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Do how you feel about it. I myself am not a person that could sleep with someone without any emotions, because for me sex is more spiritual than physical thing. It doesn't have to do anything with morals, it is just that I'm an introvert and I need a lot of time to trust people and show them emotions. But if it is okay for you, why not then?

I don't think it is bad talking and chatting with other girls/guys, but I don't get it why would you deny that you have a girlfriend/boyfriend? Basically, you're lying other person that you're single and available for her/him, although you're not.

Sarajevo, Bosnia and Herzegovina, Balkans, Europe.

Why should I be proud because I fell out of my mothers' vagina on the territory of the land where I live currently? I am proud of my accomplishments. I really didn't choose where to be born. You could have been born in Africa in some tribe, and what then?

@kalter000 No, I don't feel insecure, but the thing is if I now go and approach random guys on the street and ask them if they find me attractive I believe that majority of them would say yes. But, actually what I want is someone special, as we women like to say 'the right guy', who will be different than others and who will be with me because of some higher things than just physical attractiveness. It just for me feels superficial and shallow complimenting beauty. That is the thing that Leo said about women: 'Never ask them what they want because they don't know. TRUE. But basically, what they all want is deep emotional relationship'. TRUE So yes, I'm aware that guys are visual beings and I'm taking care of my looks (nutrition, exercises, make up, style and so on) and I don't mind if he compliments it at some point of a relationship. Even at the beginning i say 'thank you' with a smile, but I'm not a fan of it. Guys should be aware that we want emotional connection and you don't build it by complimenting looks but complimenting something that is more connected to that area, like mindset, intelligence, femininity and so on.

If you sleep well it is not a problem. But my problem is that every night I can't sleep and I am staying late at night awake and then I can't get up in the morning. I am sleepy all day and when I come home after Uni, I can't be productive nor do anything because I'm super tired and I have to sleep.

I was in a relationship for 2 years. After a 3 months internship in Russia when came back home, I felt boring with him. He was not ambitious at all, without any future plans and I was working hard to get something. I felt that I outgrew him. He was not supporting me in my carrier and I wanted to support him, but I couldn't, because he didn't do anything in his life. At the end, he wasn't paying enough attention to me. I started chatting with one guy I will probably never see because he is at the other end of the world, and I've realized that I deserve better, and that there are men that respect women who are feminists, who want to have a carrier and achieve something in a life. I told him that it is better to break up, but he wanted us to try again. He made me feel guilty why I don't love him anymore. My mistake was that I didn't left him before. Now, I'm single, and I see how much I'm free. Instead of investing time and energy in something dysfunctional what makes me unhappy, now I invest a time in myself and feel completely better and fulfilled. I really don't know what to do in these situations, except to break up. I tried everything possible to motivate him to fight for something in a life, but nothing worked. So I quit.

I'm not sure that I get the question, but I will try to answer. I personally, as a woman, hate my looks being complimented. I'm not a doll, piece of meat or sexual object to be complimented in that way, I see myself as a smart, independent woman that has much more to give a man than looks. I invest a lot in my education, self-developing, general knowledge, so there is a huugeee field of things we can talk about and what guy can compliment on me.

I agree. Break up for me means being free to do what I wanted to do, but didn't have guts. After the last break up I decided to move abroad. Now, I'm finishing some things before I go, but I can say that I feel much better and more free to do what I want to do.

Watch Leo's video about exes, I forgot the title. Your free time and energy put into something useful that makes you grow (like taking care of your body so you attract more girls, reading so you get a confidence because inteligence is sexy and so on) and when you outgrow her, you wont want to be with her, because then you will be a better person and tend to achieve someone who is at higher lever than the level she was at. That worked for me, after two years relationship break-up, I transformed despair into positive energy and now I am better person that I was and I want a better guy than the one I had.

I get it that NoFap can be a good thing when you're in a sexual relationship, but what if you aren't having sex with anyone for a longer time, don't you find it a bit unnatural not to masturbate? I'm against porn definitely, but when I go to bed every night I like to masturbate, even though sometimes it is just a few minutes and without orgasm. Somehow, it makes me more relaxed.

No. I don't share the mentality of the majority people in my country. Actually, I hate that mentality. Being raised in a developing country where our government doesn't care about citizens, I see no reason to like my country/government/nationality/traditions and history and so on.

My problem is reversed: I have thin legs but I'm broad-shouldered. Also, I have big boobs and my upper part looks huge. My body type is reversed triangle. I'm not overweight. I do cardio and aerobic exercises for all muscles. Which one you suggest me to do the most? For legs or for arms and shoulders?

I think reading is a good idea. I used to do that in a high school.