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Nah, I knew there was something sus about your answer, also the point that you never ever corrected me. Why on your first threads you talked a lot about semen retention?: You talk clearly about having a boner, lots of No Fap threads, and again other subjects you make a Thread about, I find it very unlikely a female would do it although I’m always open to be wrong. @Princess Arabia very likely he is lying to us.

@Danioover9000 Well, sorry if I called like a guy this whole time, but even in those times you din’t even corrected me. By the type of threads you make, there is NO WAY I could tell and maybe others you were a female, so I find this odd and peculiar.

Had anyone here experimented with this? Today I took a cold shower after quite a long time, years!, and I feel very pump out compared to hot ones (my bath temperature is limited so it’s either cold or hot, not in between sadly). I know there is a science behind the benefits of cold showers, but I wanted to ask the forum, had you seen the benefits in both of them? Do you have a preferred one? Depends?

You’re a female?! No way!

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Yimpa is talking about intelligent people misspelling and you come here like “WeLl YoU KnOw WhAt SpIrAl DyNaMiCs SaId AbOuT ThAt!?”and I’m like “dude!wtf”. I’m not criticizing what you said also but the comment previous about macro on your keyboard, like, anyone can see your past posts about spiral dynamics, it is literally the same exact text what you’re saying, giving a whole textbook for the definition for some reason, I’m not the only one noticing this pattern.

Not everything, sometimes you’re lucky you got invested in something that it isn’t even a hard work! It’s your lifestyle! Sometimes you gotta work smart, not hard. Don’t tell me what to do.

Yeah, the guy repeats so much this phrase when he talks about Spiral Dynamics, also it has nothing to do with what @Yimpa is talking about so idk why he bring it, while also giving a whole textbook definition. I love you bro @Danioover9000 but you gotta chill a bit.

There is nothing wrong with you, maybe you haven’t found a good match. The trans that I know here in Puerto Rico, they are attractive af and I can see they work a lot on themselves and they seems to be very independent people, they accept themselves SO MUCH that that’s another reason why they are so attractive to me. I also watched A LOT of porn while young and I would consider myself functional still, I tone it down A LOT cuz of age and I prefer the real deal experience. I can get hard with both sex easily, if I don’t get hard on someone it is because I don’t vibe with the person really and we are just forcing the experience. Do you consider yourself very spiritual and balanced? Cuz I’m a believer that we attract what we are. Usually my best partners are involved in the same stuff I like, like art, creation, exploring, etc.

Is not a limitation but rather a organization, unless you wanna call yourself gender fluid which for me it still be bisexual.

You can be masculine and still be gay or bisexual. If you’re a girl and you’re masculine you still a girl (physiologically speaking).

Maybe, maybe I’m good at switching my male and female energies.

This is soooo relatable. For me it felt even annyoing. Oh gawd what a time. Ever considered do drag queen?

The best thing for me in this case is to cry a lot, listen some lofi music or something with sad vibes if is hard to release the emotions, and yea once again see your break up video.

The video that started it all, my spiritual journey, my first Leo video, def check it out.

@Leo Gura Very straight answer of yours. Yes but for real I think is tricky depending the person, I even remember one time a guy asked me at the beach if I wanted to kiss him and I answered him no with a straight face haha, telling him I was straight back then, I laugh now and regret it a bit for not had done it with the understanding I have now.

Interesting answer Yeah, I just wanted to see others people of concluding their answers, some people haven’t even question themselves this and it could be affecting negatively their actual relationships and life (at least that was my case with my firsts girlfriends).

No, NO! Get me that mf Fly, we need his charisma, NOW!

This is a good point, if not you wouldn’t be complaining about it, it’s like: “oh yeah?! you don’t want to text me back?! Well imma tell you or do this!”, is not necessary nor attractive, you move on. I learned from the book “The 4 Agreements” by Don Miguel Ruiz, whatever somebody said or do to you, is not really about you persé but rather how they see you trough their “screen smoke mirror” or their perception, so I move on if they don’t text and respect it, it’s like asking forcefully for attention. P.S. If you’re a creative person, you’d be amazed by how some of these people text you back once they see you creating cool stuff.

Why so focused on teaching a gf or female? Is it mandatory? The last thing I want out of a relationship it is my partner wanting me to believe her/his stuff, want me/force me to believe of what she/he says and talk spirituality 24/7, it’s gets old quick when there is so much other stuff to talk about. And if you want to teach, it would become a student, not a girlfriend.

Yes, as someone who dealt with it years ago, I’ve become aware of how silly it is actually but when you’re in that state of mind it doesn’t feel that way, it feels as tangible as touching yourself right now. My insight about it coming out of it is that you will have to do some deep deep reprograming because those thoughts are sometimes beyond our control, not even doing daily affirmations helps depending how hard wired is your brain right now, so you have to somehow “allow the light penetrate into you, like when the sun hits the flowers, so you can see through the illusion”, I quote it because it’s the poetic way I see it now. You’ll have to find practices and methods that allows your mind first to calm down, allow whatever trauma you have to release, is ok if it looks even like a exorcism lol, been there, and by the end of the storm, the sun will comeback at you and you are gonna be more conscious now. Now what causes suicidal thoughts that is gonna vary for each person. It could be a trauma from childhood, it could be because of a consumption of a drug and it programmed your mind to be negative about life, etc. And very important have FAITH that healing is possible and PATIENCE, take it easy on you, you’re doing your best even if it doesn’t feel that way right now, each solution(s) is vary for everyone.

Fly for 2024 let’s fkn gooo!

@Water by the River You’re very informative, I like that, thanks for your input.

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@Water by the River there is a HUGE difference about depersonalization/derealization in spirituality and mental illness. Speaking from experience that I had to live in that hell on 2019 and had to start working with ayahuasca in order to get better and get actual awakenings. As a mental illness it’s hard to sustain yourself, you can’t fit into society easily, as a spirituality you’re more “normal” and can still function to keep going with your life.