Sarah Marie

Agreed. I just recently changed how I felt about this.

@Leo Gura SERIOUSLY, my freaking life. I eat mostly vegetarian now too and my family doesn't understand why I pre make my food and eat it at family dinners. Maybe I don't want to eat velveta on top of pizza (gag). I need to re-watch that video because I have watched it. I literally do not know how to bridge this gap and stay where I'm at. I feel like I'm going to end up happy alone in a cabin eating my raw veggies.

I genuinely don't know how to know I am not really who I think I am and still live a "normal" life.

@Avi My life. LOL.

@Simon Zackrisson Thats me, I'm that crab. LOL.

I didn't think about this in the slightest. It takes the frustration away, this is why I post here, people give me different perspectives.

@Natura Sonoris Yes! I completely agree about my ego and being why I posted this. I do understand that's what's happening, but struggle with how to get out of it, without feeling like I want to go live in a cabin in the woods alone. I am going to re watch those two videos, I know it will help. I found myself feeling like, I would support them in ANY of their changes even if I didn't agree so why can't they just support me. I understand this is victim energy and needs to be fixed on my part.

@shouldnt Just bullshit societal brainwashing in my opinion.

@Avi this is so interesting. I understand addictions very well and have suffered from different kinds of addictions. Awesome for you this makes me happy for you!

@Sigma Thank you! This makes sense to me, they don't even let me guess what they're thinking they all just tell me. Just have to find that balance where it doesn't bother me to hear and keep on doing what I am doing.

@Anicko I feel the opposite of buying into that, I'm trying to figure out how to have better, stronger, and longer orgasims. When I think about living to my full potential, having awesome orgasims is important. The idea that sex or orgasim is bad is completely silly to me. I feel like that's saying my urge for water is bad, your body is thirsty so drink.

@Draconis Chaser I think my husband is going through this right now. Have you been able to identify your life purpose or passion?

Nope, I still am trying to grasp why people don't want to have orgasims. Talk about feeding my muse.

@Abeo Maria I watch porn, I do not care if my partner watches porn. However, if he was watching it for an unreasonable amount of time and/or I thought he had an addiction to it, I would share my concern. If he was consistently choosing to watch porn over being intament with me it would be something I addressed as well.

I genuinely applaud those of you who don't feel that this is a need. I would DIE if I repressed my kink. I can go without sex, but I still have to do something. I would never accomplish anything if I tried to ignore it.

@Tim W Traveling alone sounds amazing to me! I used to be a "people" person, now I love to be alone every second I get. I am sure you'd meet many people on your journey who will be amazing.

You think about what is the root cause of these behaviors? Why aren't you showing yourself self love? Why the self loathing? Also would recommend getting your blood work done to make sure there isn't any other underlying issues. Good luck, you can do this! I was bulimic and addicted to drugs at the same time, so I know all about this stuggle. Baby steps are key!

Are you into personal development and not your partner? How does this work out over time? I am married, extremely passionate about self mastery. My husband is an amazing person, but naturally we've (or I, I really don't think he notices) felt a shift since I've really committed to this. Beside the "grey areas" (which include things like him watching hours of T.V, me watching none, our diet, what we enjoy on our free time etc.) I don't necessarily feel like we are growing together. Which means we are growing apart. Recently it is making me feel like only a matter of time before he or I decide were not on the same paths. I am very comfortable with letting things play out whatever way they are supposed to. I am just extremely focused on self mastery, becoming more educated, enlightenment etc and it has changed the way I feel completely. It's changed my entire being. Parts of me feel like every relationships have their ups and downs. But, I can't help but wonder how we will connect when my habits have changed so much. I would love to hear from those of you who have been or are in similar situations. ** I just want to note that I have mentioned the disconnect and he said he didn't "feel" it. Also, I am very respectful of both of our journeys and don't share much of mine with him, nor do I push my personal development on him.**

@Tancrede Pouyat That is exactly what was happening, I was emotionally attached. I see him suffered and think, why the hell wouldn't you do something to help yourself? Thank you, I have been feeling a lot better about it.

@William32 Sorry, I don't think there is really any nice way to put this. Have you ever considered that Leo's videos actually ARE stopping suffering of the world? Let me give you an example. A female, mother and wife who had been suffering from codependency and people pleasing all her life. She struggled with bulimia and addiction problems stumbles upon Leo's videos. She watched the "How To Stop Caring What People Think Of You" and suddenly something he said clicked in her mind, the way he said it made sense to her. With every video she watched it made more and more sense she started down a road of self love. Well, it turns out this girl is a medium who can connect living people to their dead loved ones. Because she was able to work through her issues with his help, she is helping thousands of people who are suffering here. Well that girl is me, and I am only ONE of those thousands of views on YouTube. Imagine all the others who he is helping. I would highly recommend you sit down and take an honest look at yourself and ask "Why do I feel like I can say where someone needs to be on their journey? Who am I to criticize another's values and priorities?"

Oh I so want to go to this!!!

I would love to see this, I don't doubt anything anymore.

@FairyTale Your username seems so fitting. First, I don't know if it's possible to "make a man fall in love with you." Just be you, if he loves you he's for you, If he doesn't that's fine too it's just not meant to be. Second, coming from someone who has never had an orgasim from penatration alone, I can tell you that it is possible to have an awesome sex life without him being able to "proform" to his full potential. He would have to learn your body by using his hands, mouth, and perhaps some toys. I think the best option would be to give it time and space. Be you, focus on you and if it is meant to happen it will fall back together with timing. I know this is probably not what you want to hear, but it's true.

@Jonathan Cabrera My dad dropped out of college and started his business, he's a millionaire. Very possible, but you have to be extremely motivated and be willing to learn. I went to college and feel like I learned more working for free during my internship then my entire college career.