The number one thing women are looking for in a mate is "congruence."
Are you being the man you present yourself to be? Women can pick up the slightest social nuances and are absolute masters at spotting bull shi*t. 
That age old wisdom "be yourself." Nothing can be more true.
Good eye contact, voice projection, vocal tonality.
Leading... lead, lead, lead, and lead.
Girls are addicted to emotions. The reason why most women like the often idolized "bad boy" is because he is King at making her feel all different kinds of emotions. It is like a roller coaster. At one moment he is holding her close hugging her kissing her forehead and the next he's pushing her away (albeit lightly) saying "Oh my god your such a beautiful disaster I can't deal with you anymore." Then withdraws his attention from her. He automatically becomes a beacon of validation for the girl. Girls that are able to self-validate themselves are a RARE BREED. Hell even men able to self-validate are a rare breed (myself included at times.)
Erhm... but we are talking about women.
Don't pay attention to what a women says. Pay attention to what a women responds to.
She might say "Be Nice. Buy Me flowers. Shower me with affection."
She might complain about how her last 3 boyfriends were total a**holes and she doesn't want that.
If she doesn't want that? Then why were her last 3 boyfriends a**holes?
You get the point.
Be respectful but she has to earn that right. To many guys throw themselves at the feet of women. This is the last thing a woman wants. She wants a strong man who will lead her into adventures untold. Into a night of beautiful festivities of lore and candor.
She wants emotional roller coasters, a drive in a fast car, sex on the beach, a climb up a mountain to see the sun rise. Ok maybe that's a bitch much. The point is she wants an adventure, she wants to feel alive, and she wants you to LEAD.
Create a we dynamic with the girl. It shouldn't be a you vs her frame rather an us frame.
Be confident and step with authority. Make zero apologies for your desires as a man. Women want to be desired.
Be cognizant of her feedback. Is she stepping back? Step back. Is she leaning in? Pull her closer.
Is she playfully pushing you back or is she giving real resistance? Just be smart.
Also understand that women LOVE men. With a capital L. They also LOVE sex with a capital L.
Do not ever be dependent on a women's reactions. One girl might find you to be scum while another finds you to be absolutely intoxicating.
Screen women. See if they fit into your bubble. Screen her beyond her appearance.
Understand that seduction and love is just a beautiful dance between the sexes.
Also realize that the person who is more willing to walk away has more power.
Many men has emasculated themselves. They cower from the very thing that makes them so strong and handsome to women. 
Be a Man. Stand tall, be calm, and walk through the world with ease. Love yourself.
Also if you remember anything from all of this remember this: People feel what you feel by the law of state transfer.
If you want a woman to feel happy, horny, and affectionate. Put yourself in that emotional cocktail first.
Take action. Women won't come into your life behind a computer screen.
Talk to 5 girls a day as you go about your day. Go out and socialize.
Also keep in mind that talking to girls is FUN. There is a reason why it is called game and not work.
Boom.