Joseph Maynor

You're right. I've been improvising in every key both both major and minor over a variety of different tunes to get the chords and scales under my fingers so I don't hit any wrong notes. I love Pat Metheny too!

How did you feel about The Odyssey? I saw it in the theater.

It shows how a loving environment can cure a lot of hostility even beyond what we think instinct would suggest.

Unlike the "lower animals" we fight over words.

Fight can also be seen as play.

To make something not fun, fun can require a lot of effort.

But until you are 50 how would you know?

It is not frame control, it is frame interaction. It is an interplay.

Is this a frame control thing?

Okay how old are you?

I hate the frame control concept in dating. It is awful.

Someone is going to tell you whether spirituality is suited to you? You need so see this.

Not really because this factors into direct experience. A 20 year old does not know what it is like to be 30, etc.

I'm not a dating coach and I don't pretend to be, but energy is super important. It is not what you say, it is how you relate and the energy that you convey, It does have to do with pacing and slowing down. Confidence and calmness, with a willingness to relate and listen. It is maturity.