, like playing video games every day, living in a virtual world, ignoring harsh realities around them, always trying to run away from problems instead of fixing it, till those problems become big. I think while writing the original post, I had the second category in mind.

It's true and I agree with you for the most part, that narcissists often get what they want but you're not looking at it at a snapshot rather you're narrowly focused on what narcissists win in the short. Hate may win some battles but love wins in the end. Narcissistic behavior ends up reaping short term gains but longer term narcissists often have to deal with the bitter end of reality and they reach a slump on the road and stop progressing beyond a certain milestone and reach a plateau phase in life and also we see the trapezoid curve of growth in their lives where in the beginning they show tremendous success and hope and later begin to devolve very badly, an example could be of Trump, they become too self assured too self confident to the point of arrogance and this is where their downfall begins. It's because they are very busy trying to control reality instead of realizing that reality controls them.

Nice.

Yup

I was also going to talk about hypocrisy, inauthenticity, frankness in expression, pedestalizing, social validation, unrealistic standards and expectations, improvement over time, ability to love someone for who they are, being judgemental but not being overly judgemental and not being completely non judgemental, and a host of issues in relationships when you don't want to deal with reality and instead love sugarcoating things

No that was a personal attack. It was humiliation/shaming my character. Sorry I don't wish to talk about it any further. And I don't expect you to understand my feelings here.

Understandable.

Of course. I didn't mean someone who is not willing to be loved or give back love in return. I meant not so perfect flawed people who are still wanting to give and receive love. I have caveats for this sort of thing - I have discussed the caveats in my journal here - if you have to be with a person who is flawed then they need to fulfill certain criteria, requirements or conditions.

How to be more feminine? (this will be discussed in the journal later)