Tyler Robinson

Ok thanks.

hot, feminine, slim or curvy would be nice sensitive, gentle, tender, soft skin, thicker lips, pretty I think I tick all of these boxes. I'm sensitive, soft and feminine. I'm tender. Thick lips.... Umm. Maybe big lips. Pretty??? Maybe most men have always called me pretty. wanting to make me satisfied seeing me as authority Yess... loving my attention, Yesss appreciating it Yess being highly interested in me Yess passionate about me, desiring me Yess surrendering without resistance, Tiny amounts of resistance showing her vulnerability sexual towards me Of course intimate with me, asking me to touch her, begging me to touch her Not begging feeling joy and blessing in my presence loving everything about me emotional Emotional - yesss

You're so romantic and sweet. I just wanna sleep on your dick.. Fall asleep on it.

How fair is to slut shame women? I have sometimes observed that women slut shame other women much more than men do. Where do we draw the boundary when it comes to slut shaming? Is slut shaming a projection of male insecurity is there some truth to this moral shaming of women? To what extent should we consider slut shaming to be appropriate? When does it appear healthy and when does it enter the territory of inappropriate, or should it not exist at all? Share your thoughts and opinions on slut shaming.

You know what thing hurts me the most. Is someone who is pretending like they care about me but actually they don't. PHONY PEOPLE THEY ARE.

This was helpful.

Is offline dating better than online? What do you think of the pros and cons of each?

Will say goodbye to this forum in the next 2 weeks. I'll say final goodbye to the forum on October 25, 2022. Thats the last anyone will see of me.

If I'm correctly understanding what you mean by dreamers here, you're probably referring to people who aim high and have a vision and that vision is still a dream? I think It would be advisable to form separate categories of dreamers here. Two categories. One is the above. They tend to have a specific vision for the future. The second category of dreamers are those that are simply very detached from reality, engage in toxic maladaptive daydreaming, they try to avoid reality, like playing video games every day, living in a virtual world, ignoring harsh realities around them, always trying to run away from problems instead of fixing it, till those problems become big. I think while writing the original post, I had the second category in mind.

It's true and I agree with you for the most part, that narcissists often get what they want but you're not looking at it at a snapshot rather you're narrowly focused on what narcissists win in the short. Hate may win some battles but love wins in the end. Narcissistic behavior ends up reaping short term gains but longer term narcissists often have to deal with the bitter end of reality and they reach a slump on the road and stop progressing beyond a certain milestone and reach a plateau phase in life and also we see the trapezoid curve of growth in their lives where in the beginning they show tremendous success and hope and later begin to devolve very badly, an example could be of Trump, they become too self assured too self confident to the point of arrogance and this is where their downfall begins. It's because they are very busy trying to control reality instead of realizing that reality controls them.

Nice.

Yup

I was also going to talk about hypocrisy, inauthenticity, frankness in expression, pedestalizing, social validation, unrealistic standards and expectations, improvement over time, ability to love someone for who they are, being judgemental but not being overly judgemental and not being completely non judgemental, and a host of issues in relationships when you don't want to deal with reality and instead love sugarcoating things

No that was a personal attack. It was humiliation/shaming my character. Sorry I don't wish to talk about it any further. And I don't expect you to understand my feelings here.

Understandable.

Of course. I didn't mean someone who is not willing to be loved or give back love in return. I meant not so perfect flawed people who are still wanting to give and receive love. I have caveats for this sort of thing - I have discussed the caveats in my journal here - if you have to be with a person who is flawed then they need to fulfill certain criteria, requirements or conditions.

How to be more feminine? (this will be discussed in the journal later)

How to be more feminine?

A short collection. I will constantly keep revising this post.. I have a lot to say on this topic. Please don't come at me for simply describing what I think alpha males. I know some people get triggered by the mere mention of the word alpha and the distinctions drawn between alpha and betas. But this discussion is needed any way, not because it will help you become an alpha male, I think alpha males are primary born and not created through nurture, I don't see how that can be the case, that being said, you could still incorporate and integrate some behaviors of alpha men and see how that benefits your life, it's nothing different from following an archetype. Society benefits a lot from alpha males and alpha males are necessary for the survival of the society. Whether you like it or not or whether women like it or not. Whether you call an alpha male fake or real is irrelevant. They are what they are. Definition is not relevant These are the traits I have observed in alpha males They are very attractive. Looks. They are aware that they are attractive They are not soft at all but they can be deeply emotional They are very emotional and passionate in relationships They like to dominate the woman in bed. They are patriarchal They like submissive women They don't need status. Although having status makes them feel good but they don't flaunt it. Alpha males are easily pissed off. Never piss them off or they walk away. You can't challenge an alpha male in a relationship. They get triggered and they won't let it slide. Alpha males are ambitious Alpha males aren't scared to speak what's on their mind Alpha males cannot take a no for an answer Alpha males don't negotiate their goals and values Alpha males can be controlling towards their girlfriend Alpha males get their job done, they simply don't let go Alpha males are dominant Alpha males own the woman and hold her accountable Alpha males don't put the women on a pedestal Alpha males generally believe in providing for their woman Alpha males don't simply agree to their girlfriends. They hold her views to scrutiny before accepting them Alpha males don't make excuses for their goals Alpha males have huge expectations from their girlfriends. It's tough to date them. Because they expect the best out of you. And if you don't give them the best, they will dump you. Alpha males have high moral integrity and don't break rules for anyone.

Although whatever I mentioned above comes with its own set of caveats. It doesn't apply to all situations You could be in a very horrible toxic relationship and you don't have to serve someone's purpose. You could dump or break off knowing that this person is not trustworthy or incapable of change.. Especially if someone comes with an entire list of Toxic traits . Or if someone is openly arrogant, belligerent and not willing to change. If someone takes advantage of your empathy, compassion, mercy or forgiveness over and over leaving you frustrated. These are the situations showing compassion and forgiveness is only making it worse for every party. Nobody is changing. Nothing is happening. You cannot work it out with such people. The capacity to show compassion and forgiveness for someone's flaws only works in 2 specific scenarios - 1... Where the person is showing willingness to change their flawed behavior, for example they are ready to work on their anger issues. And they are constantly complaining about how a lack of room/space /time/forgiveness/understanding /cooperation /compassion from your end is stalling their growth and not allowing them enough room or chance to overcome their flaws or grow as a person. 2....where the person is not showing willingness to change. And they really want you to ignore their flaws and look past their behavior/flaws and see the net positive they bring to the relationship and also see their love for you. These 2 situations are where it would be worthwhile to rethink and place your trust and respect into the relationship.

What will a strong man say to a woman - 1. I trust you 2. I won't shame you 3. I won't judge you 4. I will forgive you and offer you my compassion. 5. I won't complain 4. I respect you 5. I love you 6. I embrace your flaws and I am ready to look past them to see your love.