I'm not sure if this has been covered before and if so please send me a link. though i didn't see one in the search.
I just recently got a divorce and I am back in the dating game. However I have a serous issue with Performance anxiety. I have always had it, even with my ex we had to go through a period where things didn't work out for A while until i got comfortable enough' than it finally went away. I have been with 4 girls sense the divorce and every one of them i have had the issue of performance anxiety. Currently I have a girlfriend of 1 month. we are trying to work through it but it seams to be so hard to kick. Unless i take performance enhancement drugs i can't even get it up and when I do, its hard for me to finish. This is an embarrassing topic and it really sucks, because all i want to do is enjoy sex but i cant get out of my head.
So here is my question, how many of you have experienced this? What helps? and do you have any input on my issue.
