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Hello guys, No spoiler about the movie.. I have recently come across a movie named a ghost story that was unlike anything I have ever seen. The idea of death and what happens after we die is a key theme all over the movie. Besides the notion of eternal recurrence is also visible in the movie, an idea that I am a big fan of. Please watch the movie as it is the greatest film for people into enlightenment, and let's discuss the main idea, and specially the last scene,which is the most mysterious scene ever in a movie (something like inception). NOTE: IT IS NOT A HORROR MOVIE AT ALL.

The subtle art of not giving a fuck by mark manson A MUST.

Have you guys been following his interviews and stuff, I mean he is actually one of the very few celebrities who is into self actualization. What do you guys think about him and his his views of nothingness? I am just curious to know your opinions Here is a very short speech that actually got more meaning than what it just seems to be. PEACE

@Azerty You know he's kinda different with other relative enlightened people, that sense of humor with the mixture of deep words and ideas is just so fascinating to me.

@Source_Mystic glad you realized how you misinterpreted some comments. And hey I make shitty mistakes once in a while too, no problem with that. I absolutely agree with the notion of enlightenment being an ongoing process. As you go forward you find yourself with more challenges and faults that you have been unaware of for a long time. And that's where the word Awakening comes to show.

@Source_Mystic @Source_Mystic @Source_MysticDude, the way you talk and the words you choose to elevate yourself and downgrade others is a pretty good indicator that you're being delusional about the whole thing. Keep up the good work though.

@egoless @Nahm I love him because of one of his quotes that I actually liked. And made me thinking... "I think everybody should get rich and famous and do everything they ever dreamed of so they can see that it's not the answer." I used to think life was just like a linear kinda path in which you live miserably, you dream good, you try hard, and boom, you become happy. Maybe the answer of life is not seeking an answer after all and just enjoying everything happening to you with that one thing in mind : None Matters.

@Nahm guess he's got it all figured out then. How about the enlightenment path that he's got into. Do you relate to any of his insights toward life and the universe.?

@Nahm What part of him are you drawn to ??

@egoless so the way that enlightenment works is by keeping it to yourself or the actualized , what if there are no people around who are concious? I'd rather let people think I am crazy than just let them feel my fake Presence. I personally think he is so courageous to let that notion easily spread every where though people might call him INSANE.

Hi there every one, I've been wanting to quit from being an introverted guy for some time now, but hasn't been successful in no way. When I see other people experience life in the ways I am not able to do, honestly, I feel jealous. I don't simply see the point of being an introvert, let alone all the opportunities I feel I am losing. I read a lot online about the pros of being an introvert but haven't had any instant relief. Is there a way I can stop thinking about it ? I know the greatest people ever have been mostly introverted here and there. But the people around me are all extroverted and I can't find any who shares some common grounds with me... Confused and overwhelmed...

All that being said I completely agree, But the thing is I really crave to find people like myself. The ones whom I can relate to and interact with. Besides, the problem is not they being so happy but that they get to experience the things that I wanna try out like partying and all the shitty work they do.

So I know this phenomenon as NOFAP keeps coming up in lots of men-related issues or forums of some sort and I myself have been doing NOFAP for sometime now. However, there seems to be some contradictory ideas and assumptions about doing NOFAP. The website below for example denotes that what NOFAP actually is nothing but "Expectancy effect" and the nofappers see the results they wish to see. So If there is all "Scientific side" of porn and excessive masturbation, why would some people confuse it with morality? How can I be assured whether this NOFAP actually raises consciousness or not ?? plz help me overcome this confusion and check the link below prior to answering. Peace https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/women-who-stray/201503/the-nofap-phenomenon

@Shin @Max_V @Principium Nexus @ThinAir @Spiral An Update : Already in Week 2 and although I feel like I have much more confidence and all, not everything went the way I wanted to. I thought once I stop Fapping all my problems would go away. This was pretty much what nofappers claim though, kinda foolish of me. But I believe I need to replace the habit of Fapping which I used to have with a productive one. I also feel like my brain is playing tricks on me as I kinda feel melancholic and don't know why. I hate this feeling and Fapping used to trigger this when I was in the act. But why the hell do I have this sentiment now that I stopped this??? Maybe it's the chemicals in my brain as I am trying to Unwire something so frequent I used to do. I'd appreciate any tips u can give me.

@ajasatya I'm on it man. Tnx for the insight.

@aurum Well, Actually the results turned out to be great and I do feel much better.

Hey @IVONNE I'm a 22 year-old boy who is on the verge of graduating from college. I sometimes feel like I am much behind and sometimes much ahead of my peers. I have been too delicate with other people's opinion. I wanted to start playing my favorite musical instrument and I thought It was too late for me because I used to look at the videos in which 5 year olds are playing the instrument masterfully. I was all desperate and could not believe I am 22 but rather 42. I wish there was somebody who would tell me, with absolute certainty that I am gonna make it. The worst part is that there would be no parent or friends to tell me what to do or even guide me through these stuff. However, Subsequently. I STARTED TO TAKE ACTION. I was tired with all thinkings of ifs and fears. I started thinking what if I did what I WANTED to do. It's been 5 months now that I started learning the violin and my tutor has told me I got some great talent ( if I can call it talent). And I started studying for my entrance exam which is due in 9 months to start the job of my dreams. THERE IS NOTHING MORE ENJOYABLE THAN DOING WHAT YOU LIKE ,this I can guarantee. Still there are times that I FEAR and doubt myself but I try to think of the best possible results. So All I am saying here is that in our age cycle these doubts and fears are just nothing but normal ( maybe even a must) and nothing wrong with that but as long as YOU do what you like and your are happy doing it there won't be any regret because that was what your intuition told you to do. bottom line = Do what you think you gotta do and just do it, control the ego and the negativity it brings alongside and you'll see wonders.

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@egoeimai WELL, It was only 2 days ago that I listened to this amazing piece of advice And ... Ever since I just can't help thinking about it as I Listened to it for about 5 times or so. And the results have been phenomenal. I started writing my goal in specific detail and the reason for that. It simply made perfect sense as why it could not come true. Today I devoted all my time to the dream I have in mind. and it just felt so damn good. I AM a 22 year old boy doing self actualization who literally devour each and every advice in the field. I feel like I am absorbing all the good vibes and feel a lot much better. Sorry for any side tracks. I need to wait and see how it comes together in the long run. Chances are you heard something like this before... but the way the guy explains everything with metaphors and stuff with his fascination voice . I t is impossible not to buy the things he mentions about success.

So What could be the strangest secret in the world? Well I am sure you have heard it before as THE LAW OF ATTRACTION, but we are simply naive in making our dreams come true. we just don't know how as I am feeling right now. So this video really breaks down each part of the process of THE LAW and teach how you can conquer your obstacles in life to reach the pinnacle of success. It also gives a tangible definition of success as it is one of the most ambiguous terms in everyday life . So definately go for it and take your time. It will Literally change YOUR LIFE. PEACE

@Loreena The first thing I do is that I go to somewhere with people doing things in common like a park and try to observe each individual and how they are feeling at the moment and why ( from a distance of course) I guess it helps to engage my mind in realizing everything happening around us and we ignore it. This might seem kinda weird but it gets the job done Secondly, I play the violin for some time. It brings tremendous amount of joy and tranquility into my mind. It's like a magic touch. Music is always beneficial in any case but you gotta know what type you get calmed with. Lastly, drinking tea is a great late night calmer for me it has worked . works and will work after an exhausting day of arduous work.

@Loreena Oh God... This is exactly What I WANT in life. There are times that I feel the same as you described; seeing the world as a manifestation of God and all and I gotta say It felt so damn good. I guess it was better than anything else. However, This rare experience has gone past me and now I got caught up in all the cliché and everyday work and life as everybody. I just want that feeling of tranquility. and I feel like it is never gonna happen again. How can I GET back to the days of joy and freedom like you? I am willing to take all risks it is gonna require of me.

1. The amount of tranquility I get from playing the Violin.( To never Stop) 2. Reading books on self satisfaction and how to improve my self and social skills. 3. Having few but meaningful relationships. 4. I'm about to make a big change in my career and studies.( I'm finishing English Lit BA and want to change to Administrative management in MA) 5. I wanna develop my spiritual side of my self by inspecting all my actions. 6. Lastly I tend to self actualize more often these days. ( I walk alone 1 hr a day thinking about my self and the universe)

Hey, Bud I am 22Booom. Oftentimes I feel the same as you and that there's something that I gotta achieve now, something I need to change now, somebody to talk to. It's all right. In fact it's your true self telling you what to do, God has given us all a device of guidance that is rarely used by guys in our age. Steven Spielberg says this intuition is so quiet, it does not shout. So just listen to yourself and yourself only. If you feel you should do something then do it. If you wanna talk to that one special girl. Go for it. There's nothing more geniune than your self guidance device. If you think you don't have it, think again. U just gotta listen more intensely. After all I realized the only thing that matters the most in life is Self-Satisfaction and I am grateful I figured it out this young. Farewell my 21. I'm sure you'll get the hang of all the hardships in no time. It's all ok to feel like this. Live ON MY FRIEND. PEACE