Joseph Maynor

No it is really very immediate, I'm being honest. You can disagree which you are doing, which is your take, which I respect as your take.

I can sense it right away usually.

I don't think anyone is attacking Leo that directly, do you think? I think people are just discussing what they feel is important. It could be topics that go beyond Leo.

Is this a reality or a plan or both and not even?

This one is more for success in relationships: "The Assertiveness Workbook" by Randy J. Patterson

According to the unknown tao. Of course.

No.

I'm sensing you haven't been able to express your anger in a normal way or so you state.

I will attend a meet and greet in person.

I feel like Leo should do a meet and greet so we can meet each other in person. I don't even know what most of you look like. Here is an example of a meet and greet session:

This is what it feels like to play Jazz. The moving from one room to another can be thought of cycles. It is one cycle after another. The cycles are chord progressions usually spanning 4 or 8 bars. You have to stand your ground and control every variable of the music even if you are not the drummer. You need to have a sense of rhythm and time even if you are not the drummer. The entire band can self-correct each other. This is hard to do when you are new though because you are deferential to the other musicians and just trying to fit in.

Get a resume together, it will make you feel good just to get that done. Apply for many jobs and just get something. Each person you work with is a potential reference for more work. The way I work is by reference sales or relationship-based sales, which means each person I connect with is a potential source for referrals to me. I have a couple businesses and this is how I operate. I think it is good to just start somewhere rather than wait.

Self-help is not the same as spirituality IMO. Self-help is about making practical improvements to your life. It is a different area of work than spirituality, although there is overlap. Spiritual people often don't like self-help because they deny that a self exists to help. They think it is entirely ego-driven.

I agree. But people can be taught how to do survival better which is the goal of self-help.