Joseph Maynor

Know exactly what quantum of work you need to be doing everyday to execute your small picture and big picture life purpose. Realize that thinking and planning for the most part do not get any actual work done towards those ends. This is a seeing. The mind likes thinking, so you gotta see that thinking is useless because the mind will make thinking feel like it’s the most important thing in the world to do in the moment when you’re engaged in thought.

You’re the single unchanging Awareness in reality. That’s the true Self.

You might go through Green quickly and hit Yellow. I went through Turquoise pretty quickly and hit Coral. It all depends on where your maturity sits. You may burn through Green within 4 or 5 months. Not saying you will though, that depends on where your maturity sits. You gotta be set up to receive Yellow to enter Yellow fast. Otherwise you’ll catch just the very beginning of Yellow.

It’s more than idea. It’s a clinging to a connection between Thought and Experience that’s a me or a mine. Ego is both your Ego and not your Ego. Just like Body is both your Body and not your Body. Ego like Body is gonna be a part of reality. But neither Ego nor Body are connected to the true Self. In that sense Ego and Body exist but the connection to me or mine is an illusion. But see these are not just ideas. It’s when God Awareness clings to Thoughts and Experience that identification with Ego occurs and causes suffering due to ignorance.

Do other beings exist? Does the true Self exist?

Exactly, yes. But then you need to see how you’re causing and contributing to your own suffering by current ignorance and by not bothering to learn from prior ignorance (i.e., making the same mistakes more than once). All suffering is caused by ignorance.

Better than early retirement is to have adequate income result from the work that you would do if you were retired.

Zone of Genius is the one skill that you're naturally good at. My Zone of Genius is deep diving issues and projects.

The proper attitude is compassion for their suffering and the suffering they cause others. But it takes a lot of Enlightenment to realize how this can be possible. Ego wants to make Experience personal, and that's a hard thing to see through. Nothing in Experience is a threat to you. This is something that takes a lot of Enlightenment to see too. But that doesn't mean that you stay passive -- be assertive but be incredibly polite about it too. See, you gotta mix assertiveness with politeness or respect, otherwise you'll get labeled as an asshole. And realize that you're no better than they are in the sense that you too, perhaps in different ways, cause yourself suffering and others suffering too! That keeps you humble. We all cause suffering to ourselves and to others due to our own ignorance. So, compassion and truth-telling needs to extend to ourselves and to others. You need to call yourself on your own shit before you call others on their shit.

I notice that it’s mostly the Blue, Green, and Turquoise people (though Turquoise less so than Blue and Green) that are genuinely triggered by politics. How can you claim to transcend morality, yet be up to your eyeballs in political interest? This is an example of where talk gets mooted by contrary walk. Talk is easy. It’s walking the talk that’s impressive. Video on Point to Watch:

Adyashanti is one of my favorite Enlightenment teachers and he's a natural comedian as well. He's very well-suited to do what he does. When I watch him sometimes I see him as a comedian whose audience just so happens to be a bunch of Enlightenment students. Apparently he was also an athlete when he was younger, he said so in one of his videos.

Develop an enterprising mind and enterprising values. Detach from cultural customs and traditions as having a moral ought behind them. Go after what you want to do in life without worrying what other people think about you.

I have absolutely zero interest in politics. I just want people to know that. I’m not saying you should be like me. I just feel the need to share that because it took me a lot of years to fully realize the utter stupidity and waste of time that politics is.

I totally get it. Coding is fulfilling but also dehumanizing on some level too. I do coding as a hobby because it’s important for me as a future personal development teacher to know how to code so I can do my own web development. But what I’ve found is tech problems frustrate me on a level almost like nothing else can. In almost everything else in life the human mind can bullshit it’s way out of a tough spot. But when something doesn’t work in tech and you’ve been beating your head against the wall trying to solve the problem to no avail — it can be the most infuriating thing that you can ever experience. And this is one reason I’m glad I didn’t become a programmer which I almost did before I switched majors from Computer Science and Engineering to Philosophy. I get really incensed dealing with tech problems and it’s no good for me. But at the same time I need to know how to build my own tech infrastructure that I need for my life purpose goals, so I’m a fan of coding and I promote people learning to code. I think I’ve leveled more swear words and threats at my computer than I have at anything else in life haha. Yo, and what annoys me to no avail is when I go and look to try to find a solution on the Internet or YouTube and I get these communications from tech people who seem to lack basic oral and written communication skills. Engineers are notoriously bad communicators just like lawyers are notoriously bad managers.

Karma is non-attachment to Ego, which is true morality because it is an ought that is reasonable to accept. It’s the only true moral ought because it’s a refusal to get tricked by illusion. One ought not attach to Ego. And I’m not talking about the Egoic self not attaching to Ego, I’m talking about the true Self not attaching to Ego. That’s what Karma is, it’s true morality.

What you think is surrendering Ego is not without Ego paradoxically. Ego, like the Body, is always part of Experience. Ego and body are part of my Experience, but that doesn't mean that as God Awareness I'm attached to them as mine or as me. What I am has nothing to do with Ego or body. This is really hard to communicate in language. Do I have a massive Ego? Yes. Am I attached to my massive Ego? No. Ego is just something that is part of Experience for me. And here's the thing, you have a massive Ego too. Even people who think they don't have a massive Ego have a massive Ego. You can't escape Ego with more Ego. Don't try to escape Ego in the first place. This is like trying to escape the body. Allow Ego and the body to be part of Experience, just don't attach to them as mine or me.

Not at first. Enlightenment is a Path. But as you become more Enlightened, you'll fully realize the stupidity of persona. Persona is something that you allow. Stop allowing it. When you can be honest damn the consequences, you have a fighting chance for a happy and fulfilling life. Otherwise you'll live but you're gonna live a life of suffering and you're gonna cause a lot of suffering to others too.

Each person has their own issues. It's hard to take one person and truly compare him with another. I'm very touch and go with advice that I take from other people. I'm grateful for the advice, but at the end of the day, I realize the limitations of hearsay input too. To compare me to another person is like comparing broccoli with carrots. They're both vegetables true, but they have significant differences as well.

You need to know exactly what you authentically actually want in life. Otherwise the mind will throw sand in your eyes and f*ck up your goals. When you know exactly what you want and don't want in your life to the extent that you can actually enumerate them in writing -- that's step one. Step two is to stay committed to those authentic goals because you fully understand the suffering you're gonna cause yourself and others if you don't pursue them. Can you write down your Actual Problem Situations that form the basis of your small picture Life Purpose Work? Can you write down your Life Purpose Statement, your Top 10 Values, your Top 5 Strengths, your Impact Statement, your Zone of Genius, and your Ideal Medium that form the basis of your Big Picture Life Purpose Work? How do you think you stand a chance of getting results if you don't even know what results you're shooting for and why? The mind will kill any goals that are not fully bought into. You need to have a certain kind of indestructable persistence that the mind can't touch with your Life Purpose goals. Sure, maybe the mind f*cks me today, but tomorrow is a new day and my commitment to my goals hasn't changed. That's why you need to know what your authentic goals are and why you're committed to them over the long-term of your life.

Yep. That's why there's a Path to Enlightenment. It's a process. Just keep on walking the Path and doing the work. You gotta do the work. Enlightenment requires a lot of work.

I never understood what “emotional mastery” actually means. It sounds good, but try to find its precise meaning. Enlightenment leads to a certain kind of improvement in how you react to emotions, but is this really mastery? Mastery implies a certain kind of control, like the Egoic self is no longer at the mercy of emotions which is just not true. The Egoic self is always at the mercy of emotions, even post-Enlightenment. It’s the true Self that realizes all Ego (not just the Egoic self) is an illusion and remains unattached to all of it. The true Self watches the Egoic self struggle with emotional mastery like you as an observer at a zoo might watch too monkeys throwing bananas at each other. It’s fascinating, but doesn’t really have anything to do with you.

I don't know. That's one technique that's kinda fallen out of favor for me. I never use it and I've never gotten any sustainable gains from trying to use it. Don't try to bullshit your own mind.

It's funny that the most successful male Enlightenment teachers are kind of the ones that ape femininity the most. Women have an intuition that is simply amazing. I've seen women cut to the heart of the issue on things that most men are utterly lost on. One of the strengths I have is that even though I'm very masculine, I have the keen intuition of a woman too. Women can't bullshit me and when they try, I can visibly tell they are taken aback that I can see right through their shit. But women have the same thing where I can tell they can see through all my shit too. But that's what women have that a lot of men are clueless about -- keen intuition. And I think women like men that have shitty intuition because honestly two people in a relationship that both have keen intuition can cause a lot of squabbles. I notice that women like boneheaded men probably because of the advantage of not being seen through by the man. I'm the last person a woman wants to be with because I will spot all her shit and call her on it too. I'll never forget the time when I was ranting about something and the woman I was taking to looked at me and calmly asked -- "Who hurt you?" I'll never forget that. She saw right away what the issue was. It was like she peered into my soul and easily plucked out the underlying issue. And of course as men, we don't like that kind of question because we want to be focused externally. But I noticed right away that she was right and I complimented her for it. And we then changed the conversation to talk about that. One thing I also notice about having keen intuition is I can read people almost immediately in the sense of their character, level of intelligence, and level of evolution. I can almost feel the energy that someone gives off to discern this, nevermind looking at them and hearing them speak. And again I think this is why a lot of people don't like to be around me because I can see through people and people generally don't want to be seen through. Just like my female friend who interjected "Who hurt you?", when someone talks to me, I often respond with a similar question that just cuts through all their shit. Intuition is a kind of intelligence. And it's rare for masculine men to have high intuition I've found. Similarly, I also have an equal balance between left brain and right brain which has always made me unique among men too. On the one hand, I am very logical and mechanical, but then in equal measure very creative and artistic too. And this stuff is not necessarily good because it makes me odd and different from most other people. In conversations men don't jive with me and neither do women because I'm too different than what they are accustomed to expect.

The only way is to tell them you don't want to do it anymore. Tell them that it's no knock on them and that you're not judging them, but that you will not do it anymore. Dancing around this kind of issue will only cause you and them suffering. You gotta be blunt but also make sure they aren't taking it to be some kind of moral condemnation of them. Just say it's not something you'll be doing anymore and that you'll be happy to do other things instead. If they give you shit for it, suck it up and just expect that you're gonna take some shit for it. This is the same kind of shit that you get when you tell your family you're vegetarian and you show up to Thanksgiving and everybody is giving you shit about it.

I'm sorry you feel bad. But realize that you clinging to feeling bad is perpetuating this for you -- it's like falling down a rabbit hole of a self-fulfilling prophesy. You gotta let those emotions be there but not take them personally or let them drag you down into a vortex of thoughts that all say nasty things to you. Do something nice for yourself so you have have a positive day and let all this disappointment die today. You're going to have to figure out how to allow negative emotions in your life without clinging so hard to them. I have this problem myself too, so don't think I'm telling you something I don't struggle with myself. Yesterday I was ruminating about something and I just caught myself and told myself to f*cking cut it out. And it's like, once you get in that negative emotion/ negative thought spiral, it just grows like a snowball until you notice it and end it. And you don't end it by trying not to have negative thoughts and emotions, you end it by realizing that those negative thoughts and emotions are not yours and that you don't have to take them personally or make them mean anything about you. But you gotta allow those negative thoughts and negative emotions to exist in your Experience. Trying to manipulate reality to get rid of negative thoughts and emotions is pointless and will cause you a lot of suffering and horrible mindfuck scenarios to occur for you. The mindfuck scenarios occur because you're taking thought and emotions personally and you're gonna feel the hit when you get struck by them. But like I said, I totally feel you because I've dealt with this same issue my whole life. Give yourself a reward -- go do something nice for yourself today. And resolve to not let thoughts and emotions drag you down. You've made a lot of progress. I bought a new computer yesterday that really put a smile on my face even though I had a horrible day yesterday. But I went to bed happy and woke up happy! And today all the shit that I was going through yesterday seemed like a distant memory -- although yesterday I was ruminating about everything and really suffering and perpetuating my own suffering. But see, I was wise enough to realize I need to do something to end that spiral down into rumination-ville. I knew how to cut myself off from dwelling on it. But then again, at 40 years old, I've been dealing with this problem acutely for years, and I've gotten a lot better at noticing it when it arises and then cutting it off and making sure I'm not perpetuating it. Actually pat yourself on the back, I want you to feel that. I think it's important to do that sometimes. And when you pat yourself on the back, I want you to say to yourself that you're proud of yourself. You're proud of the fact that you've noticed this problem and that now you're gonna take steps to nip it in the bud. You're proud of yourself for cutting this off while the problem is small rather than letting it grow into a big problem. You're proud of yourself by seeking feedback on here rather than being too chickenshit to even ask. You're proud of yourself for being honest with your suffering and expressing that to people that can help you. That shows a lot of personal development progress in and of itself. You noticed a problem and took action to solve it.