Ananta

Desires eventually lead to suffering. The amount of suffering depends on how strong the desires are and if they're prevented/blocked, if not blocked, then pleasure ensues, but then one worries the pleasure will end, which again has the potential for suffering. Since all things come to an end, eventually, then all desire leads to some amount of suffering. It seems, to flow with life without suffering there can be little attachment to desire.

@Stratos Maybe keep reminding yourself why you walked out (ie. It was toxic). Write down what was toxic about the relationship. Give your rational mind a chance to over-ride the emotional body a bit.

@Maximus Nice video ?

Then, make them wait, if they want you for more then just sex, they'll wait.

@ADD I see, ty

I am assuming nothing. I had asked a question.

@ADD Hmm, interesting. Must be a man thing.

How does one find enough time in the day for this much? I've pretty much thought no fap was mostly for ppl addicted to sex or masturbation. Would you feel you had to do no fap if you could only masturbate 1 or 2 times a day?

Ohhh, well, that seems really different. No wonder you aren't that interested. Good luck finding what you do really want.

Good point!

" You are pure awareness disguised as a person." - Eckhart Tolle

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True, true... Men doing pick-up that cry and whine that the girls aren't nicer or are being picky need to understand this.

And, this is exactly why girls, once they smarten up (usually they get used once or twice), are selective as hell and make the guy wait before having sex. So, its guys ruining it for other guys!

Oh, something just came to me from my past that you should NOT do. I had a guy a million years ago ask me (would've been first date) if I wanted to go get pizza (it was a Sunday afternoon). I said, yeah sure. He said, okay sounds great, have any money? I said, um why? He says, cause I'm broke and have no money. I hung the phone up on him. Don't do that shit.?

There's having tinnitus ... and then there's hearing Om (Aum). The calmer and more peaceful your mind the louder OM can get...if not calm/peaceful, but actually agitated or upset "OM" can completely disappear.

If its an afternoon date then something casual, like bowling or putt-putt. If its evening something where they can dress up a bit, like going out to dinner, then activity after (movie, comedy club, dancing, etc)

@Beginner Mind I'd advise you not to chat with women that live too far from you. Make an acceptable range and stick to it, this way once you make a connection you can make a irl date so that you aren't just some pixels to her. My sister had this rule and also would only chat for a week or two before saying she wanted to meet in real life. The other reason for this is that you might think your building something "real" with them when they may just think of you as someone online they can chat with when bored or lonely, because they like your personality, but really they never had any intentions of making it "real life" with you. Yeah, ppl are assholes! (Men and women)

Always remember us this way

I hope you dance...

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Aww?, yes, a song about not appreciating what we have until its gone. I think everyone can relate on some level, maybe why so many got emotional.?

Goodbye to you