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What are your thoughts on this? Peterson basically says that female nature is to always date up, and that in a polyarmourous society all women will only go for a couple of top guys which destabilizes society - its what we see happening with incels right now where more and more sexless men resort to violence. Thats a really hard pill to swallow for the average guy because it seems that most of them which are now in their 20s or younger will go sexless and its only becoming worse. I share a lot of these same beliefs even before peterson said it and I think its holding me back. Could someone try to bust them? It seems like everything peterson says is backed by studies, I just cant view women in a healthy way anymore.

The idea for the soup is incredible, you just need to shop and prepare once and you can eat it all week, you get all the vegetables, you are filled thanks to the olive oil and it tastes pretty good. Does anybody have simmilar good ideas or recipes on how to prepare healthy food in advance? It can even be cold, no problem it just needs to last for 4-5 days, taste good enough to be eaten every day and be nutritius. Here is what I tried already: Preparing Rice + Roasted Vegetables/Meat: Doesnt taste great, has to be reheated, gets kinda gross after day 3 Rice balls with cooked Salmon: REALLY gross and slimy by day 3 just DONT Salad with raw vegetables : Alright, but not every vegetable works as a salad (broccoli for example), you need to eat a lot of it to be full and it gets boring fast too. Eating Vegetables + Boiled Eggs cold and raw: Actually the best method so far after the soup, which is sad.

To clear up the discussion from all these subjective opinions here are some handy infographics from a scientific perspective.

I thought they are friends but they are also attractive to me. They messaged me a lot some time so I thought why not try more they might feel the same. They didnt though.

@Samra yes I do and I hit on quite a few of them as we got closer but got rejected every time, we are still friends though im not that immature.

@kingroboto I'm 29. Ive not given up yet but it looks dark. I'll try my luck with women for some more time but then I will go into permanent virgin monk-mode. So far my life experiences match with the worldviews I and JP laid out here.

@SFRL Of course its true, I encourage anyone here with average or below female friends who have tinder to ask them to take look into their tinder account. You are in for a rude awakening if you truly think the top 20% women and top 20% of guys compete for each other. Thats not how it works. Average guys get fucked over.

@now is forever you are delusional if you think this trailer is relevant to the problem we are talking about here. This movie is about people who fuck and date around like rabbits and struggling to get commitment/a perfect partner. Thats not the problem that the men Joe Rogan and JP talk about face. These are men who arent even in the sexual marketplace because their value is zero, and the number of these men is growing is every year. These men are basically seen as asexual beings by the oppoosite sex.

You are either in the top 20% or live in a non-western society with enforced monogamy.

@d0ornokey Its bullshit either way. I tried being sexual and "alpha" with women or making misogonystic comments (i tried it all), if you dont look masculine they dont take it seriously and laugh in your face, they would never actually get turned on, to them its a big joke if a guy they see as asexual does this.

Just take a photo from the most average, or below average girl you know on your facebook, make a tinder account with it and get your mind blown. You can confirm this for yourself in 30 minutes. Also, check this out: https://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=168948903&pagenumber=1 Your worldview is highly inaccurate and consists of delusional wishful thinking.

@Leo Gura how can you say dating is though for women when they can line up a date for every day of the week easily with their smartphone and just pick and choose the top men who "apply"? So whats the issue here, that she cant get that 1% rich 6'5 six pack guy? As an average man on the other hand you struggle to get a single date with a women thats well below you in looks and the bar for what is an "acceptable man" gets raised higher and higher every year. I dont see how that is easier. By the time you were into pickup Tinder wasnt a thing yet, dating is a completely different beast today. By the way, i dont expect a top noth women or a supermodel, Im very very liberal with my standards, an average girl working at the supermarket counter would be awesome for me and im myself highly educated with a good job, fit, no debt, and have my life together all around.

@molosku working on it, ive not thrown in the towel yet just because of this

I agreee on paper, but if women only go for the top 20% of men there will always be an 80% of sexless men no matter how much anyone improves. There can always be only some men at the top. There could also be some genetical factors that mean that you cant reach the top 20% realistically. How should you take responsibility for your sexlessness if the reason is that you are 5'3 and that just doesnt do it for most women - by doing dangerous and expensive limb lengthening surgery? Peterson actually doesnt say we should ban any of this, he just says we should enforce monogamy which would guarantee 1 female for every 1 male, instead of all females for a couple of genetically gifted man. The women wouldnt probably be super happy about this about this but its the only way to keep these bottom 80% guys from going nuts and to ensure that children can grow up in a normal family situation. @Leo Gura The hypergamy thing is also argued in a 5 star rated book in the relationships section on your list.

Really interresting, anybody tried this or think this could work? This is exactly the opposite of what Leo says in his videos about nutrition.

I tried it like this. i put in carrots, peppers, tomatoes, olive oil, salt, pepper, garlic and vegetable boillon. Tasted good but it gave me diarrhea twice, anybody know why?

Since a couple days I try to put on a positive confidence affirmation for 1 hour while drifting into sleep. Anybody tried this? Do you think it could work? Also, recommend affirmation videos you guys used.

I was dissapointed because PUA didnt work for me, searched youtube for anti pickup stuff and found Leos Rant against Pickup and what he said really really resonated with me.

@Outer @Joseph Maynor So true, I have so much respect for how actualized.org is run. You can really tell most of the Strage Orange bullshit is missing here. Video topics are not selected by what generates the most views, videos are not jumpcutted to death to cater to the short attention span of mainstream audiences. The products are not shoved in your face all the time. Everything is really authentic and all the fake bullshit from most self help channels is missing completely. @Leo Gura I and I think a lot of other people appreciate greatly how things are done around here.

@Etagnwo I get what you are saying and I would normally sign that, I was a "realist" for the last 10 years and all it made me was depressed. At least I thought I was a realist but I was really a negative person. In truth externals are neither good nor bad, so I might as well think positive about them, even if its a bit of delusion at least im not miserable. thinking negatively about everything is also a delusion .

To increase confidence and self-love. I know it would probably be better to say them to myself, but I feel so stupid talking to myself I cant get over it. Thats why I just listen to them at sleep.

Lets say you have a guy who is totally depressed, no relationship experience, social anxiety, bad habits. Imagine the lowest of the lowest psychologically speaking. Now you want to get that guy to self actualization. Which techniques or topics that Leo talks about should he work on first and in which order would he go forward? How do these topics and techniques build on top of each other? Bonus Question: Which tips would you give to a depressed virgin 30 year old man?

I dont know if anyone already said it but Paris Hilton public image at her height was a pure celebration of Orange lifestyle.