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"If you stick to your values , no distractions can stick to you " You are actually free then!

Guys I want you all to share your best moments of your life , it really feels great when you think about them right?, So one more reason to smile ? Share all your best moments . Love!

@The Monk sorry , you did not ask me but I went through your post and felt like to reply so I did. Why didn't you join your college( also you can join library ) yet , I mean if you join college so you can spend more time away from them and if it is possible Meditate everyday , atleast it would give you a mental strength to be strong enough .my point is try to spend your time more away from them because you are not financially independent yet so even if you leave your home , it will be hard for you. Try also to advice your parents and brother that don't do this kind of behaviour ( that I am sure you have tried ) , if they agree with you that's the best thing . You can also search for some organisations in your city which can help you , like part time jobs , shelters ( just suggesting because if you decide to go to them be careful , they might be fake so be careful). See friend, we all have some problems in our life and the only thing we can do is face them because we can't go away from them . So stay calm , you can do it . All the best.

Thank you @Prabhaker !!

My question is, what is love?? I mean is it what we see in movies and TV shows and is it something more and deep? And why people get addicted to their partners when they are in love? I know it's a stupid question but I really wanna know ?

Thank you @Michael569 and @Arkandeus ! @Arkandeus yeah , I just tried to keep myself away from these things like totally cut off nothing other than that.

I am little confused , I have gone through a video that talks about how to reduce Addiction, I did the same as it was told and I have reduced also to some extent but what I found is when again I came in contact with those things I found myself addicted , so I want to know , I mean how to make a balance between these things and normal life. My addiction is social media . And I am like if I use it , I use it like so much but if I don't , I don't even look for them ( totally cut off ).

Firstly ,you need to calm down ! See we all have problems in our life , some have little other have big but the main thing is how to solve them , I understand it's hard sometimes because you feel so tired and just wanna go away from them but at the same time we should know that solution lies in the problem itself. Do not try to be away ( I understand you must be fighting with it) . if you want to study maths and you are not getting good in it you must review your approach , I mean re- examine the way you are applying to learn maths because sometimes we do our best , work hard a lot but get nothing then there is two possibilities 1) you have lack of interest in that 2) you are using wrong approach So I think you should take a deep breath and think with a calm mind. Everything is gonna be alright , don't worry !! ?

You will have to make yourself financially strong , because that would be the first step towards your independency . Once you are independent , it would be easy for you to focus on yourself. As you told above about your family conditions , may be that is affecting your studies . Once you are separated , you can focus on your studies too.

If competition is healthy , it is not bad then . Competition gives us a spark or we can say encourage us to do better ( provided it is healthy , not affecting you much ), So you should not leave this . As far as I understood about the " creating your own resources " means you should try different-different methods to win the competition , make your signature moves , compete with yourself , be better everyday . I hope I helped you ! All the best!! ?

That feeling which you don't wanna share , That feeling which make you sometimes scared, That feeling which make you sometimes to give up on your dreams, Those dreams which found a home in you , or you can say, you made them to be in you Those dreams not only yours but all your loving ones have a vision about them now, But you scare to tell them that you got stuck in them , want to rise , finding a way!! But then you hear a voice deep down in your heart ,which makes you to believe in yourself , because you have no choice instead Which makes you not to give up, not to give up!! And you rise and shine ..... Follow that light!

Thank you everyone ☺ I will keep these things in mind ..but I am really glad that you all responded @Deep , @Morrtiz , @cetus56, @Spiral , @Prabhaker @CuteCornDog

I am little curious about my behaviour , whenever I meet new people I get a different kind of feeling like my heart beat gets little high and I get more conscious about my behaviour , about the way I talk , how I sit, even how do I walk . This makes me more uncomfortable , specially when I am in front of my opposite sex . How should I deal with it?

I am facing some concentration issues from sometime , whenever I study , my mind goes here and there and because of that I take more time in a topic that actually it should take .. How to deal with this ?

Wow! That's amazing ? , it needs guts to do this and that too in public place , if you are comfortable enough with this , I mean can do at any place then you should go for next like try something new that would take you to another level .. I have seen a video , in that a guy laid down at public places for 30 seconds and he did this many times at different places until he gets comfortable he realize that people do not care at all ,they just looked once and then walked away So it is nice that you are doing this , very good to boost up the confidence All the best ☺