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If there is a perfect time for Leo to be on Lex’s podcast…THE TIME IS NOW!

This video made me to contemplate how I am living my life currently, although I consider myself a bit hippy on my lifestyle, I know I can do so much better. In my view it seems sad that now people have to leave the ground area because of climate change. Has anyone here on the forum has been working already with their carbon footprint? Aka live a greener environment friendly lifestyle? Maybe possible solution(s) to help improve the climate environment? Where I live in Puerto Rico, we are reaching new levels of hot weather which I find it worrisome of course, but nobody is talking about how WE are also responsible for this. https://www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcna88168 Also on Puerto Rico they aren’t recycling trash bus, maybe in some areas? I know this is a small piece of where trash is going and it is affecting also our weather possibly, I feel I need to dive deep into the subject.

I imagine a book replicating what is already on youtube videos, would be a funny read if they write it down word by word lol, “And now, tell her, “”hey baby! Sup?” “.

Good point, I have to study him.

I’ve been wanting to catch up with the news but been busy, here’s a good explanation.

Please, no more threads about silly drama about Destiny, Mr. Whatever, etc. I don’t think these guys add any value to higher purposes like most of us on the forum.

@Danioover9000is butthurt because I exposed him/her. Talking about the thread:

I use natural esencial oils like the ones they use for yoga sessions: Lavender, Eucalipto, etc. although I’m looking for stronger smell ones when I’m out doing game, the oils ones doesn’t seems to last long. P.S. My bad you were asking for gaming sessions, which I assume you’ll like a good and strong one, not sure what to recommend here.

I was watching recently a Andrew Schultz podcast (he is a comedian), and on his recent one interviewing Patrick Bet David, Patrick was telling a story about going to a queer club and in summary somebody in the story asked him: “how do you know you’re not gay?”, and Patrick says: ”Because I know it”, and the guy responded: “But how do you know it if you haven’t been with one?”. And there was a serious pause for contemplating the question. It resonated a lot with me because some years ago I discovered I’m bisexual, but the way Patrick responded it was the same way I was responding for over 20+ years. So one day after a deep contemplation of my “something is missing in my relationships”, I asked myself this question, stick with it and go for the experience to confirm it. So for the people here on the forum, how do you know or confirm you aren’t another sexual orientation aside of straight? Just a feeling? Because even before I discovered I was bisexual, I thought most of my life I din’t felt attraction towards men, although there was one case in my childhood that confirms it and if you see my beginning drawings, there was A LOT appreciation for human/muscle anatomy so I enjoyed watching body builders competitions. Insights? Thoughts?

I think she/he do it on purpose, maybe to call out attention, not gonna take him/her seriously.

The reason I ask this is because since I was a kid I always had a question back in my head which is: “what if the relationship doesn’t work out in the long run?” “Isn’t a lot of work, drama, time and money for both of you guys to have to deal now with signing divorce papers, throw away thousands of dollars you guys spent for your rings (unless you resell it I guess), see who stay if someone actually stay with the house if you both lived together, the pets even maybe?” “And if you have kids, there are some laws that require the other parent to support financially if not you’re going to jail”, which is a lot of pressure looking back of how maybe my father was feeling when I was growing up. Even when I’m gonna connect on a normal relationship, sometimes I still think: “what if this doesn’t work out in the long run?” (Some of you guys might point out “well she/he wasn’t the right one if you’re thinking of that”, sure I can see that). Am I not being very optimistic here? Do some of you guys feel the same way? I would like to see some perspective about it.

Had anyone here experimented with this? Today I took a cold shower after quite a long time, years!, and I feel very pump out compared to hot ones (my bath temperature is limited so it’s either cold or hot, not in between sadly). I know there is a science behind the benefits of cold showers, but I wanted to ask the forum, had you seen the benefits in both of them? Do you have a preferred one? Depends?

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Not everything, sometimes you’re lucky you got invested in something that it isn’t even a hard work! It’s your lifestyle! Sometimes you gotta work smart, not hard. Don’t tell me what to do.

There is nothing wrong with you, maybe you haven’t found a good match. The trans that I know here in Puerto Rico, they are attractive af and I can see they work a lot on themselves and they seems to be very independent people, they accept themselves SO MUCH that that’s another reason why they are so attractive to me. I also watched A LOT of porn while young and I would consider myself functional still, I tone it down A LOT cuz of age and I prefer the real deal experience. I can get hard with both sex easily, if I don’t get hard on someone it is because I don’t vibe with the person really and we are just forcing the experience. Do you consider yourself very spiritual and balanced? Cuz I’m a believer that we attract what we are. Usually my best partners are involved in the same stuff I like, like art, creation, exploring, etc.

Is not a limitation but rather a organization, unless you wanna call yourself gender fluid which for me it still be bisexual.

You can be masculine and still be gay or bisexual. If you’re a girl and you’re masculine you still a girl (physiologically speaking).

Maybe, maybe I’m good at switching my male and female energies.

This is soooo relatable. For me it felt even annyoing. Oh gawd what a time. Ever considered do drag queen?

The best thing for me in this case is to cry a lot, listen some lofi music or something with sad vibes if is hard to release the emotions, and yea once again see your break up video.

The video that started it all, my spiritual journey, my first Leo video, def check it out.

@Leo Gura Very straight answer of yours. Yes but for real I think is tricky depending the person, I even remember one time a guy asked me at the beach if I wanted to kiss him and I answered him no with a straight face haha, telling him I was straight back then, I laugh now and regret it a bit for not had done it with the understanding I have now.

Interesting answer Yeah, I just wanted to see others people of concluding their answers, some people haven’t even question themselves this and it could be affecting negatively their actual relationships and life (at least that was my case with my firsts girlfriends).

This is a good point, if not you wouldn’t be complaining about it, it’s like: “oh yeah?! you don’t want to text me back?! Well imma tell you or do this!”, is not necessary nor attractive, you move on. I learned from the book “The 4 Agreements” by Don Miguel Ruiz, whatever somebody said or do to you, is not really about you persé but rather how they see you trough their “screen smoke mirror” or their perception, so I move on if they don’t text and respect it, it’s like asking forcefully for attention. P.S. If you’re a creative person, you’d be amazed by how some of these people text you back once they see you creating cool stuff.