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@electroBeam Ppl usually have to feel somewhat invested to try to make something work that has fallen apart and if she just wants to be friends and nothing more, then you have to think what's best for you at this point. Many times its separating completely for awhile and reconnecting as friends later after your feelings aren't so intense. Her expecting you to go from romantic relationship to friends with cuddling and kisses isn't fair to you. Lastly, you could ask her if she wants to try counseling to help with the transition or maybe it would reveal if she thinks there is a possiblity of rekindling the spark.

I meant, I loved him, but wasn't "in" love anymore..meaning, romantically. If she's sending you mixed signals you'd have to ask her why? Is she trying to start over with you? (Ie, now wants to go on dates) Then, you aren't still in love her or you don't think it's worth the effort to get her back. No problem with that, just calling it like I see it. Or you aren't right for each other and should split, but these things are for you to decide, since we don't know you or your relationship.

I didnt read all replies, sorry, but here goes... Aren't you the guy who wanted to break up with his GF because you wanted to move out of the country for your job? Didn't you say you wanted to break up with her? I'm pretty sure it was you. Anyways, you haven't put enough quality time and effort into the relationship maybe and she could have slowly fell out of love with you, but still loves you. That's what's going on I think. Want to turn this around? You will need to spend time taking her out and making her fall in love with you again, otherwise she won't get back the sex/romantic feelings for you. Oh, the reasons she gave are just excuses, imo, because she couldn't say she has fallen out of love with you. Sometimes women know they are no longer "in love", but aren't sure why. This is just my opinion, take it with a grain of salt, but it's happened to me in relationships, so that's what I'm basing it on. I literally told him I feel like we are family, but I'm not "in" love with you anymore. I had been neglected too long.

@Byun Sean I only brought it up in this thread, because of this- I am Dij He apparently wanted it discussed in this thread. Since he referenced me and the strike he got. Anyways, you can PM me if you have further objections. I plan to drop it now.

@Byun Sean From Leo in the forum guidelines section: "NOTE: This is NOT an anything-goes free speech zone! You do NOT get to say toxic & fallacious things here with impunity. This community is regularly moderated to maintain high quality and civility. Trolls, exploiters, racists, ideologues, and devils are regularly banned. Remember that without moderation this community would be a toxic mess." I'm not the only mod pointing this out to him with warnings from the relationship sub forum and the other mod is male. Does he have a shadow issue from guys in his past too? Lol.

And "he" wants the divorce, "he" has another woman, that "he" will marry when the divorce is final. They were married 25 years without a prenup. I stated this last time you brought it onto the forum. Like two days ago. You are just endlessly trying to slander women in any way. Its noticable and you've been warned.

It most certainly is and you are but a shadow of the guy I once new when you called me Dij. Now you're all about red pill garbage ideology, treating women like crap, stereotyping, sexism and frankly many members here have complained about you already (woman and men). At least one asked how to block you. Another asked you to not respond to him any more. Perhaps this forum isn't for you?

Oh wow, I sleep very soundly, so I doubt I could wake up after a dream to write it down. Damn, that would probably happen to me too, especially since I'm so accustom to not remembering. I mean, over a decade is a very long time. I have the opposite problem. I could sleep through a hurricane. I hit snooze 6 times before I can wake up, lol. It's funny when I'm on-call, cause it's a toss up if they can wake me. Yes, that's cool. Thanks for the rest of your insights. I appreciate it.

I am right handed. I am a logical thinker, not too creative (although I use to oil paint), but I don't know if I believe in left or right brained. Why? I'm not sure at this point. Its been well over a decade. Are you glad you now recall your dreams? If so, why?

On the flip side, when I awake from sleep I have no dream recall at all. In 6 months time I might recall a tiny portion 1-2 times. So, for me, its waking, deep sleep, waking. It's been a very long time like this.

You can choose to not act on it though. If you so choose.

Also, my best advice, don't be a shallow Hal douche bag. You might get some sex, but you won't find someone to love. Work on some personal development stuff, get some new clothes and hair cut. Approach women you like, that you would like a date with and be genuine when you talk to them. Good vibes go a long way.

I think its bullshit tbh. I looked for guys that I found cute and that had something about their personality that I liked. Good chemistry doesn't hurt either. None of that had to do with "alpha" vs beta. Also, if a guy treated me like shit or talked to me like they were Gods gift, they got kicked to the curb.

@Annoynymous I never heard of red pill until this forum. I may be mistaken, but most seem angry towards women. They say a lot of angry things. Guess they can't get a women, so they are mad. I think they think an alpha male is aggressive, which isn't necessarily the case and can be a big turn off.

Look, they have been married 25 years, she's getting 1/2 the assets, how is that divorce rape? That's the law when a marriage dissolves. Also, he has another woman waiting in the wings that, per the article, he will marry when his and her (she's married too) divorce's are final. He isn't some kind of victim of his wife's actions, if that's where you were going with this. Not according to the article you posted at least.

They push the issue, to an uncomfortable level, of trying to be completely alone with you, prior to any real date of any kind or after one date. Big red flag (ie, let's just go back to my place or your place, etc). Also, they don't want to spend any money on you. They don't take you out to meet their friends. If you do take the bait and are alone with them, then be careful how far you go, if you don't want to get used. Not to mention, its incredibly dangerous for a woman to be completely alone with a man they don't know at all, if you know what I mean. Making them wait a month, at least, was my moto. If they won't wait, then they aren't looking for a serious girlfriend, they are looking for a hook-up.

What is she, a dog? A little respect for other human beings please.

Oh for crying out loud! ? Obviously, it's not love, but infatuation. However you could at least have good intentions, like wanting a date or get coffee to get to know her. Since you just want to use her for a fuck hopefully she will see through your BS and...run...fast. There are call-girls and websites to hook-up for sex, for that sorta thing, ya know. And guys wonder why good/quality girls are picky and give them a hard time (or the smart ones at least). Its because of exactly what you said, "you just want to fuck her", then drop her like a hot potato I'm sure. I doubt that's appealing to the normal woman.

@Meditationdude Are you the senses? No Are you the eyes that see? No Are you the mind in which things are seen? No Or can you see the mind? (Ie, thoughts) Are you the the witness to these things? Yes, you are the witness. So, who is "I"?

It was offensive. It's been hidden.

Haha?

@Shin hmm, interesting. Even if you just do it every other day? That's in moderation to me.