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I didn't watch it. It's just not relevant to me. I am not a woman with a long laundry list of expectations... nor am I looking to marry a woman with a long laundry list of expectations. I was just reading through the thread and saw that you missed Leo's point about confirmations biases. And I was pointing out that this was a VERY common but fallacy-ridden rhetorical strategy.

He was referring to you essentially saying, "See! A woman confirms what I say!" It's a lazy argumentative stance where "Person A" attempts to make an argument that criticizes "x" group... and to do so, they find a video or post from someone in "x" group who holds a perspective that criticizes something about "x" group. And then says, "SEE! Look, I must be right. A person in "x" group is saying it!" It also involves a bit of a logical fallacy that assumes that, just because a person belongs to "x" group, that their opinion must have more weight to it regarding "x" group... even if their viewpoint is marginal within "x" group. It's kind of like how Phyllis Shlafley was a huge opponent of women's rights, despite being a woman. And tons of men would rally behind her because, "SEE! Look, we must be right to deny women's rights. A woman agrees with us!" So, he is right that it is a very cringey and transparent rhetorical strategy.

There is unconditional love... but there is no such thing as unconditional relationship. Being with someone in relationship involves a lot of logistics and boundary setting. So, you'd need to actually test the waters and see what feels right to you AND to do this with a woman who has compatible goals for the relationship. There are plenty of women who are polyamorous or who are not looking for a serious commitment. In fact, I'm sure there are dating sites for people who are specifically not looking for anything too serious or who are looking for an open relationship. But remember, there is no such thing as unconditional relationship. So, it is best to look for a partner whose conditions and relationship expectations don't clash with your conditions and relationship expectations.

That's true. It can always twist around. But my bet is that it will have a net positive effect once things fully unfold. But Antifa could be predicted to have a net negative effect overall. They're just a gift to those who want to discourage progress and to scape-goat and malign left-wing poltical moves. That, and they don't really effect any well-known positive change.

That was when you were on the phone with me! I remember that.

Sure, it's possible for you to be the target of hatred for your gender, sexuality, and skin color. Hatred is a human emotion, so anyone can hate anyone for any reason. And it isn't a good thing, obviously. But I'd imagine that it probably doesn't happen all that often to you on the basis of your demographics, as you happen to belong to groups that are seen by society at large as simply being the default for personhood... and thus these demographic elements are not really noticed as much compared to how much these demographic elements would stand out if you were female, gay, or if you were a person of color. But beyond this, you must realize that context matters... and contextually, straight white men are not systemically oppressed as a result of these demographic factors. And systemic oppression IS what racism/sexism/homophobia is at its core. And it runs a lot deeper than just people hating or being mean. So, yes... people can hate you and be mean to you based on your demographics, and it isn't very nice. But it isn't the same thing as systemic oppression... which you may not even fathom of what that truly entails having by chance hit a BINGO on your demographic factors. Systemic oppression runs much deeper and has far-reaching consequences for someone's life. A handful of blue-haired SJWs on Tumblr saying "I hate white men", simply does not have far-reaching consequences on your life... even if it gets on your nerves or hurts your feelings a bit.

The reason why I view it as a clear advance in societal evolution toward Green in the more zoomed in perspective, is because it has demonstrably increased class consciousness... in a way that sweeps across all of society. And it hasn't lead to any significant number of people jumping on the side of hedge funds. The key difference between the Gamestop situation and most of the others you'd mentioned is that there is a direct correlation to Green evolution with the Gamestop situation instead of of an inverse correlation to Green evolution with many that you mentioned. For example, we could say that MAGA, the Capitol riot, slavery, Capitalism, Hitler, hedge funds, and Wall Street have all played a part in opening society's eyes to Green in an inverse way. It shows the opposite of Green and wakes us up by contrast. So, if our goal is societal evolution and not societal devolution or stagnation, then we can recognize that the fighting against these things will more objectively lead to Green (and thus the stepping stones to an eventual Tier 2 society) than to let them fourish. But in the case of the Gamestop situation, this plays a direct (instead of inverse) role in greasing the wheels towards Green as it has directly lead to more class consciousness. And thus, there is little benefit with regard to societal evolution for those in the peasant class (and yes, I include you in this class even if you have built some wealth for yourself) to rail against it and dismissing it as unilaterally negative... as this does have many more immediate positive potentialities. And it's of especially little benefit for the peasant class to become selectively outraged at day-traders on Reddit while giving hedge funds (that have engaged in this kind of thing for a very long time) the shoulder shrug of acceptance... and to wag fingers and say, "two wrongs don't make a right" while not having treated hedge funds with a consistent amount of finger wagging. This is the basis upon which I see the Gamestop as a situation that doesn't need to be poo poo'd by the peasant class. But instead, to be seen as a small evolutionary victory... as it has done the job of directly opening people's eyes... as opposed to opening people's eyes by contrast. Also, there is the fact that these levers of manipulation won't be available to the average person for long. Wall Street certainly won't just sit idly by and let the peasants rig their own rigged casino against them. So, there probably won't be long-term negative effects in the same way that there has been long-term negative effects from hedge funds rigging things in their favor and manipulating the market for such a long time. Edit: Here's a more concise way to explain it... Fighting against the things you mentioned IS what greases the wheels of societal evolution. Fighting against the Gamestop situation doesn't do anything significant towards societal evolution as fighting it just maintains the status quo. If the average person fights against it, it would mostly just squelch the valuable insights that can be gleaned from it. It would throw the baby out with the bathwater.

Certainly it is as I am speaking from the perspective of the relative paradigm. Anything to do with human evolution is ultimately going to deal mostly with the relative perspective as these are the things that play out within Maya.

Yes. This is true... but also incomplete as your perspective edits your own feelings and perspectives out of the perfection. You still create the dichotomy of internal response vs external happening. Both are a manifestation of the perfection of that which is. Part of that higher perspective is to realize that our human responses to the current events are also a manifestation of perfection. So, if I am in the higher perspective, and I am in the middle of a war zone... I will recognize the perfection even as there is pain and suffering. But likewise, when I feel sorrow in response to that pain and suffering and a desire to change the situation... my feelings and desire to change the situation are also a manifestation of the perfection. And this is because internal and external is a false dichotomy. When one becomes more conscious, it is not that they feel less desire to ease the suffering of others. But the desire to ease suffering comes without grasping and aversion... and that ability to hold space for anything that arises, both internally and externally. But my point that I was making in the last post is that both this day-trading and the MAGA situation are going to be helpful for human evolution in the long-term perspective. But the MAGA thing is worth fighting against because of the more immediate consequences... and also the fighting against it is part of the evolution. And the Gamestop situation, at its current state, is worth being celebrated for what it has revealed... and also the fact that it will most certainly be reigned in fairly quickly, as it is against the financial interests of the owner class. In the more relative sense, the MAGA thing is perhaps a necessary fire to burn in the long run... but threatened to create a lot of immediate damage. So, it's important to extinguish it if we can. But this Gamestop situation is also a necessary fire... but there is very unlikely to be a long-term threat because of the powerful people it might impact.

Obviously I'm not saying that. Please stop straw-manning my argument. I'm saying that this having happened is a net win, not because "Yay! We can all fuck with the market now!" But because, now that average people have discovered en masse that they can fuck with the market, that there will be changes in the way things are handled. And this is because the existing power structures are the way they are to protect the financial interests of the owner class. And now, that the owner class's financial interests are being threatened and the devil is being hoisted on his own petard... Either... a. The levers of market manipulation will be closed to both royal and peasant alike OR b. Wall Street will pay off politicians to green-light legislation that cracks down on peasants but not on elites. And because this is a huge story, the average people will see this and become more aware of the class warfare being waged upon them by elites. And this will likely lead to more class solidarity.

It's an issue with the system. If there are levers to pull to manipulate it, people will try to pull them. Hedge fund managers have been doing so for a long time. Now, day-traders did the same thing. But the significant thing is that the response was totally different. It's business as usual when hedge funds do it... but economic terrorism when day-traders do it. And the average person sees that that is unfair... and that's HUGE. This tells you everything you need to know about the system and how those with money and power rig it in their favor to accrue even more money and consolidate even more power. It also shows you who truly owns the government and mainstream media, when you see the systems in place bending over backwards to protect the interests of Wall Street. So, we have the systems issue that we can work on. And we have the issue of class warfare... which disproportionately effects the average person. But sure. We also have to address the reason why there are people who want to hoard so much more money than they could ever spend in a lifetime... who are willing to mess over so many people to do so. These people are not demons. They are regular people who happen to be motivated by greed, just like any person can be... and greed is motivated by deeper emotional issues and the epistemological issues around self-worth.

I'm not saying that day-traders are going to fix the Capitalist problem. And I'm pretty sure you know that that's not my stance, given our conversation a day or two ago. What I am saying is that there is immense value in this having happened as it lays bare the pre-existing corruption in the market for all to see. And this is HUGE in regard to the development of Green in a more widespread sense. It wakes people up a bit more because it gives the average person a peek behind the curtain of the corruption in the stock market... and the fallacious myth that there is truly a meritocratic "free market". And it also shows the average person that there is strength in numbers when it comes to fighting against said Orange corruption. And perhaps, now that average people have been shown en masse that they can play the same game as hedge funds, that these outlets of market fuckery will be closed to both royal and peasant alike. OR the government will step in and do something really anti-peasant and authoritarian which would also show the average person that the system stacked against them... thus waking the general populace up even more to deeper levels of class consciousness and the awareness of the class warfare already being waged at them constantly. Also, even though this is much more destructive... the MAGA thing is helpful in the big picture too, as it shows people more about how propaganda works and how human beings respond to it. And it also gives our system a stress test. I know I've woken up a lot politically in response to this whole Trump situation... and I know I'm not the only one. It has politicized an otherwise politically unaware facet of society... the sleeping Green. I think it will prove to be integral in the process of human evolution. And now, we will be much more aware and prepared the next time the threat of Fascist take-over rears its ugly head. I know I was blindsided in 2016... as were many others. Now, it won't be such a surprise to those who oppose it. So, I stand by what I said... If you're really operating from a Tier 2 position, then you would recognize how positive this turn of events is towards the development of human society along the spectrum laid out in the Spiral Dynamics model... NOT because "Yay! We get to manipulate the market too!" but because it's been illuminating to the games already being played with the market and how it is stacked in the favor of elites. That's why this situation is a net win for society at large... and I celebrate it as such.

But he was saying that his teachings are for a tiny slice of the population. That's why I was taking him to task for it.

Then you should make your teachings private so you can screen your audience for those who are conscious enough. If your teachings are only for a small slice of the population, why are they out on YouTube for everyone to see? If your teachings are for a tiny slice of the population, why allow 1 million plus subscribers to access them? But if you were truly operating from a space of consciousness with regard to Spiral Dynamics, you would recognize that you can't just skip Green... and that each rung of the ladder is contingent upon the stage before it. And you should see signs of Green as very promising and as a harbinger of human evolution... even if it is an expression of our evolutionary growing pains. In fact, we NEED to develop Green as a foundation for Yellow and Turquoise teachings. You can't skip a Spiral Dynamics stage. Skipping stages just means that we won't have the internal or external infrastructure for the ability to develop the stages thereafter. So, if you're really in favor of a Tier 2 society... then you would see the immense value in moving deeper into Stage Green. And part of that is the development of class consciousness and the ability to recognize that we, as average people, have been on the receiving end of class warfare... and that we can fight back through organizing against the powers that be. And this is the deeper value of this situation. If you were truly operating from a Tier 2 space with regard to this issue, you'd recognize that each stage on the spiral is integral for human evolution and the gradual unfolding of human potential. And if you think that will be a smooth process, then I suggest you take a peek at a history book at how we've gotten to the stage on the Spiral that we're currently at. The level of development that we currently have is the result of many ups and downs of human evolution: the good, the bad, and the ugly. And to think it will happen any differently is frankly naive.

But you can't just skip from Green to Yellow. That's not the way societal evolution works. The system is playing out exactly the way it needs to to evolve. Don't try to rush it. There will be no skipping of Green. So, let the wisdom of Green do its work.

You just have no vision for why this is so impactful, and how this can lead to big positive changes in weeding out the corruption and manipulation inherent in the way that things currently are. And you've said absolutely nothing about the corruption that this has laid bare for all to see. It's things like this Gamestop situation that make average people more conscious of the corruption in the system... which includes these hedge fund managers that contribute nothing of substance to society, but make money by tanking businesses and destroying jobs. Now, because of these "scummy" day-traders, regular people are seeing that the system is rigged and has always been rigged in favor of Wall Street. And we can watch and see how quickly the rules are changed for them. With the Robinhood App halting trading, they're doing the equivalent of flipping the chess board once the elites start to lose. And so many people are seeing this and recognizing that average people have real power when they organize. And that's huge! So, don't go into some classist anti-peasant nonsense where you get selectively outraged at the peasantry doing things that the owner class has been doing the whole time. If you give it a shoulder-shrug when hedge fund managers are doing it, I expect the same response when average people start doing it. Otherwise, it's just selective outrage and a reflection of your personal biases. Recognize this for the force of change that it is, and don't get upset when a group of people that are subject to constant class warfare actually fight back and actually play the game that's been rigged against them and win. Can't you see that this has thrown a bit of a monkey-wrench in the corruption machine?

Being racist is what happens when someone projects their own Shadow onto a whole group of people that they consider "other." It is what happens people are unconscious... they project onto large groups of people as a result of that unconsciousness. But it isn't an inherent aspect of human nature. So, don't go excusing unconscious behavior because you think it's just the way that human beings are... because you're conveniently leaving out the fact that human beings are capable of being more conscious and forming deep bonds with people of any race or nationality. Basically, don't excuse your own unconsciousness and pass it off as "nature."

Oh just stop it with your gaslighting of @Preety_India. You know that calling someone "brown mouth" is degrading. It's racist. Period. Stop antagonizing.

I don't think so. I think they recognize the possibility of average people banding together and using the mega-wealthy's own medicine against them. And cracking down on Reddit simply won't address this issue at a deep enough level to secure the interests of the owner class. It's like cutting off one of the heads of a Hydra. Crack down on Reddit and a thousand other anonymous communities like it will pop up JUST for the purpose of playing this game. And now that this is a well-known phenomena TONS of people will be interested in doing it. So, there will absolutely need to be legislation passed if the goal is to protect the money and power of the owner class... which it is. This will happen fast.

What I'm saying is that this will lead to SOME kind of legislation. They're not going to leave this lever of manipulation open to the public, now that this has happened. So, I do expect big legislative changes... and fast. The question is big good changes... or big bad changes.

Yes. Now hopefully there will ACTUALLY be regulation on market exploitation where the mega-wealthy manipulate the market to benefit themselves... which is the status quo. But it just goes to show you that the wealthy and powerful on Wall Street can exploit the market all they want and put businesses under and destroy jobs to make money, free of consequence. But then, when regular people organize themselves and play the SAME EXACT game but in a way that obstructs the financial interests of the owner class, suddenly all bets are off and we have to shut it down right away. They even shut down the market for this. And then bail all these market manipulating hedge funds out. It's these times where we will really see the true colors and class inconsistencies of those in the government. I just hope that people don't buy the propaganda that what the Redditors did was some kind of unique evil. I hope realize that the Redditors are just playing by the rules in the same exact game that Wall Street has been playing. The main difference is that this actually saved a company and saved jobs. Maybe now, this lever of unfair market manipulation will have to be closed.... or (more likely) perhaps they'll just change the market rules to where you have to have at least $5k to begin investing or some other thing to siphon out middle income investors. Or perhaps they'll put more gateways to investing in stock that can only be bypassed if you have a certain amount of money. I don't know what they'll do. But you know that they'll do something... probably something shady.

This is the bro-bias that @aurum was talking about. Men who fight do ruin parties that way too by making others feel unsafe. As a woman, I can tell you from firsthand experience that it's genuinely scary to be in a place where men are fighting. But it doesn't perhaps bother you because of the way that they're ruining the party... as you as a guy can relate to it better. This is where the bias comes in. But women complaining and being wet blankets gets under your skin because of the meaning you make of their brand of negativity. So, even if they are objectively causing less chaos than guys who get into fights at parties, it feels more chaotic to you because it is a feminine form of negativity.

I'm not saying that there would be no differences in the way the invasion of Iraq would have happened. Bush was certainly a war hawk. But I'm 99.9% sure there would have been one. I don't see why you think Gore or Clinton would be all that much different. Democrats certainly do their fair share of regime change warfare and still supply arms to dictators and apartheid states. How do you honestly think Gore would have responded in the aftermath of 9/11? Also, "firing some missiles is the norm" specifically in this country's corrupt imperialist foreign policy. It shouldn't be accepted as the norm. Offensive warfare shouldn't be accepted as normal.

Both Clinton and Obama continued the offensive warfare in their terms as president. So, I don't see why you think Gore would have been much different. In fact, Clinton had already done a missile strikes on Iraq. So, I'm sure Gore would have invaded Iraq. He probably would have handled it slightly differently... especially in the way he spoke about it to the American people though. Now, he probably wouldn't have done the Guantanamo waterboarding things, as that seemed unique to Bush's sensibilities. But I'm sure an Iraq invasion would have happened regardless of political leadership as there was financial interest in doing so... lots of oil there. Plus, the owners of the military industrial complex benefit from forever wars because middle class Americans will feel more okay with giving so much of their tax money to the bloated military budget if you can convince them that it's for "defense". So, 9/11 was essentially exploited to drum up fear in the American people so that they support more war... and to justify invading Iraq because the average American didn't understand then that a group of terrorist hijackers from Saudi Arabia have nothing to do with Iraq. And of course, that wasn't the end to how 9/11 was used to justify offensive warfare in the Middle East. And of course, because 9/11 was such a godsend to those that have financial interests in warfare, they probably would have made sure their bases were covered by "donating to" whoever happened to be president. So, I'm sure that they wouldn't have turned down what was a golden opportunity from their point of view.

Well said!