Tyler Robinson

You can't please everyone nor can you change anyone. So avoiding is the best thing to do anyway.

You're living in a loop. You're too involved in your own life. Take things in a lighter spirit. It's a loop in the sense — your life is getting in the way of your life. Which means you are so hyper focused that a single story of your life is dominating your entire life to the point that it's creating an obstacle. Let life happen. Don't control it. Don't over analyze it down to the tiniest bit. Give free air, some space and room to your life. You aren't living because you are too busy analyzing every moment. People will hate you for nothing. Winning people is a losing battle. It's a matter of luck. You have little luck because someone already ruined your reputation. Nothing is perfect or smooth sailing. Most people are shallow anyway. Your fundamental focus must be on impressing yourself rather than impressing people. If you have made more progress today as compared to yesterday then you did good. That's all you will need throughout life. It's that simple. Rest will fall in place. Godspeed.

You're my savior. Thank you so much for alerting me. Your post is very important.

How do you mess up? An example?

The real world is a hard world.

It's a hard thing to do. If you reject many, at some point it catches up to you and it feels like bad karma building up.

@UpperMaster can I ask you your zodiac. If you are not comfortable it's okay.

I so wish they did. Sometimes it also depends on the kind of bonding they have with their moms.

@OBEler yea I get that. But I need a man who also cares about my feelings. Maybe they can find a girl who is more into a casual sex lifestyle. I'm more committed in my relationships.

I don't really care what you think to be honest. You are so unstable that only God can save you. Maybe sort out your own life first. But you won't do that and start bickering about others. The fact that you need to be banned in order to have less screen time speaks of how little control you really have over your own messy life. That's like a kid that needs his video game taken away. You are a troubled human being and you need serious help and I say this in good faith. Nobody will tell you this because everyone is scared of offending you, you take things ultra seriously in an awkward kind of way, I wish you peace and healing.

I don't have a specific type in mind, at least not in the current moment. It depends on the energy of the guy interested in me. I like to see how compatible they are with me. Usually it means communicating respect for my needs and boundaries, zero pressure for sex. Being humble, not very argumentative. Trusting me For example some guy will ask me something like - are you into other guys while I'm with you? I find such a question in poor taste. It signals lack of trust. Sure that guy feels insecure and I get it. But it's too early for him to demand my full attention/devotion if he is not even my boyfriend yet. I sense a controlling vibe coming through those kind of questions. I find it Intrusive and obligatory. Why must I answer something like that? You know such things will make me want to reject the guy as soon as possible because he has already communicated that he is not compatible with me by showing lack of trust. So if he trying to argue right off the bat when he is not even my boyfriend, my heart says this is not my kind of guy. My kind will be someone willing to trust me and not make me defend myself all the time.

I generally say — this is not going to work out. I'm sorry.

Rejection is rejection whether you do it rudely or politely. It will always hurt.

It can be an exhausting process to text three guys at a time. Plus one more guy is waiting since 10 days. Now I don't even feel like texting him because I am feeling embarrassed that I made him wait too long. The struggle is real baby. It's hard with dating. Once you let them know you are single they all come on you like moths to flame. Very very hard for me. I haven't even slept well in the last week texting so many guys. Nobody is patient. I wish I could relax a bit. First I feel guilty that I'm not immediately replying to text Then I feel guilty that I reject. Oooooooof.

We're all looking for that romantic energy and we never find it. Love is fickle and compatibility in the material world is a useless endeavor.

But the most frequent reason is that I see no chemistry building between. I feel no spark, no attraction. They don't say much other than that they like me. They hardly hold a conversation. I'm not good at conversations either. So there's awkward silences and pauses. Not much to share. They don't engage me. Most of them are a bit Impatient. I like to take things slowly. They immediately want me to say yes to them. And I can't do that if I don't feel the connection. It builds up pressure to say yes just to satisfy them but I don't like doing that. So it ends in a rejection. Sometimes I give them time but it's the same thing again. They get Impatient wanting a quick answer from me without actually waiting to develop a connection. For me it's like a guy has to slowly warm up to me, be like a sweet friend, win my heart, read my mind, get mentally intimate before he can be sexual with me, otherwise I just don't feel it. I have never had casual sex, I'm not into that. I want a meaningful relationship. So I want a deep connection before sex. I think most guys who approach don't care about connection. They don't bother putting a lot of effort. I feel like they don't value relationships or even wanting to understand me fully. It's like they probably just want a girl. Maybe I'm wrong. But either way, whether they truly like me or not, in the absence of attraction, chemistry, connection I cannot really say yes. I want to feel like I really like the guy, and I want to find him charming and that romantic spark.

I don't know if you consider this a good reason. But the most frequent reason is that I see no chemistry building between. I feel no spark, no attraction. They don't say much other than that they like me. They hardly hold a conversation. I'm not good at conversations either. So there's awkward silences and pauses. Not much to share. They don't engage me. Most of them are a bit Impatient. I like to take things slowly. They immediately want me to say yes to them. And I can't do that if I don't feel the connection. It builds up pressure to say yes just to satisfy them but I don't like doing that. So it ends in a rejection. Sometimes I give them time but it's the same thing again. They get Impatient wanting a quick answer from me without actually waiting to develop a connection. For me it's like a guy has to slowly warm up to me, be like a sweet friend, win my heart, read my mind, get mentally intimate before he can be sexual with me, otherwise I just don't feel it. I have never had casual sex, I'm not into that. I want a meaningful relationship. So I want a deep connection before sex. I think most guys who approach don't care about connection. They don't bother putting a lot of effort. I feel like they don't value relationships or even wanting to understand me fully. It's like they probably just want a girl. Maybe I'm wrong. But either way, whether they truly like me or not, in the absence of attraction, chemistry, connection I cannot really say yes. I want to feel like I really like the guy, and I want to find him charming and that romantic spark.

This point doesn't make sense. Where are Scandinavian countries competing like that? But they are the happiest countries.

All I see is a strong sense of low self worth. Your fundamental worth is not dependent on what others think about you. The moment you'll realize that the better things will be. In this moment you're giving way too power, value and importance to other people in a way that what they say is immediately threatening to your inner core, ego and sense of self. Work on your mentality. Also there could be a component of self judgement. You could be judging yourself harshly on the inside without actually realizing that you are doing this subconsciously. Release yourself, realize that being a human comes with a package of imperfections and flaws and being at the lower end of the social hierarchy is sometimes a blessing because life can be very simple at these levels with less competition and less fake people. There's a lot of psychopathic people at the top who crave sucess and money and do so in unethical ways. Also do gratitude journaling and see what you can be grateful for that you already got. Godspeed.

All I see is a strong sense of low self worth. Your fundamental worth is not dependent on what others think about you. The moment you'll realize that the better things will be. In this moment you're giving way too power, value and importance to other people in a way that what they say is immediately threatening to your inner core, ego and sense of self. Work on your mentality. Also there could be a component of self judgement. You could be judging yourself harshly on the inside without actually realizing that you are doing this subconsciously. Release yourself, realize that being a human comes with a package of imperfections and flaws and being at the lower end of the social hierarchy is sometimes a blessing because life can be very simple at these levels with less competition and less fake people. There's a lot of psychopathic people at the top who crave sucess and money and do so in unethical ways. Also do gratitude journaling and see what you can be grateful for that you already got. Godspeed.

Puerevirden is a masculine ancestral spirit entity. I don't want to love a man anymore. I somehow don't get enough value out of it.

This entity is heavily masculine.

Puerevirden, Take me. Hold me. Make me fall asleep in your arms. Make me yours. I'll suck you. I'll worship you. I will do everything as you please. Just give me some space in your arms. I crave your masculine energy and your love.

True love is mental connection. You feel sorrow when that person feels sorrow. Thats true love.