My man this is all bull shit. Of course you are yourself, but your only problem is that you see that beautiful girl as someone with more value than you. You need to start viewing women like a normal human beign. Watch Corey Wayne and you will understand what I'm talking about. We have been mentally conditioned by tv and social media to think that women have to be treated like royalty and that my friend will get you rejected. That is the reason bad guys date the hotest girls because they treat them like a normal person.