Ananta

Ok, its a little funny

Oh no, ..that's not funny

Lol, you never know on this site! @Consilience Your welcome! @SoonHei Nice @Nahm @fridjonk This is true!

Your welcome, yes, hilarious!

Your not the ego now. You're identified with/as "the ego", if you can see it as separate from "you", then you can't "be" it. Anyways, this is a funny thread, not serious!

Hehe?!!! I'm glad

@cetus56 that vids crazy. Lol!

@DrewNows So, like- ????????? Lolol

I've never tripped...what's a "come up" mean? If it's full of this kind of laughter it must be fun?

@Nahm Right??

@SoonHei Awesome, the black guy was so funny!?

You never know...things might turn around. Focus on your relationship and "listen" to what shes saying she wants. Sometimes guys are bad listeners or they think they are listening, but they fail to understand or take action. She might be giving you a warning...to shape up or your out! Anyways, good luck to you. Any break up is painful and rough, if it comes to that.

Here in the U.S. nothings free. Pretty soon they will find a way to charge for air! Nahh, I'll never believe that notion, ever. It's a twisted belief, but I understand it's part of your upbringing and culture.

Both, burial and cremation.

Any way they want, there are no rules, except in some religions or cultures. You do what you want, literally. Make a living will if you want your wishes carried out, unless you have family you can trust and make sure you have the funds in the bank to pay for it. Draft it up with a lawyer that will keep the paperwork on file. If you want reassurance it will be done. The government would cremate you, as its cheapest and they would only take over if there was no family to step forward and no living will. I see, well, here in the US things aren't usually done this way, unless perhaps someone stipulates this in a living will or to family. There was a cemetery that's local to me that use to be only for Catholics for 20 years, but when they started hurting for business, they opened it to anyone. Probably had the Catholics already buried there, that paid top dollar for a Catholic cemetery, rolling in their caskets, lol? I absolutely dont care, throw me in a ditch, if it's the easiest and less hassle for everyone. "I" wont be here, so it doesnt matter.

@DrewNows thank you!?

For those that dont know it's quite common, I've been told, to get what's called the "death rattle" when one is in the process of dying. I've just never heard it before, until today. Ive been in home care as a RN for 12 years, but never had a patient actively dying upon my arrival. A sweet little old lady 88 yrs young who has "angel like" clear blue eyes you can see her kind soul in. ..Not sure why her son didnt call me sooner, but he reported to me that she had not eaten or drank much since my visit last week and yesterday refused to get out of bed any longer. During my visit she fell asleep and then I heard it, the death rattle. Her son said, shes had this phlegm build up sound in her throat. I didnt put two and two together until I heard it. I then changed gears and knew I had to convince him to call in hospice (end of life nursing). That is if she lives through the night. Oddly enough, there was this calm, peaceful vibe in the room and he didnt take much convincing at all and called hospice after I left. I feel honored to have been allowed to be a part of her life ..and death. Perhaps I'll be a hospice nurse someday?

Awe, yeah, it's tough to deal with this crap. Especially at a young age. Everyone deals with it differently. Some might want to listen to sad music and just cry, others want to get back to talking to the opposite sex and distract themselves. Some might play sports or video games for hours. Guess it depends on your personality and what works for you. Hope you feel better soon.

Oic, yeah, that whole shy thing is tough. You can get over it though. My sister was a shy kid with 1 friend growing up. She went into the air force at 21 and came out of it at 24 a completely different person, not shy at all, with tons of friends. Not saying to join the armed forces, just saying ppl can change. I think seeing a therapist is a great idea for ppl who feel stuck, for whatever reason, so good for you! Well, I think it's good practice for shy guys that need to work on some things regarding their approach to women. A guy genuinely looking for a date or eventually a relationship. However, the cocky dude just trying to put a notch in their belt of how many chicks they can bang disgusts me to no end. If a girl is smart they can see right through that bullshit.. or I can. So, just dont be or become a cocky asshole and you'll be fine.?

Can you do this diet partially? or does it have to be 100% in? Like could you eat mainly fruit, but have small heated dinners or not so much..lol. It's interesting, I just know I couldn't follow it 100%

This wasnt my point though. Of course, it plays a part, but if it's the whole part, then it's just stupid. Like you said- This I personally think is the healthy attitude. Unfortunately, some guys now a days, just want "hot" eye candy, even if they're dumb as a box of rocks or ugly inside.

Well, I actually agree with what @Leo Gura said on here... He said- >>>>Fear of being rejected, fear of blowing the chance. The hotter the girl, the more you put her on a pedestal, the more you feel you need to impress her.<<< ...and, it really boils down to self-esteem and self confidence. If a guy is confident then he can walk right up to any girl and start talking. If he gets rejected, he just moves on to the next without beating himself up. Maybe he just wasnt that girls type, but maybe he will be the next girls type. So, questions to ask yourself. Do you have a healthy self esteem? If not, why is that? (Looks, clothes, style, intelligence, personality, etc.) As far as it stemming from childhood. Maybe? Only in so far as it pertaining directly to confidence and self esteem as that's where I think the issue is.