I Am

Wisdom doesn't judge, it observes.

I believe I may have some insight into this seemingly contradiction. From what I understand, the Law of Attraction is not to be interpreted as literal as the translation may imply, but is a description of and reference to a side of the universal law that we attract what we are. In this case, your monkey mind's thoughts don't actually matter in their own right, but influence the actions you take, thus resulting in the Law of Attraction. An example to help understand this and how your paradox is resolved is imagine your monkey mind is in a rut, and your internal dialogue influences your feelings to promote self-loathing and worthlessness. In this case, your natural desire to seek what you don't have leads you to believe that you want to feel happy, and assign these external wishes to your need to be fulfilled. In this example, what you want (happiness) is the opposite of what you will get, because you aren't happy in your internal condition. In this case the Law of Attraction and Attracting What You Are coexist. Now let's apply this to your libdo example. Instead of feeling empty or alone, this is approached when your internal condition is healthy, and with a high libdo, you attract what you are. I'm going to take a guess that when you are attractive in these mind sets you aren't feeling that neediness as well, it's more of a creation headspace. Hope this helped, Cheers!

Whats up fellow Actualizationicans, I love the new forum, and it reminded me in structure a lot of Reddit, and got my gears turning on ideas to make this all as aesthetically appealing as possible, and as mobile friendly as possible. I have a genuine interest in the spiritual enlightenment side of things, and want to give back and contribute to the community as much as possible. With that said, one of the big dangers of making something like this is that the community might attract more people, thus more less involved or serious people. I really do believe this can be overcome, and that eventual growth is inevitable. I have some experience in coding, and have begun to work on this just in the past couple of hours, and want to get the whole community involved. Attached is a zip of the open source Alien Blue app files (with the three images in the main folder changed to Actualized.org images), and I chose that as a good template to work with, due to the similar structure of the current in-browser forum and what I hope the app will resemble. If you're suspicious of a potential nefarious download, the original Alien Blue ZIP is open to the public for download and redistribution, a quick google will take you to it. At the moment Alien Blue has a PRO version, but I plan to have that feature erased in the Actualized app. Good vibes all around, and if you make any progress or have any good ideas, use the tags on this post when uploading any files useful for its development. Cheers! Actualized-master.zip