Tyler Robinson

All kinds of men are interesting to women. All kinds of men get married. The only ones who get dumped and divorced are assholes. A lot of men choose family and kids over careers because they want to be involved in their children's lives. In fact the biggest struggle for most men is work life balance since they really wish to devote more time to wife and kids which they can't. For most women this is not a problem as most women tend to automatically want to be stay at home moms and expect the husband to pay bills. A loving caring man uses his job and earnings to support his wife and child, not to abuse her. Why do you automatically assume the negative? Also just because something is uninspiring doesn't mean you have to hate lt. You could still do it as a duty. Maybe you don't like the nature of the work or it's not interesting enough but you could be having your friends that you made at your workplace and you could be spending time with them or you could be going to work because you are used to that environment. The fact that the job helps you pay bills can also be a motivator for most people. Think outside the box. This is a joke. It's not that women don't like clarity. It's just that their emotional system messes them up. This is like saying we should hate children who get angry and throw tantrums. It's feminine nature to be emotionally confused. It's masculine nature to give her a sense of order and direction. You're almost forcing a woman to act like a man. You have zero containment for a woman's flaws. Goodluck with that attitude. All women look for happiness in men. This is feminine nature. Masculine nature is gaining approval of the female. Feminine nature is giving that approval. Men are giving. Women are receiving. The very first thing a woman will want from you is happiness. Feminine happiness. Sexual happiness. You can call her selfish. But mother nature made it that way. No. That's why it's called "emotional." You have only met them in your dreams. Your theory doesn't match reality. A relationship is a transaction. Satisfaction of mutual needs. Relationships are based on attraction. Compatibility comes later. The strength of a relationship does not depend on any kind of compatibility. It depends on how willing each person is to please the other and how aligned their pursuits are. Also depends on the nature of their individual problems and how severely these problems impact the function of the relationship You need relationship experience to speak with confidence on male female relationship dynamics which you sadly don't have.

Have lower expectations. Don't expect too much out of people online.

This is toxic Masculinity. A man can love a woman deeply and it will have nothing to do with his career prospects or his success. All the guys who are into wage slave jobs or labor jobs are zombified? I don't find them boring at all. A person can be interesting to talk to even if they are into mundane jobs. You have invented some quirky stereotypes around men. Maybe they're more passionate about their families than a career. That's not passive aggression. It's called confusion. Women don't have clear cut theories on everything. They mostly work with instincts. Nothing to do with oppression. Women have emotions. Women engage in a lot of emotional logic most of the time. Emotional logic is not always crystal clear leaving room for ambiguity. Human love is finite. You can call it low consciousness but it's reality. The only form of love that comes quite close to unconditional is a mother's love for a child. Romantic love tends to fade away with time.

I think academicians lack EQ.

That answer is so ambiguous and has absolutely no correlation with women. Women don't care what career you're passionate about. I don't know why and how redpill contradicts any of the stuff you're alluding to. Men have had and have been having relationships with women despite all that. What truth? What is love and what do you think most men and women define love as? How does your definition differs from anyone's?

More moralizing and shaming. Continue. Don't lead with love. Don't practice what you preach. And just keep mocking because that makes you feel superior lol. All that empty bullshit sarcasm. Snarky attitude. Mean beaches. Respond to one question in 1 week and leave it there. Write what I want. Essays yea. Respond to mega-threads. And completely cut off communicating with disrespectful folks, maintain boundary. Why do they care. Anyways who cares in the moment is the one that matters. Work with wisdom.

Side note — Talk to newbees. And forget the old bees. Only talk to people who know how to respect. This is the best trick. Just forget all the old ones who are holding onto any kind of baggage or are too nosy. There's just no point. It's a mental asylum anyway. Once you cut people off, just cut them off for good and never go back, there's no need to. You're hypersensitive. The only ones who matter are ones who care. And there is no need to seek validation. Anyway everyone is just a shallow cuck. So if they don't validate then fuck them.... Cut down the need for validation. Cut people who make you even slightly uncomfortable Learn to be a jerk. Be free. I want to back off into my own little world sometimes. Just hide there. Free. No drama no mess, no dealing with difficult people.

So that day it was it. Philly won't have it anymore. Philly came out with a gun. He pointed the gun straight at Haney. Haney was trembling with fear. Philly then warned Haney to not touch me even with a stick... Or else.... Haney got the message. He backed off. A month later, someone said that Haney had left town forever. The threat was over.

For a while I felt protected with Philly even though he was my rapist and abuser. I felt protected because if it weren't for him, then Haney would have probably sold me to someone. I needed protection.. Then one day Haney came to the door. He was standing at the porch. He was waiting. He thought Philly wasn't home. Philly had a gun this time. He had hidden it on top of the cabinet. Haney stood on the porch. I could see him from a distance.

Cancel culture is extremely important just like policing this forum is important.

Leo also has a video on content versus structure.

Exactly. I don't know what planet that dude lives on.

The woman kinda encouraged Haney to be with me. One day I was groggy. Kinda sleepy. I slept off and the door was unlocked. Philly wasn't there. And Haney sneaked into the house. I don't know what happened next. But when I woke up I overheard a conversation between Haney and that woman. I screamed at the top of my lungs and ran out of there. I kept running till I reached home. I knocked vehemently on the door. I kept calling Philly to open the door. I saw Haney in the distance chasing after me. Philly opened the door and I got in. I stood next to a pillar and told Philly that Haney was up to no good. Philly stood at the door and Haney tried barging into the house. Philly stopped him and warned him. Haney look terrified. Haney left. Philly turned to me and said that he would need to keep a gun in case Haney comes again.

And how did you show it? Strange that you never had a relationship.

Haney was associated with a woman who was into pimping.

Nah. People are bored. There's a decline.

@Leo Gura why do some members have 87 mb file upload limit and some only 5 mb?

Women bring a lot of value to society. Mothers raise their children. A woman is much more than her external appearance. She is also about her values. Men and women are same when it comes to intelligence. Men just tend to be more logical and women tend to use emotional intelligence. Yes when it comes to physical things, men tend to have more physical stamina than women, but women possess more intrinsic wisdom. Women have the highest reproductive value because without women your semen is worthless. Yes women need semen for impregnation but for that we don't need men. We just need the semen. It's not that men aren't necessary. Of course men are needed to build a society, building roads etc. But so are women. Women are needed to give birth to those men. Men offer value in terms of work. But women offer value in terms of bearing and raising children. If a woman can be replaced by some laboratory generated egg or womb then men can also be replaced by heavy duty machines. There's no competition here. No rivalry. Both men and women were created to harmonize with each other, do their respective gender roles, create families and lead the human race. None is better or worse than the other and there is no rivalry, in fact there shouldn't be any rivalry to begin with. Both have separate roles to play within the context of evolution and procreation and continuation of a species. None is inferior or superior, just that both are designed differently both mentally, physically and emotionally to serve a role in the bigger picture. I think the person above Miss Tahuti (who is actually a man), tries to affirm a woman's value but does so in a begrudging way. As per his opinion, women especially the ones who look hot have a huge value and get everything given to them just based off on their appearances. I agree wholeheartedly with that thought. However, you have to ask yourself, who is giving this value to these hot babes? The answer is men, especially low self esteem men who love to simp and place women on a pedestal. As you can clearly see, the not so good looking women don't enjoy the same privileges. This means that this value is not so much about the "female" gender as much as it is about being attractive to men..so obviously this value is more about what catches male fancy. If a man spends a million dollars on a horse and gives the horse all kinds of special treatments, can you blame the horse for it? No. It's the man's decision to spend that kind of money on a horse. Society has never been fair. The value of anyone is not dependent on what they give intrinsically but more on what society considers to be valuable. There are so many talented artists that go unpaid everyday. Yet if the daughter of Bill Gates made a painting and sold it, she could make millions for just one painting, only because she is the daughter of Bill Gates. That's how worth and value is determined in our society. It's never about the true intrinsic potential of a person but how society views them. Society views unattractive women as unwanted or not worthy enough even though they are women too and capable of bearing and raising children too. Yet they are not valuable because they are not charming enough to men. This means that this value or worth is external and is dependent on validation supplied by men rather than anything intrinsic provided by the woman apart from her looks. A beautiful woman can sit pretty and not contribute in any way towards a workforce and still be valued by all men, whereas an ugly woman could be working her ass off and harder than most and contributing a lot in terms of talent and intelligence and still not be valued, in fact men might want to replace her with a beautiful girl. Men don't value intelligence in women because they think they already have enough and they won't need a woman to compensate for that. So they look for beautiful women since that's something they cannot have on their own and that's onto men, whatever they choose to value. So if hot women enjoy privileges, I don't feel sorry for men because it's an inflated value created by men and given to these women, indirectly it's not these women that men are considering as valuable, it's basically their own desires, their toys. Children will always consider their toys valuable even if those toys are broken. A matured form of intelligence will see that anything that works hard and provides intrinsic value is valuable and will not base this value solely on generic lottery.

Haney wanted to rape me. I told Philly about it.

Sometimes I feel like Philly knows so much about me. Yea those days. He tells me that I should not give a fuck about anything at all. Then he chastises me by telling me that my mother doesn't care about me at all. I'm on the same path Philly. Once again on the same path where I want to be wanted, craved. But there's nobody there. Haney.... He is a bastard. He lives there. A bit far away.

I just want to cut this place out of my life for good.

Oki I had a bad dream that I'm ashamed of sharing. In this dream, Carl-Richard died. Under mysterious circumstances. The problem is that Leo kept blaming me for it. It so happened that all people on Actualized were living in a huge multi storied building. Everyone was assigned a different role. Carl-Richard was assigned a mod, his job was to maintain peace in the house. I was assigned with laundry. My job was to collect all the dirty clothes from each member and get them cleaned in the laundry section of the building. I go around doing that. I kept collecting heaps of clothes from each room. Sadly Carl-Richard was at the top of a flight of stairs and a white sheet of cloth and he was kinda entangled in it and it was covering his eyes and he was struggling with this sheet of cloth and in the meantime he suddenly toppled off the flight of stairs and fell hard on the floor and died. It was unfortunate. All the people in the building were at a campfire party somewhere far away. And Leo was with them. I didn't attend because I had to do laundry. Carl-Richard was busy too with his music making and stuff. I was wandering around and I reached the spot where I saw the white sheets. And I was not very aware of what happened. I tried to remove the sheet and that's when I discovered corpse. And I was like - omg, I'm gonna be in trouble. I don't know why I acted so dishonest and sneaky in the moment but I wanted nothing to do with it. So I left it there knowing fully well that he had died. I left the white sheet over him and left the place in a jiffy. Then I reached the laundry section and finished doing the laundry and returned back to my room.. I stayed quiet about the incident. Leo didn't discover. He would go around looking for Carl-Richard but couldn't find him. Nobody knew that his corpse lay there except me. My heart was throbbing with fear. I was the last person to have seen him that day and I was the first person to have discovered his corpse. I thought I was going to be considered a murderer, like I had something to do with it. Next morning everyone returned to the building after a night of partying. Leo was in a good mood and he was talking to others. After some days an investigation team arrived there and they straight up called me. I came to their room and they made me sit for a while and they made me take a lie detector test, I lied through my teeth and they asked if I had anything to do with his death. I said no. I had no idea. They told me that they had found my fingerprints on his sheets. And I said I don't know how that happened and I had nothing to do with it. They told me that they had suspected foul play and I began freaking out after which they let me go. My heart was heavy. I was panicking. I sat in my room. I went to sit in of the isolated rooms on the top floor of the building. There was an old couple there. I was sitting reading a book when someone told me that Leo wanted to see me and talk to me. I felt an urgent sense of fear, I subconsciously surmised this must be about Carl-Richard. The book dropped from my hands and as I was leaving, the couple handed the book to me and I thanked them on my way out of the room. I rushed to where Leo was waiting to talk to me. Once there, Leo looked angrily at me and then asked me if I had seen Carl-Richard. I flat out said no. I decided to play sneaky. Then Leo asked me about the white sheet and why I hadn't collected it. And I said I don't know, it was just a matter of coincidence. Then Leo told me that if I was the person to have discovered his corpse and still not bothered to have informed anyone, that I would be charged with neglect and causing a delay in investigation. I remained mum and insisted I had no knowledge whatsoever of his death. Then Leo asked me if I was being sneaky and I said no. I said I had nothing to do with it. Dream abruptly ends. Forgive me @Carl-Richard

With this dream I felt like I had completed a mini chapter in my life. I don't know and I don't care. There's no need to worry about moral judgment anymore. I hope I don't get anymore dreams.

Whatever....

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