Ayilton

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  1. The Girls are giving good advice ! Be more subtle dude ! And learn and understand emotional arawenes so you can have better interpretation in social situations !
  2. There are more I guess ! There is more depression and less autenticity this days and a lot of sexual repression also ! Majority of society see sex as a sin , so we suppress it ! We are going from suppression to expression and finally to acceptance and peace about the topic of sex !
  3. You can look anywhere and everywhere but you will definitely find it within your self ! ???
  4. Interesting man... Thanks for sharing this ! Peharps could you show us one of your spiritual auto lysis journal ? I am curious... ?
  5. The mind is so sneaky , the phenomena you described happens majorly because of social conditioning and survival I guess ! Maybe if we just let go , we could finally see....
  6. Just because life is infinite and you can business the way You want !
  7. We are probably be imitating a Leo's life purpose ! It might be because it's related to enlightenment and being good ! give us examples of different life purposes @Mount Bananas @Armando Gutierrez What if , the contradiction is only a narrative that your mind is making ? Just consider it , what if it's all just fine !
  8. Day #6 Observing the thick face , Black heart I use to criticize and judge a lot successful people especially the extravagent ones... Or the ones into fashion , they seem cold at first, but reading the book on thick and black , All of sudden I see them through new eyes , they just know how to get shit done and most us don't ! Just finished watching Vogue 73 questions with the Versace owner , She is amazing ! At first I was like what is she wearing , why she speaks like that and da da da damn but I reminded myself to just observe without judgement .....It felt good , Such a strong a woman , she is even into saving children from starvation and stuff really great human being ! Don't get decieved by appearances ! Stay open minded and watch out for the cold ones , they are not as bad as might think !
  9. This one is for the 30 Day no criticism challenge ! I will be updating everyday , I will tell how many people or things I have criticized and why , and what could be learnt from the judgment or the person I am judging ! Remember to get a risk band and start yours and see how much do you grow ! Peace and love
  10. This one linked to the deep problem of marketing , usually the best teachers in the world are not recognized at all! It's very sad but there is tendency to ignore exceptional work ! 0 But we getting there, people are realizing that We need to change. It's what we see in the commercials that is best !
  11. Jack Canfield is an amazing human being , he loves to motivate and see people succeeding ! In this book he lays out , everything you need to know and be doing to be effective in your journey , whether you want to be Zen master or a professional writter or even an artist this is great read ! Just when I needed most , it offered valuable tools so I can navigate my path easily ! I encourage you read it too ! A must read for any guys/girls in their early 20's. His writing is simply, pragmatic and fun. Good Luck
  12. Don't focus too much on the negatives... Always remember the good stuff you did in that day ! It can help Become aware of the magic of life , everything just happens
  13. Does anyone know John and Kissa Sins !? They do this sort of stuff , they seem very happy . Maybe it's due to the fact that they are pornographers, they are more open minded !
  14. It sounds messy ! I think you guys should get a concesus... It's not clear about where you guys want with this relationship. Be honest with each other and see where it takes you ! Communication is key
  15. The principles of success but Jack Canfield ! Great book for getting your assistance inspired to do some personal development !
  16. Day #3 Feeling comfortable with my riskband After couple days using this risk band everyday I am starting to feel comfortable wearing everytime before it wasn't especially when it was time sleep ! I criticized my cousin for having "bad" roles models , her goal is to have a body similar to Graciane Barbosa , and this Brazilian model has quite muscular legs , I don't think it's beautiful . But thinking about it it's just our society, and the gym trend going on right now, everyone wants to get big. There is this guy that eats dead bodies , it's nasty ! It came on TV , I was trying to tell my mom that it was okay to do it , that there is nothing wrong with it , that we judge because of our morals values but even so deep down I know its disgusting ! But at least I don't see as something evil ! I went to a party, an event in a club, a long time I use to criticize the short clothes the girls put but now I am kind of kool with it ! It look good , it's sexy, sometimes it's a bit too much but you know it's interesting And nice too see !
  17. Day #1 I have lost count at how many I have criticized but the two that I can remember are the following : Firstly a very famous celebrity in my country called Dygo because he uses fakes sneakers and designer clothes , me and my brother love to criticize him. I am starting to think there is no problem in using them if they have quality and the truth is people love this kind of stuff, it gives status. You can't blame him, society put value on those things. So yes to fake designer sneakers and clothes ! The second is Tyga new album cover , just opened google and it came right on some article critizing it! I think it's a bit wild but I like it, it's authentic and unapologetic ! Exactly what we need ? Check out the cover bellow Peace and love
  18. If you feel your hug comes from a needy place inside of you, Do it ! It's completely fine to be needy , you can't repress your feelings , just let it out ! cause girls can pick easily this signs , you will just be fooling yourself ! If you feel like giving a hug , just do that ! It's authentic bro... It's totally okay ! I wouldn't buy too much into pua advice ! In Real life it's much more complicated ! Love your sins to death
  19. It's like meditation, you cannot enjoy it if you using too much will power, you need to surrender into it ! Listening just for the sake of listening