Ananta

Who are you talking to? Personally, I'm not disrespecting anyone. I have no problem with men. And who is talking about race?

When I came home from work tonight and found out my husband's hours have been cut and that I will be paying quite a bit more towards bill's each month then I already was I sorta chuckled when I thought of this thread. Good damn thing I get paid very well for what I do and hourly I make more money than my husband does. No sexist male pigs work at my company thank goodness. I earn a fair wage for what I do.

Yes, we know. Good luck with that.

It was just a joke. Lol

@Shin Thank you! lol

Then per "your" logic your opinion holds no credit, is invalid and ppl should just put you on there ignore list. That's how silly what you said sounded like.

You aren't married but say stuff about marriage and divorce all the time! I'm pretty sure you have even said you have never been married, so same difference and yeah, age is just a number once one is no longer a child. To put someone on the ignore list because they are 25 and have an opinion about marriage is rather immature, imho.

Everyone has a different personality, that may have something to do with your reaction, another thing is if you secretly liked it on any level, not saying you did, but its another possibility. Perhaps, you just froze and wanted it to stop on it's own, meaning you are wayyy to passive and need to step up your boundries with ppl. I'm a pretty straightforward lady and if I want your damn hands off my breasts your gonna know it! If I sorta don't mind, then I might just say, what are doing? Or if I don't mind at all, I might say nothing at all and make out with you instead (Hypothetically, of course). Once at a party my friends sister who was known bisexual started commenting on how fine my ass was in my Jean's (she was standing behind me), then she grabbed ahold of my waistband and was talking in my ear. It's been awhile I can't recall what she said. I remember thinking if no one was around how far would I let this go? She was sorta pretty, lol. Anyways, my friend yelled at her sister to leave me alone and get the hell out. That was the end of that, but if I wasn't somewhat curious I would have put an end to it myself, as soon as she was checking me out. We all have are limits. I would encourage you to thinking about your limits and boundaries. If you don't want that women laying her hands on you again, then what will you do/say to her next time, regardless of the ton of excuses her cousin makes for her bad behavior. Stand up for yourself!

Oh. Wow, unbelievable! I literally would have gave her one stern warning to get her hands off my breasts, it IS sexual assault, if she didn't listen, then I would have zaped her with my stun gun. ⚡

Yes, it is, I will edit it out.

I was married at 21 after living together for 3 years and we have now been together for 31 years. Why wouldn't a 25 grown man have an opinion on marriage? Why not?

Love this!

@VeganAwake Perhaps you need to work on your joke delivery or the punch line or say, "just kidding". It's not coming across as joking. The material on this forum is rather serious, usually, wouldn't you say? So, the reader isn't going to assume you are kidding or joking. Anyways, I love Robin Williams and that's a funny scene. Trying to get on my good side? I don't have one... Lol. Jk

I could see you wanting your name to now be "Duality Police". So, no, not a dead give away. Sorry.

I didn't take it as a joke either. I thought you were serious.

???? That's funny! I've had some brutality by men starting at the age of about 8 when after heading home from the store on my bike after getting a gallon of milk. I was stopped by a group of 3 older guys. They threw my milk, slapped my face, pushed me around and then into a ditch and kicked in the spokes of my bike. All while laughing and thinking they were very cool. Cool until I ran home and got my dad, who got in his car and found them about a mile down the road. ? I've had other incidents unfortunately through out the years, men trying to follow me, hurt me or try to push me around, because they are bigger and stronger, but yeah, still it never made me a man hater or anything like that. I really blame the person themselves, not the gender as a whole. I also know some very sweet, caring and intelligent men. Also, men like @Serotoninluv who will stand up for women, because they know discrimination against women is wrong.

Bingo!

@Zigzag Idiot Hope you didn't write that because of me posting on here? I was just saying I love the "Terms of Endearment" movie. So, there is nooooo misunderstandings here with me!

What!? Lol ?? You afraid? I think you are spending much to much time worrying about nothing.

Under pressure!

I loved Debra W., Shirley M. And Jack N. in their roles in that movie, but Debra did make the movie. Even though Shirley Maclaine was hilarious and got an academy award for best actress. Jack N. got academy award for best supporting actor. The movie won academy award for best movie, best director, etc, etc.

I love "Terms of Endearment"!❤ I've seen it many times.

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@Svartsaft Think of ways to be around others where you won't feel like you don't belong, such as join a bowling league, yoga class, painting class, etc. Also, and I mention this fairly often, you can go to meetup.com and join an activity. They also have them for singles. Some are free and some have a small fee. I went to a out to lunch with the ladies one, lol, at a restaurant in a place called "little Italy" that I had never been to. It was nice and there were 12 ppl to chat with...?

This thread has run its course.