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Yes, if you consideer they must be apart of your life or either else you are not important, you are not doing what you are supposed to, what you are meant to do, what the universe wants you to do, what God wants, what you must do because your parents want you to, collegues, etc. It can also be a form of an attachement if you consideer your means to be happy (enlightenment). It is impossible because it cant disbelieve the thoughts in your head. How can an activity, physical activity make you discover what your true nature is? It can also be a form of attachement if you think you a rapper, in my exemple. I am a rapper, so this is the only thing i will do because If I dont only rap, Im not doing the job that I am, so I cant do other arts, work as a baker, make movies. No, i can only do rap! Thats why artists like childish gambino and Kanye West say they are artists instead of rappers even though, that considering yourself an artist is more free than just a rapper but once again you are only limiting yourself to do artistic stuff. That brings me to the next point. Once you think your job is better than other jobs, you will start being afraid of losing your job. Because if rap is a good job, how am I suppose to be a baker (which is considereed to be a worse job)? After all, with rap you get girls, money, big houses, while when you bake you usually have a regular salary!

It the end we will never know if the person is sayign the truth or lying...

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yeah, if we are conscious through out and through in, it is just another exercise

exactly, bro i feel calm and relaxed watching hip hop music videos

yes to both questions but dont believe anyone of us, not even me or buddha itself. see if its true with your own eyes (experience) and if it is follow it, if its not, drop it

@Charlotte

Is he your worst enemy?

isnt it...Bahahha?

ok, i do the same

do you or nah

is that ego i sense?

Who says I dont?

bruh, you guys dont understand enlightenment, enlightenment is not stop doing things you enjoy.. Sure, sometimes you might not do them to find the truth but enlightenment is just enjoy things to its maximum, no matter if its a videogame or talking with friends. You guys want to free yourselves but dont understand that considering some activities as "should nots" you are really trapping yourselves, not freeing.

Bruh, why are you asking us what to do?

@Charlotte @moon777light bruh, dont believe someone just for saying something that just sounds right

NO! Its believe everything Leo says!

Contemplation by me, just an example, doesnt mean i actually watch that type of porn What happens when you watch porn There is nothing wrong with watching porn. The problem arises when you imagine you are the dude having sex with the girl. Multiple things can happen: You can compare yourself to him, you can wish you were him (desire), you judge yourself for not having sex with the girl you like that he is having sex with, you can imagine you are the type of personality the porn scene is about. So, what about thinking you are the personality the porn scene is about? How do you inherent that? Can you get it from watching a lot of form? For example, cucc porn? Yes, you can get those desires from watching a lot of porn if you genuinely like it. Why do you like something? I don’t know. But the thing about cucc porn is that, watching your girlfriend getting fucked by another man is not inherently wrong its that considering yourself worse than him, feeling hummiliated to get pleasure is what creates the suffering. Also, thinking you will never be able to satisfy your girlfriend, wife like another man does also can lead to suffering. Why? Because you are comparing your hability in the bed to another man, as better or worse. If someone factually was better at something than me but wasn’t better than me, would that create suffering? If I admitted that lebron james is better at basketball than me, would that create suffering? I don’t know, on one hand you are not comparing your worth, so, you don’t suffer from that, you are not saying you are bad. But doesn’t ability comparisons usually lead to that? Yes, but if you don’t compare your worth, just your skill does that create suffering? Well, I think when you compare your skill, your mind automatacally goes to worth comparasions. But if it didn’t compare your worth, would that create suffering? Well, isnt ability having more skillful worth than someone else? Yes, because you are comparing how good you are at something, how precious your skill is. So you are comparing your skillful worth. For example, if I said I dance better than you, you are comparing your skill to mine's.

or (especially the last verse)

@egoless thanks m8 Here is a song about the first time i meditated and experienced peace

Well, I read that the original Buddha (Siddharta) would meditate in the forest and mosquitos would come there and he just stayed still meditating.

Our words couldnt help you as much as your own experience

Its not he SHOULD do, its what YOU want to happen.

@Thanatos13 Bruh