Joseph Maynor

Why does the body exist for you but the mind does not?

It's rare that someone even values Love in this work, let alone understand it.

I'm familiar with this neo-advaita account of Love. I don't agree with it, but It goes something like this: The Absolute is Love (which is Feeling). It is ego that takes us away from Love by introducing thoughts of a separate self, thoughts of "I" and "you" -- and the most important thing to realize is nothing is happening but This -- and this is not happening either. Nothing is right or wrong, good or bad. Those are just erroneous thoughts too. The point is to dismantle and deconstruct the thoughts and set them down, and a lot of time is spent doing this to others' writing or thoughts.

What kind of food do you like? I cook myself.

The no arguing and debating thing is groupthink. This is so selectively applied.

But who is this need arising for? You, right? Why is need seen as divorced from an "I"? What purpose does this reframe serve when need arises anyway?

Until there is, right?

What I mean is you have it. There is no 'I'. You're free.

If this were true, what would be the need to say it?

Regarding the spirituality angle: When it's a badge of honor to be seen as nonreactive, it's definitely easier to suck things up and take the higher road. However, once someone slips into a moral reframing, e.g., this person is no good for us or for for such and such, the nonreactivity turns to reactivity. This can show up as reactively schooling someone to be nonreactive.

I still feel like the issue of reactivity vs. nonreactivity is unclear to me, although it is clearer today than it was even a few years ago, and I am much less reactive than I used to be. It's definitely not as simple as be nonreactive. I find that often people who are obsessed with nonreactivity are reactive but they want to be seen as nonreactive as a kind of spiritual attainment. You can see this when they get triggered, and then the reaction is sometimes weirdly huge, even if it's done indirectly or passive aggressively. Everyone reacts. All I can say is I have improved in this area but it took a long time.

Regarding the reactivity blog post. I feel like nonreactivity is a great ideal, but we all react. Pay attention and honor your reactivity. But yes, reactivity allows others to get under your skin and a have a certain power over you. This is a nuanced topic that I've never seen anyone really deal with adequately.

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Why is the mind seen as a cause of not being free?

I'm sensing you don't like mind. You see it as a problem to be overcome.

This is similar to Spinoza's Epistemology: (different ordering though) 1. Intuition -- Consciousness of God/Nature in the Light of Eternity (Corrects both Reason and Sense Experience) 2. Reason -- Corrects Sense Experience 3. Sense Experience -- This is where the human ordinarily knows thru Thought and Extension, including emotions

If there were no finite, how could the Creator create in space and time?

Are we the same? How can we know this?

I find it amusing that saying I'm the Creator gets a side-eye even from spiritual people. I get it, it's a radical insight.

Maybe the answer is it both does and doesn't matter paradoxically.

And then the follow up question is are You the Creator?