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1 hour ago, Miguel1 said:Truly, the high of getting validation from having girls being deeply into you is quite addictive.
It's weird. I actually don't like this. I try to avoid this.
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16 minutes ago, LambdaDelta said:For me, this whole experience eternally cemented the principle that all suffering whatsoever stems from an improper use of the mind. Bold claim, but give it some thought.
But everybody has done this from time to time. And often suffering is good when it leads to change that is good. I'm not sure suffering stems from an improper use of the mind.
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1 hour ago, Cred said:The problem is, that people don't understand why they are deserving of a supportive environment and what this constitutes.
If one lives in a capitalist society, they are brainwashed into believing they are not deserving of shit if they don't fit the norm
You have to create your own corner of reality where you are deserving, but you also need to relate with others too. Ideally, this is a win-win relation. This requires maturity and owning up to mistakes, no matter who is at fault. And forgiveness.
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11 minutes ago, LordFall said:Then your life purpose is weak IMO. You need money to achieve scale and efficiency.
You're not too interested in helping solve the problems of the world?
Thanks for this. I will consider this advice carefully. Nothing wrong with money, don't get me wrong. I don't want to be underserving my life purpose or devaluing money. Money comes as a byproduct of success -- which should be the natural result to an effective career-based life purpose.
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Wow you guys really like the physical hookups.
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23 hours ago, Ramanujan said:practical things like, how to get a job , how to do well financially , how to get what you want etc etc
This is what interests me the most right now actually. I've become more interested in self-help recently.
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One of my favorite post rock albums from an Australian band.
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I seriously only think about money when I feel like I don't have enough. Otherwise money never crosses my mind. I have no desire to live extravagantly. In fact, I probably could pare down my life and reduce my expenses even more than I do.
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Just now, OBEler said:Maybe his new wife commanded him to delete his work. Who knows.
He finally found love lol.
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I don't see why anyone would need to do this more than once honestly. I smoked it didn't plug it to be clear and honest. I don't do plugging. I feel no need to do 5-MEO again. The Message was conveyed clearly the only time I did it. You need a Breakthru dose. I'm not an expert in psychedelics either. I don't even do psychedelics anymore.
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I use ChatGPT all the time to run things by. Sometimes it has a very stage yellow perspective that I really appreciate. I tell it to not BS me and give it to me straight to try to correct for bias. Most of the time I am impressed that it noticed some things I missed without the collaboration. It's a fine tool.
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6 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:Living truthfully for me is about integrity of action. Ruthless, honest action where I am congruent. My words align with execution. Follow-through. Ruthless follow-through. This was a hard earned lesson for me that did not come naturally. But it is necessary for my survival and basic wellbeing needs. To reduce mind chatter and anxiety. To bring abundance. Grounded. Human
This is what I'm trying to get back in touch with regarding how I create. Very well said.
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39 minutes ago, Recursoinominado said:You will never convince a blind man that colors exist.
He needs a mystical experience, not a logical argument.
Sort of true. But you can also cause someone to consider something new, to the extent that it is tolerated within a system.
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13 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:I didn't mean that he himself is conformist. I mean his teachings are taught as conformity. He teaches you to follow his yogic methods strictly, without thought, question, improvisation, or customization. You must do it his way and he never even explains why. This is his style and it breeds insane conformity among his students.
Is Sadhguru told his students to lick their own assholes to reach God, they would do it without question.
This is known as a closed system no? It's designed to be closed, by ignorance or motive to control mostly.
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10 minutes ago, UnbornTao said:We could say that this system is itself a belief structure: a set of thoughts strung together that is assumed or taken to be true once adopted.
Hmm, maybe. Perhaps it'd be more accurate to say that they are different from, or independent of, the truth itself - whatever that turns out to be.
Ok, so we can deconstruct, but when are we allowed to re-construct?
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1 minute ago, UnbornTao said:A thought that is held as true. Or a thought about the truth of something.
"Thought" that can appear as "the way things are". But it's a thought, ergo an activity of the mind. And so distinct in nature from whatever's the case for itself.
Which is kinda of the Neo-Advaita focus on the idea that -- thought is false or misleading.
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1 minute ago, UnbornTao said:You can keep believing, if you want.
What is a belief?
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5 hours ago, Cred said:If you have a good coach/teacher/conversation partner, you will learn just as well or even more than alone.
Yes. Beauty is a Dance.
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10 minutes ago, UnbornTao said:You probably already make it to some degree.
Inquiry is an open investigation aimed at uncovering whatever is true, independent of one's preferences, desires, biases, and so on. Fantasizing, by contrast, can be understood as coming up with imaginary scenarios in one's mind - usually based on wants, biases, and subjectivity - often aimed at outcomes like feeling better, more powerful, or reassured. Whatever serves one's agenda.
A scientific experiment versus belief in God might serve as a succinct way of contrasting these two activities. Not the best examples, but hopefully the point comes across.
This sounds like the Promise of Science almost.

in Personal Development -- [Main]
Posted · Edited by Joseph Maynor
I can see this. Correct. But we also do things to others too. It's not one-sided -- E.g. I'm the victim, not entirely! It's the Nature of Relation, in sickness and in health. This is the entryway to Love.